Obviously there's still that social stigma that girls who enjoy sex and/or admit to liking sex are sluts, and that term has negative connotations. That's what has been pushed on women for years.
But the situation that you describe... I think it has more to do with not liking the deception of a situation like that, than it does with a girl not wanting to admit she loves sex. Some girls are still very much NOT into casual sex. They only want to sleep with someone they like or love. Most guys know this. In which case, a lot of guys out there will be deceptive and make a girl THINK he likes them, because that ups his chances of sleeping with her. Only for her to later find out that it was just sex for him, and he never liked her at all. I would be mad about that too, and I DON'T have a problem with casual sex. I just don't like being lied to or manipulated. BUT I think if more guys were straight up about what they actually want, and are willing to accept that that could mean NOT getting any, a lot of those problems wouldn't be an issue anymore.
At the same time, I know guys aren't the only ones at fault. Girls often delude themselves into thinking that if they DO sleep with a guy, that he will eventually like them for more than sex, and that's usually not the case. Then girls end up with their feelings hurt and pointing fingers, when they actually more or less knew all along that the guy was only in it for sex. They were just hoping and hoping and denying, and then were let down.
liking sex & being used for sex are COMPLETELY different things...
You can enjoy doing math, but you would not want people to be friends with yo just so you will do there lessons for them.
also womens sexuality is not celebrated & encouraged the way that mens is...even if it is more so now, there is still a lot of baggage from the past. history...
&The sex that is promoted today, it is not in the form of a relationship where two people know they care about each other...It is as one night stands friends with benefits or other forms that turns it into a very distant cold experience ,which can also feel demeaning, if your whole person is not appreciated or accepted, & this is not acceptable to many people.
& it is completely irrational to say a set of people blow a subjective experience out of proportion...unless you want to say your sexual preference is the standard-which it is not-than people having a certain reverence for an activity that you to do not, is simply a different mode of appreciation.
why should it bother you, if someone wants to value themselves & their body & whomever they choose to share it with ?...i understand it might make scoring a little harder if you have to respect the field.
I do not see where PRETEND fits in , other than that being your opinion of women...
well I love sex... but most girls including myself don't go around telling people that because then we get called sluts.. and yea we don't like that
I think the main reason they pretend they don't like sex, is because a lot of guys might consider them as "slutty" or "easy", and thus not respect them. Plus there's the fact that girls are raised in a manner that indicates they shouldn't be very open about sex, and thus if a girl becomes percieved as wanting to have sex, this is often seen as something negative by society. I think it's retarded but sadly, that's the way our society has been crafted. It's not that they lie about it, it's that we make them feel bad about being honest about it.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!well not all girls pretend ...i personally don't like sex and I can't do it if I don't want to ..its a personal choice ..you just have to deal with it
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