I don't hate prostitutes or escorts, I worry about them. I had a friend who use to abuse drugs. At first she'd steal money from her parents and friends and then she got kicked out. She turned to prostitution just to keep her drug habit going and to have a roof over her head. She was raped on multiple times, had times where people would skip out on payment, had a gun pulled on her and fell pregnant only to be forced in to having a back street abortion by her pimp. She's got genital herpes because one guy who offered her £600 to have sex without a condom. Although she's now sorted her life out, she will never be able to have children because of an infection caused from that abortion.
The distinction between a one night stand and prostitution is that for some women they 'need' to prostitute themselves just to survive. It mayn't be the best option but for some it feels like the only option. One night stands, although questionable, happen because both people in that moment WANT to do it.
For every up market call girl who gets thousands for one night, there are countless others who live in rotten conditions where their madams or pimps take an extortionate commission for a primarily abusive employment. There are women who die from infections, are killed or injured by their customers and there's little anyone can do to control this because prostitution works beneath the radar of the law (depending on where you are in the world), there is no advisory body or orders in place to protect those women.
VERY few prostitutes are prostitutes because they just can't get enough sex.1 1 0 0I take no issue with Prostitutes what so ever. As far as I am concerned she is just doing what she feels she needs to do to get by or what her Pimp tells her she must in order to "pay him back". My beef is with the John's. They are the ones perpetuating the problem of sex-slavery all over the world by treating sex as something that should be readily available to whoever wants it but lacks the character or desire it takes to go and treat a woman like an actual person. That is who I look down on. So gross and pathetic.
0 0 0 1I fully respect sex workers, but that's because I don't believe there's anything wrong with it, I've educated myself on the issue, and I know that other people's sex lives are theirs, not mine.
I suppose people who are incredibly invested in the idea that sex is somehow a measure of a woman's worth find it outrageous that someone would "throw away their value for a few hundred bucks." Some people also have a stereotype in mind that these women have low self-respect, no dignity, are miserable, etc.4 1 0 0
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I'm not sure that girls hate them so much as a general rule. If anything, girls may feel that such a profession causes the exploitation against women, which is what they are really against. In some cases, that may be true, especially lower-end prostitutes which are often treated horribly by their pimps and johns. For them, it is a truly awful lifestyle and one that no girl would be envious of.
For girls that are higher-end escorts, they make huge sums of money and aren't forced to do so by some street thug pimp. Moral issues aside, some girls may be jealous that other girls can make such money while selling themselves in such a manner.
For other girls, they might dislike the idea of prostitutes because the prostitute is providing a service without attachment. Some girls like the idea of "giving" a man sex, in exchange for commitment. A prostitute short-circuits that game by always delivering a "good" without additional stipulations.
For another type of girl, they might not like prostitutes because they'd like to get married, and one of the main reasons why men get married is because they want regular access to sex. If marriage is less attractive if men can get a lot what they want elsewhere, for less effort, that might discourage some girls.
Just some guesses...2 0 0 0I don't think all women hate prostitutes to you fine gals a tip of my hat. Now to those that due their are some oblivious answers one they have a husband and are not in a open marriage IE monogamy and prostitution makes easier to cheat same with in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. I don't think most woman don't as guy is single sound mess up but true think about it your not with her why should she worry about another woman. And yes not every guy that see a prostitute is married or has a girlfriend men have a biological need to procreate. Yes men can go yes without sex years even decades but the need always wins and it always will. And my last point in my opinion prostitutes are safer than one stands from a chick you met at the bar prostitutes make clients wear a condom that girl you just met might not :(
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10 2I don't dislike them or have anything against them. What they decide to do with their lives is their business. I can however see the point of seeing that there is a lot of potential in so many of these young women and even to this day and age a lot of them don't have a choice when they get into that kind of a career. I wouldn't dislike somebody because of what they chose to do with their life though. It's none of my business nor is it of any other girl who isn't them or who isn't directly affected by their life decisions (ie: mother or sister)
Anyone who hates them should reflect on themselves. If you truly think you're better than them, go live your life in whatever successful way you feel suits you. Don't waste your time hating someone you don't know or can't even begin to understand by looking at.1 1 0 0A girl having a one night stand...and a woman going through hundreds-thousands of men are totally different things.
0 1 0 2not really if they're both being safe, it's having sex with random men
What do you mean not really? If a woman is a career prostitute she is sleeping with hundreds of men in a few months-years and thousands by the end of her career. Some regular girls may be promscious but it is very less likely to hear she has a number has high has a prostitute.
So, what I am saying is you cannot compare the two. There is a big difference between the two.
I don't hate them but I also don't have one night stands either so I have room to judge haha
I see girls who frequently have one nighters as lower than prostitutes actually. They're really doing the same thing but getting nothing out of it but a memory. Could have at least charged, its equally as promiscuous
A lot of girls don't really need a big reason to look down on another woman. it's in our nature0 0 0 0I don't hate them I just think they should get a real job.
0 0 1 1Hmm, good question. I don't hate prostitutes. I think they are pretty smart. They get payed for their one-night stand. Instead of just "giving" it up.
I;m not saying it's right or wrong, I'm saying that the idea behind it is interesting.
No, I don't want to be a prostitute. lol0 0 0 0
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