Why do I always get laid after a wedding party?

[Anonymous]

I have 2 older sisters who got married and twice I ended up in bed with a guy I met at the wedding party. Tree of my cousins got married and the same thing happened. I see other single girls getting really close with guys at wedding parties. There is something about the atmosphere there that makes me want to go to bed with a guy. And way more guys hit on me at weddings than at other parties. Is it because guys dig bridesmaids so much? Is it cause the guys are dressed better and it feels less low class to go to bed with them? Any own experiences with this situation?

[madhatters4]

I think there are several factors

1) guys are in suits or tuxes, girls are in nice dresses and made up. So people look more attractive

2) I think there is a biological reaction towards romance when people are in the presence of people getting married. I think whether we know it or not, and I think it's especially true for women, there is a tendency towards romance when we see other people doing something romantic

3) bars particularly open bars. toss that on top of the biological reaction I mentioned and people dressed up and the recipe seems pretty complete for some action

[HandsomeRaj]

1. You are a good looking girl

2. You have a good body

3. You are open to sex

4. Bridesmaids catch attention generally (something to do with psychology with the marriage part + they are one of the best dressed too)

5. The excitement and the idea of the wedding that peps up your want to have sex

6. This also happens at funerals (people have sex after funerals too)

7. 5 & 6 cause they are emotional situations and sex is a natural release :)

[sockz]

You've got your best dress on, you're feeling great about how you look. Everyone around you is the same. You're all there to celebrate love and if you're single you don't want to leave there alone. I fail to see the mystery here. It's a known fact that weddings are amongst the best atmosphere's for hooking up. I would be more concerned if you kept getting laid after funerals hahaha

[Asker]

haha! OK thanks.

[Anonymous]

don't know, maybe cos that's what goes around when there is alcohol, people feel horny and think they do who ever they want? this reminds me of the wedding crasher movie.

[martyfellow]

Many girls are pretty desperate to find a guy. Guys at wedding parties are dressed up, on their est beavior, often people they already know fairly well..and there's usually a lot of alcohol at some point in the celebration.

You add all that together, and...whie it's never happened to me, I haven't attended that many formal weddings with bridesmaids and all that. My crowd tends to elope to get married..!

[martyfellow]

So, best answer?

[MikeK]

I dunno... frankly all the weddings I've gone to have been G rated - hell, one of them was even a dry wedding! (no alcohol being served)...

[johnvanjohn]

Well in a wedding situation... love is in the air! you cannot escape from that thin scent of erotic love that floats around you. and the maternal and wife insticts of woman are being stimulated in such an enviroment, after all a single woman would think, what if that was my wedding today...

[Asker]

hmm. Maybe I think like that sub-conciously. But I wouldn't link a one night stand to directly to a marriage...

[johnvanjohn]

no you wouldnt, but you should start from somewhere. the hope of finding "the one" rarely fades both in men and women, and subconciously you entertain the possiblity that even a more "shallow" kind of intimacy might gain strong foundations in the longterm... after all your partner for a life will also be your sex partner for a life...

[Anonymous]

Many girls do this lol

[johnvanjohn]

oh ... is that so? I ll tell my single friends to attend more marriages from now on looking for drunk and willing well dressed ... ladies. and who knows they might find their other half but probably from the rest of the girls. the one night stand category would suffice for that night I guess...

[Opinion Owner]

Get a life

[Asker]

girl, don't go into this guy's comment. He's just a sad being who has empty his bag by hand way to often. Now he tries to call us sluts and stuff like that.

[Opinion Owner]

I figured that out a long time ago about slut shaming bitter virgin dudes.

[hannibal214]

if the used up shoe fits...

[johnvanjohn]

Ha this turned really funny. Being a male "slut" since 14 I don't judge anyone, but I judge you for being so leveling and putting all girls into one sack. None of my friends, girlfriends, exes or relatives ever told me such a story, and I laughed at your ridiculous saying," nuh all the girls do it, many at least". well try not to generalise people when thinking for yourself. and what's with the wedding o.n.s. issue, don't you at least have a proper boyfriend?

[Opinion Owner]

bitter virgins alert

[johnvanjohn]

whatever floats your boat, I will have children in some months and you' ll probably be still attending wendings to get laid. I never went to a wending unaccompanied, not once. (well to my aunt's but I was little) I never once did a one night stand as well. I cheated only once but I always have mutual trust with my partners, who of course value themselves enough not to be one night wedding party stand material. and I don't sleep with a girl who doesn't make my palms sweat and my heart beating.

[Opinion Owner]

Don't talk to me like you know me because you don't and what the hell is a wending?

[johnvanjohn]

a wending is a spelling mistake, and little do I care to know about you, your answer itself was quite a confession, one doent have to go in a more indepth analysis to draw results. and please stop bundling all women in the same bag, there are wonderful girls out there. the ones that have a strong sex life and would even hook up there but are quite classy to ever make vague statements like "why am I getting it at every wedding party- and find response- all girls must be doing this, lol" lol indeed

[Opinion Owner]

Seriously? Get over it. I didn't say all. Nobody cares except you because you're pathetic now move on

[Asker]

johnvanjohn, nobody needs your sh*t here. please stop acting like an a**hole and get off this question. You're one of those people who feel strong behind his computer and likes to offend others, and when they talk back, you can't let it go and move on. pathetic...

[johnvanjohn]

ok you didn't understand anything, no purpose on trying to explain it to your little brain. you embarrassed yourself with a ridiculous question and now you say you are offended and that you don't need my bs. no miss we don't need your bs. this site is full of immature 17y.olds, not what I expected. you curse and swear a stranger. now who is feeling strong behind a computer. I don't need that machine at all. but you could you last a week without your "social" media spreading self-ridicule questions?

[johnvanjohn]

i gave ridiculously much time on this question I'm out. you got the meaning from the majority of the male answers I think.

[Opinion Owner]

Good now piss off johnnyboy

[Asker]

bye john! nice talking with you :)

[johnvanjohn]

i ought to return the salute of the asker despite it being slightly ironic, but there isn't any contention between us anyway, good bye to you too anonymous asker and be well. oh and sugarlips, yeah you, the kind answerer, don't worry, johhny pissed of long ago

[Anonymous]

Just out of curiousity (if you don't mind answering), how exactly did these guys end up getting you into bed? What things did they say or do to get you interested in having sex with them? I'm just looking for some tips haha

[Asker]

they just danced, gave me drinks, were overall nice and showed interest. Some were a little more straight forward with taking me to bed. There was never much love involved actually. I kinda knew it was just one time only sex. But I had fun :)

[Opinion Owner]

That's cool. Is there anything in particular they said that sparked your interest?

[johnvanjohn]

what kind of question is that? aside the pride and social demands women are equally if not more love-seeking than us. when they get in lust mode their uncontrollable (except if they have really low libido). I went to my fiance's office and her single colleage friends were like "huh you got such a nice boyfriend and you ve been hiding him from us? (leering faces)"hiding me? yeah like she was obliged not to (not that she ever had such "hiding purpose"). (well female friendship also differs though)