Why do girls say size doesn't matter?

[Anonymous]

yet half the time they're bragging about their boyfriend being big, how they love getting f***ed by a "big" **** (they never say A cock, just big) why contradict yourself ladies ?

[moniquinha]

Honestly?...We contradict ourselves because we have something called empathy.

Size does for the most part matter. A bigger d*** feels better to most women...sorry it's just the truth. But we don't tell guys this because we are trying to protect their egos, because we as women, know what it's like to constantly have our bodies compared to supermodels and p*rn stars. Let me ask you...does breast size matter? Of course it does, to most guys it does...bigger t*ts get more attention. Everyone knows that...but you're not gonna go around telling girls (especially the ones you like) that small t*ts just don't get your d*** as hard, are you? How about vaginal size?...do you want it to feel like you're throwing a hotdog down a hallway? No. Are you going to tell some chick her vag's way too stretched out? Unless you're a total jackass, probably not.

So, in short, we tell white lies to protect people's feelings.

[Asker]

Ok so why should smaller/average guys even try then ? when a bigger d*** feels better

[moniquinha]

Sex can still be good. Even with a small or average d***. In fact it can be quite good. I didn't mean to say that it sucks if it's not huge or something. But seriously...if two girls were totally into you, you could have either one. One was flat-chested and stretched out and the other was voluptous and tight, which would you choose? Sexually, we are a competitive species. This doesn't mean that the "average" doesn't have a chance. It just means we are going to go for who is more appealing to us.

[Asker]

So what your saying is that average guys aren't really appealing, women just settle for less damn that's harsh, guys really don't care THAT much about breast size

[moniquinha]

Come on now, EVERYONE is "settling" to some degree, as far as purely physical preferences. I was just answering your question in a general way and now you're putting words in my mouth. Women don't care THAT much about it. We do go for the entire package, other things are more important...personality, confidence, ect... I'm just giving you a general rundown of the reason why we 'say size doesn't matter when it does to a certain extent. So calm down, please. See, this is why we say that.

[Asker]

Instead of waltzing around it, why don't all women just say big d***s are better? sheesh lol

[moniquinha]

Like I said...we don't want to hurt your sensitive egos..LOL

[Birdsofprey]

I'm being honest, I don't are about size. I am virgin, & I don't think it will matter what size my husand is because I won't be used to anything else. In fact, it might be a more pleasant experience if he had a smaller one because the bigger it is, the more it would hurt, ya know. I'm sure some women would like a big penis, but I don't think it matters as much as the media makes it seem. The vagina can only hold 6 inches, so what would be the point of a guy having anything bigger other than it might "look" nicer? You will find some women who say size matters, but I guess I don't undertand why, maybe because I am a virgin. It only makes logical sense to me that size wouldn't matter, unless we are talking about girth. I think women who have had a few men would like a man with a thick penis because they might be looser. But then again, I don't know. I'm only guessing.

[mikesaracino]

You have no idea what you're talking about do you? LOL First you're a virgin so you don't know the difference. Second, "most vags are 6 inches"? Where did you hear this? I've got 7.5 and I've never had trouble getting it all in a woman. Third, girth is part of the size factor so while length matters (longer stroke, deeper sensation, visually stimulating) girth matters more.

[peace-love-couture]

No one said size doesn't matter.Size matters.Just as size matters to guys.So boohoo

And if a guy is good in bed and she's a loose mouth girl she'll probably brag

[Asker]

But good in bed ? or big in bed ? that's different... right ?

[peace-love-couture]

Duh Good takes skill.And who cares,guys have preferences.Get over it

[Anonymous]

most women lie about it because they want to make a guy feel good about himself. What they don't realize is that some of us know they lie. STOP LYING ALREADY! If you desire a big **** then go out and find one. You might not be hot enough to keep the guy but at least you'll get the best f***ing of your life. Then you can just go back to your average boyfriend for hugs and cuddles.

SMALL DICK = LOSER

[peace-love-couture]

Someone is bitter

[Dallsimo]

It doesn't matter! Its the looks of it that it important!

[WavyCherry]

Ok. I've never talked about my boyfriends penis size to my friends or anyone. I don't think that's anyone's business what his size is. This isn't Sex in the City. We don't all share sizes or dump someone depending on there guy's.

[Lucky1227]

because big d***s are awesome

[67Girl]

I can't answer for anyone but myself, but if I dated anyone other than the man I'm with, he'd HAVE to be bigger to satisfy me...not necessarily longer, just fatter.

[Asker]

point proven, so you're no good to a large majority of men

[Anonymous]

good good point..you have there...

well in our society we are forced to conform

to others..in many cases..n I believe this is one of them..

girls want others to make them feel good..like

wow really he has a big one your so lucky..

i hope you get what I mean...in reality..its not

all about the size but the endurance..i think.

[SilverFox135]

I personally think its the other way around, my opinion probably means nothing since I'm a guy but what I see and its probably not right is that girls try to make guys feel good by saying that it doesn't matter but it really does... that's what I'm saying but again I know nothing about the topic being a guy so listen to the girls anon

[Anonymous]

Size doesn't really matter, but some girls are stupid so they brag.

[Lucky1227]

Or.. you could be prude

[Asker]

Dont mind lucky, she has issues lol I've seen all her questions

[peace-love-couture]

Lucky1227,how in the f*** do you think you are someone to judge anybody in this damn world.Bipolar ass.You can't even get laid let alone know how "awesome" a big d*** is

[Lucky1227]

I can get laid not that I have to explain it to you. Anyways bitch your not f***ing anyone either so get the f*** out of here

[peace-love-couture]

No you can't.What happened to "I have cerebral palsy" and no guy will ever want me and I desperately need a baby,but no guy will want me.Boohoo,I feel so disgusted for being a virgin:/Wahhmbulance.No your psychotic ass can't get laid

[Lucky1227]

Ok well I wrote that a while ago and have moved on.. for you to bring that up is childish.. since then I have given a blowjob and gotten fingered makeout with numerous guys so... yeah I can actually have sex if I want to... and why are you not having sex bitch

[peace-love-couture]

Because I don't need a man to validate me.The only difference is,is that I don't come on here whining and complaining about how I can't get laid,you do.No it isn't childish,you're bs'ing yourself.Boohoo,what happened to cerebral palsy?Or are you also a pathological liar?

[Lucky1227]

I have CP that doesn't mean I can't function... why don't you educate yourself bitch... yeah you don't need a man to "validate you" ha ha sounds like "no one wants to f*** me"

[peace-love-couture]

Then why'd you make yourself out to be oh so helpless.No guy is ever going to want me because of that.Or is the truth that no man wants you because you're f'ing psychotic. No,I'm 16,would like a future and to not get pregnant,what's your excuse?Oh no,you don't have on,you just CAN'T get laid

[Lucky1227]

I can get laid... and I didn't make myself out to be helpless since you don't know me you would never know about CP bitch your 16 do you know how many bitches get laid at 16... ha ha but not you because your a lameass bitch

[peace-love-couture]

Do you know how many 19 year olds get f*cked and don't come on here complaining about how they can't get f*cked?Uh oh,we have a jackass on our hands.Yep and do you know teen pregnancy statistics?Uh oh,someone can't use logic,protection doesn't protect you against pregnancy 100% uh oh,health lesson for you there.Nah,I'm not the one playing the "I have CP" card and blaming that on the ability to not get laid.Clearly you're too stupid to even know how to get laid

[Lucky1227]

I can easily get laid you'll see. and I know teen pregnancy stats.. but pretty soon I won't be a teen so it won't matter I'll just be an awesome YOUNG mom yayyy