Why do girls call men pigs because they want to have sex?

[Gregs]

I see it constantly and I'm fed up with it. What's sex? it is something physical that gives you good emotions, women will constantly attack men for wanting to feel good and then turn around and say how they want "love" and "connection". Well those things are just good feelings from physical things someone does, like buy flowers or talk, just because it's different doesn't make it better or worse. I think both sides need to meet each in the middle because a woman that want's just just love and connection, but won't give a guy any physical intimacy is no different from those guys that want only sex out of women and can't connect with them emotionally

[Jinmetsu_Rasetsu]

I am not even sure on what basis do you make the connection to what you are attempting to convey... It is as if you are speaking of car engines, and then speaking on windshields on semi trucks... No connection at all...

Physical "connection" and emotional connection are not on in the same and can not be interchangable. they can be used in concert for a larger purpose, but if you are overlooking one for the other, it is a flawed conception that you are following...

No offense, dude, but you need to learn to have an emotional connection with a woman before trying to screw... perhaps you can somehow make it more worth the effort in that manner. And your advances would not be construed as "piggish".

[Gregs]

My advances are fine because I know how to balance out creating an emotional connection with a woman, and still taking care of my need by not putting up with any of the woman's sh*t, now explain to me why a physical connection and an emotional connection are not interchangable, I'm still waiting

[Jinmetsu_Rasetsu]

Being called a pig is the result of you not knowing. Simple... I need not explain... Igt is obvious, lest you can not see the forest for the trees... If you need me to explain, then you really do not understand... PERIOD.

[Gregs]

If it's so obvious then explain to me how it's different? It's pretty easy to explain something obvious like the difference between a car and a piece a fruit. Let me explain AGAIN why you are wrong, tell me one way a woman will feel and emotional connection and I will give you an example how it's the same

[Jinmetsu_Rasetsu]

No offense, you must have lied about your age... Any person past the age of 25 should know... I think you are a troll... I am not wasting my time.

[Gregs]

You can't explain it because you don't think, you just say something and believe it or hear something and believe it and then mindlessly go about your way, have fun

[Jinmetsu_Rasetsu]

No I don't explain myself to people with half a brain...

[Jinmetsu_Rasetsu]

Update: He is a shallow jackass loser...

[sugarwookie]

Some guys really are discusting and don't know how to controll themselves and give us a bad name. Was talking to a friend of mine today over pizza when she made a weird face at a man walking by. I guessed who it was-a month ago she went to his house (as just a friend, she's not single) and they hung out, laughed and watched a movie. During the movie he started touching her a little and shed scoot away and reminded him she had a boyfriend. He continued and continued to the point were he almost ended up raping her-so she called me to pick her up at 2 in the morning.

In the end girls want love and respect in and out of bed (unless she's kinky anyway;) -and you need to give her that love and respect.

[Gregs]

that is a pig

[sugarwookie]

exactly, and its people like this that create those kind of ideals in women IMO.

[Gregs]

what about the women that think that men who want sex AT ALL are pigs?

[sugarwookie]

Then they are selfish and close minded idiots. Its never wrong to WANT sex in both genders. Since sex is suchhh a novelty with these folks, then an emotional connection should be too. Tit for tat, and most girls value that over sex.

[38rakia38]

Sex and communication go hand in hand.

Like Yin and Yang.

If you don't have communication in a sexual situation, you're probably having bad sex. Because you're not connected/on the same page.

I don't call men pigs...

Hell, I like having sex as much as the next guy.

Does that make me a Sow?

[Gregs]

it shouldn't make you anything but normal, but some women will have you think overwise

[38rakia38]

Pffft, I could give a flying f*** what other women think of me. Or any one for that matter. Have the kind of sex you want to have, none of the kind you don't.

[kkandbb]

Men who only want women for sex don't even care about the woman they're f-king, they treat and think of them as dirt.

Love is wanting to devote yourself to another, including physical pleasure, and sharing your life with them.

There's a big difference. Plus giving STD's to everyone is just gross

[kkandbb]

I don't think any woman calls a man who wants sex a pig only guys who JUST want sex. Everybody wants sex.. it's normal.

