Why do girls like rough sex?

[Anonymous]

I always hear many many girls say they like bondage p*rn or they like being tied up and like getting spanked and choked. Why do girls like that stuff so much?

[various]

Every woman has a different taste in sex. It's simply preference. There's really no explanation other than the fact that some women simply get turned on by this type of rough play. It's like how some men love to be dominated, or how some couples enjoy role play. There are people who don't like sex at all and others who are addicts. There are some who prefer the vanilla lovin' and many who want to push the boundaries. There are all kinds of people in this world and some women fit into the category of appreciating rough sex. I think another reason why some women may prefer rough sex is because they might enjoy masculinity that overpowers their feminine senses.

In rare occasions (or maybe many), loving rough sex MIGHT have something to do with their childhood or their past relationships. But it all depends on the type of woman you are with and what her life has been like.

[sockz]

Rough is in our nature. It's a misconception that rough only leads to bad things.

While some people actually like the combination of pleasure and pain, a lot of the time rough sex is simply rough and the goal isn't so much intense pain as the threat of it, which in turn stimulates the adrenal response as the body prepares for self-defence.

Simply put, when the body goes into that self-defence mode, you experience an intense adrenaline rush that you don't get with regular slow love making kind of sex. Adrenaline rushes increase the release of dopamine (pleasure neurochemical) and improve muscular responses, the combination of both these physical responses with sexual stimulation leads to some pretty darn intense physical pleasure.

[t0rontogirl]

not a majority of them like sex that rough (choking and spanking and scratching etc), and the ones who do like being dominated, it's just what turns them on. just don't make the assumptions all girls like that stuff; definitely ask to make sure before you try it out lol

[samhradh_leannan]

There are guys who like that too. It just depends on the person. It is not really a gender thing.

[gingerme1]

I may be going out on a limb here but ... It is f****** AWESOME!

[Asker]

But why though? What makes pain and stuff so exciting?

[gingerme1]

There is a fine line between pleasure and pain. I don't like to be tortured, just rapture

[Asker]

Why do you like it though?

[gingerme1]

Because it encompasses both my mind and body which leads to incredible orgasms

[Anonymous]

I don't like it rough.

[Asker]

What do you like?

[Opinion Owner]

Romantic love making

[Anonymous]

It's their fantasy or fetish all life long.

[Anonymous]

I personally don't.

[Asker]

What do you like? I'm jw not creepin

[Opinion Owner]

Slow.

[Anonymous]

I don't like anything painful, but I do like when my boyfriend ties/holds my arms above my head or physically dominates me in other ways. I love to tease him and drive him crazy til he flips me over onto my back and holds me down and makes me do what he wants. After over a year together, I trust him completely, so it's really sexy when he overpowers me (and he knows I like it). There's just something that's such a turn on about knowing that I physically can't do anything to get away from him and he's in total control over my body. But this is ONLY because I love and trust him completely, and I know he *would* stop in a millisecond if I asked him to.

[Anonymous]

I could be wrong but I think the root to women liking submissive rough sex is the desire to feel like their body is desired, see dem animalistic eyes rooming her body cause she's just too purdy, or she just likes flucking just as much as hardcore guys like flucking being submissive or dominant :)

[gingerme1]

Agree a primal instinct