It's true that most girls would prefer a guy who is at least average. But that doesn't mean every girl is a size queen who will be disappointed if it's not a foot long. And it also doesn't mean that it's a big deal to us if it's on the smaller side. Sure, we have our preferences, just like guys have theirs about female bodies. But men are the ones who drive themselves to the brink of insanity over the size of that particular appendage. I would much prefer it if guys weren't so prone to that insecurity. I feel a constant obligation to try to reassure them that it's not a big deal. Frankly, if there is any reason why I WOULD prefer a big guy, it would be to escape the whole insecurity issue, not because I actually care about the size of the penis itself.
ooh a new reason for why it does matter! Because insecure men are unattractive.
I never told guys to be insecure about this. I genuinely do not care much about size and I think it's sad that guys freak out over it so much. I'm not saying that the insecurity is a deal breaker either, just that it would be nice (for me AND him) if it could be avoided. How would you feel if you were with a girl who constantly talked about her insecurity over, for example, her breast size, and wouldn't listen when you told her you like them how they are? Don't blame me for not wanting to
feel like I'm responsible for someone else's self esteem.
I wrote a story about this the other day, called "Goldilocks and the three penises: a supplemental" or something along those lines.
You need to go read that, because to be perfectly honest, women (except size queens) DO NOT CARE. Men create this stigma about having a big d*ck and assume that women only want that. Truth is, your size doesn't matter at all to us. Because it's basically the pot calling the kettle black.
You guys don't lie about our breasts, so why should we lie about your penises?
Quit hatin on chicks who don't care about size.
Yeah maybe a bigger d*ck feels better but personally, the best sex I ever had was with an average guy. Average Joe could get me to O town, Big Joe...not so much.
ok so size doesn't matter but "a bigger d*** feels better". Hmm...Something doesn't add up. As for the O's yes skill is important and I'm not saying it isn't but to say size/shape or whatever is 100% insignificant is a falsehood.
You misquoted me, I believe I said, "maybe a bigger d*ck feels better ". Maybe. I don't think that a maybe constitutes "it is"
i have had sex with a guy 4 inch and a guy just over 8 in and yes it is a difference sex feels better with the bigger guy. smaller guys slip out more because they can't take long stokes so I have to disagree with u
i think that guys care more and are making themselves insecure about their size, and then assume we care most about size (some girls do, but not all)
if someone is lucky enough to get into bed with me, a smaller d*** would not be the deal breaker
it just might mean that he has to work a little harder
How magnanimous. You do realize you're supposed to work as hard as your partner, right?
Why have to work harder if it doesn't matter? And I didn't say it was a deal breaker. All I am saying is simply that IT MATTERS to some degree. Why is it so hard for females to admit this. I think Shaun nailed it with his answer by the way. Guys are so much better at cutting through the bullsh*t than girls.
*the couple has to work a little harder except I meant HE might have to work harder in general, with whoever he gets with, come on.
every girl wants at least an average size penis that is true and most would prefer a big one. Girls who say they don't just don't want the man to feel bad
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why would most prefer a big one? Ahhh its because it feels better/fuller, provides easier and different types of orgasms and my favorite...makes those orgasm better and more intense. Am I wrong?
it I a feeling of havin something that fills your insides what a small d*** can't do. it feels different
Yes more pressure. gives better and easier orgasms.
Because they know they can't ALL get the big penis they want, and they can't have their fallback guys totally insecure and worthless in the bedroom.
If women were half as obsessed about the size of their vagina's as men are with the size of their penis', we wouldn't be having these discussions.
No, we would be having twice as many of them.
lol maybe you're right.
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Noone believes you. Angry people tell the truth
Because they'll get negative feedback for admitting to it. Just like if a person admitting to being shallow.
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well the sizes we care about clearly aren't nothgin to do with a mans d***! we love average cause duh average is the norm a penis perfeclyt designed for a perfect fit in a vagina. I mean why would you want a huge ass horse d***? when on 3 to 5 inches of it only go into the vagina before hitting the cervix and can't go in anymore. just be happy with what you got
one word..."Tenting". Most women can take 8 inches easily if its properly warmed up. Obviously the man in your pick isn't packing or else you'd know this.
oh trust me he is hun your just jealous of him and every man you see or this question wouldn't even exist.
d*** long thick and curved for PERFECT gspot stimulation just one of the special girls who get the guy better than you
5-6 inches is the average and that can still pleasure a woman so can a 4 incher, but I think most women would prefer 7 inches as it's not to big but not to small and girth can also be very important as it goes deep but touches her walls
Having said that dhe might be very or a little tight and might like a bit if pain so the ideal size for some women will fluxuate
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