[Gregs]

Well they do, we have one right here and I just asked a question that will show you they do: link

[kkandbb]

There was only one anon user who said men were pigs. How do you know they weren't f-cking around or trollin'?

[Anonymous]

If all you want to do is have sex with me but you have no regard for me as a person and don't care about my feelings, then yes you are a pig. There are a lot of guys who are like that so that's why we call them pigs.

[Gregs]

I agree, but if a girl want's a guy to care about her feelings, but she doesn't care about the feelings he has from a desire for physical initmicy then she is a selfish pig just the same

[darlanoy0510]

Why does guys likes to call a girl a whore? They want the same thing as the guy.

[Gregs]

I don't, you can read a story I wrote about "slut" and why I hate the word in my profile

[Shaun]

We don't all want the same thing, some people want emotional attachment with their sex and some people just want sex without emotional attachment. This is when the name calling comes in, when people don't stick to their own, feelings get hurt.

[Jinmetsu_Rasetsu]

I agree... I would rather have emotional attachment myself. But there are those that do not desire it and because of that, they tend to leave a wake of emotional destruction. It goes both ways, pertaining to males and females... Sad really...

[darlanoy0510]

I'm talking about the guys that want only sex but no attachment and same go with some girls they want sex but they get call for being a heartless bitch or whore.

[darlanoy0510]

Update: I don't think he is a pig...he knows what he wants and if the girl is not willing to give it to him then he have a right to move on to another girl. Just like a girl if she feels that he is not good for her she have a right break up with him and find a good guy for her.

[Gregs]

true, either neither of them is a pig or they both are, anyone who says otherwise either doesn't get it, is to selfish to get it, or gets it and has their own agenda

[jap88]

Women call men pigs when all they want is sex. At least the reasonable ones. If they want to have sex, but are actually invested in the relationship, they are generally not labeled as a pig.

However, a fair number of women use sex as a method of control. Calling men pigs is simply a way to bring down self-esteem to exert greater control over them (obviously, this is just some, not all.)

[diamond3]

if all a guy want is sex then yes he is a pig

[Gregs]

Well if all a girl wants is "love" and "connection" she is a selfish bitch

[diamond3]

to want love is selfish? lol you are really a pig then

[Gregs]

What is love tho? when you think about it, it is a GOOD FEELING inside your body, you feel good, guys feel good from sex, they are wired to feel love physically

[Jinmetsu_Rasetsu]

No offense dude, You and I are about the same age, and I think that is a delusional concept, and I am a cynic pertaining to "love"...

[Gregs]

it's great that you said it's delusional, now provide and explination

[Jinmetsu_Rasetsu]

Well, you were called a "pig", right? there is your proof. If you do not wish to be called such, refrain from doing that which owes you the dubious title...

[Gregs]

Well I'll just say that you f*** sheep because you call people dude, I won't explain it to you, I'll just say stuff like "It's obvious, you can't see the sheep for the sheep pussy" and compare how you calling people dude and not f***ing sheep is like comparing an engine and a windscreen, but won't actually explain anything or think it through and I guess it will have to be true

[Gregs]

Meh, I know people like Jinmetsu, he is basically everything he called me, a troll, a moron and a jackass that will block you just so they can get the last word in, lucky it's my question :)

[Shaun]

Without 'connection' sex is just scratching an itch, like a pig would do.

[Shaun]

Update:THOSE women have real problems. It's GOOD that they identify themselves in such a way.

[Gregs]

what about connection without sex?

[Shaun]

I've not encountered that.

[Gregs]

Well you probably didn't put up with it, or simply walked around women who would want that from you, and you could be called a pig for that too

[Shaun]

I've just never had a woman who wanted an emotional attachment from me, and to whom I became emotionally attached, turn me down physically. Maybe it's because I want the emotional attachment first as well, I dunno.

[Gregs]

I'm sure the first thing you wanted was physical when you looked at her and said to yourself "she looks good", but I get where you are coming from

[Anonymous]

Some men are pigs. They just see women as sex objects and only want to use them for their body.