Why do girls wearing revealing clothes expect respect from us guys?

Let us face it. They do wear revealing clothes to show off their assets. So, if she is wearing slutty clothes she obviously wants to create a stir in our groins. So, how can such girls expect respect from us ?
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Being attractive does not mean that you should shed clothes and wear skimpy outfits to the point where your butt sticks out or your nipple is visible.
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  • Excuse me?I don't look at a guy who is wearing tight clothes & strutting around like he's ''it'' and think, ''what a player,'' do I?And I'm sure most other women aren't that judgemental.

    Just because a girl is wearing something skimpy, doesn't mean she's doing it for shallow guys like you to gawk at.Maybe that's her fashion sense, maybe it was a hot day.Who knows but its her choice.Get over it.

    Men complain about too much makeup, skimpy clothes & all that lot, but in your pathetic, sleazy little lads mags & p*rn movies its full of it!So what's the problem with normal women eh?You want women to be sexy so they attempt to be sexy & you moan about it, while drooling over some artificial bitch in FHM.

    Maybe if men knew what they want, & stuck with it, women wouldn't be like this.Everyone knows women just want to be thought of as attractive, which is so hard in a man's world because they say one thing & do another.

    I don't say ''I'm not keen on ripped men or fake-tan on men'' & then lust after those types of men!Most women, when they say what they like in a man, they mean it.They don't say one thing & then lust after the complete opposite.It's like when men say ''I like natural beauty.'' Complete bollucks, all of your favorite celebrity crushes like Megan Fox or Kim Kardashian, guess what, they are average without their makeup.So it's bollucks you guys like natural beauty & all.And those celebrities look slutty as hell as well & majority of men f***ing love to ogle it.So stop contradicting guys.

    • Are you a men-hater or something ?

    • Thanks gurl. Ya jst spoke my mind

    • You have got a point but instead of ranting your head off, try to look at the big picture, be more objective. Yes, Women should given the respect for whatever they chose to wear , its a free world but proper dress codes and decorum should be adhered to in different setting, man and women alike. Respect is hard earn and its only by respecting yourself and others liberty that you earn the due respect. Dress codes is not to limit people's freedom of choice but ensuring your choice of sth does not stop those who demands for the reverse, mutual respect and freedom for all is uphold. The choice is yours but it shouldn't rob others to express a different opinion from you. Dress responsibly, this is key requisite in a free society

  • Just general respect.

    I don't look at a guy who's dressed well and looks good, and automatically label him off as a player, then treat him foully because I f***in ASSUME he's a player / douche back.

    That's f***ing retarded.

    I never understood why people hop to conclusions off of such face value sh*t - so what the chick is wearing a low cut top? A mini skirt? Maybe she wanted to wear that for the day? Probably is a virgin too lol -

    Anyway, I say that because I've had guys say they thought I was easy or something because I decided to wear a flattering outfit one time out of the many times I've worn sweats and a hoodie.

    Like wtf idiots? Really? Your that cluelessly stupid? Really now - really.

    Case in point - don't be so quick to judge. If she's got her jugs and assets out, let your eye's enjoy them and go on with life. Even though you may be passing up the most classiest amazing girl ever because your so set in your beliefs that your God and can read a person soley based off of how they dress. Yea. Okay.

    If that's the case, then you'll never find a girl - seeing how the girls who dress in sweats and t - shirts are probably insecure, lesbians, or not attractive enough.

    See how stupid that perspective is?

    And how contradictive guys are?

    They want us to be attractive and sexy, but then bitch about it when we are?

    Gah make up your minds lol...

    • Adam and Eve were naked. He was still expected to respect her...

    • They were expected to respect each other, and they did.

    • @Update If her goodies are hanging out, then her goodies are hanging out. To disrespect her or whatev because you don't agree with how she presents herself, is rude. Just go about your business.

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  • I do believe girls and guys should wear proper clothing. In Japan wearing sweat pants in public (when you are not exercising) is considered inappropriate. I know this is America we are talking about, but one must respect themselves and others by dressing properly in public.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I like it when attractive females show off their assets...lol...unattractive ones not so much...if showing a little leg or bosom is the worst thing that happens to me today...it will be a Truly GREAT Day! Love those female legs! (:

  • They can expect respect because guys are not supposed to be shallow douchebags who will judge someone for wanting to dress in a way that makes them feel attractive.

    • ^this

    • ...and are these girls not supposed to be shallow for attracting boys using only their bodies ? Don't you see shallowness here ?

    • Yup. Loud and clear. 👍🏻

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  • All human beings deserve respect and common courtesy.

  • You should respect a woman no matter what, even If She dresses in a too reveling way, even If She is a hooker, even If She is whatever everyone deserves respect...

    I do believe some Girls tease too much and guys loose control but they just wanna feel sexy and attractive...

    Its a free world right!?

    I don't wear those things even tough I know I would feel really Hot because I don't like the reaction man have like I am a free meal...and its hard to look to a Girls face when that's So much on display...

    So its just fashion

  • Meh. There are trashy people out there. I don't feel the need to slap any of them. I find wifebeaters and sweats to look stupid on both sexes, but I'm not angry at people for wearing them. I'm not going to treat them like sh*t because I don't agree with their outfit, ya know?

  • oftentimes women wear it because it's hot and sweaty out

  • So, you're equating looking hot with a guy losing respect for us? Maybe she wants to look hot and it doesn't even cross her mind you are losing respect for her. Why would you lose respect for her anyways

  • I agree, you make a valid point.

  • In my field of work, if a woman or woman is showing a lot of cleavage, (butt or breast), dressed inappropriately for event or environment, and/or is showing way too much skin, it’s considered offensive and is against dress code.
    Personally, I don’t like looking at it. It makes a lot of people feel very uncomfortable. Think back to The days when you were 13 and a maxi pad Commercial would come on and you’re in the room with your parents. It’s just embarrassing! You don’t know where to look, you don’t know what to say or do. It’s just overall uncomfortable. Why do that to people?
    I think it sends the wrong message to kids that are in the building. I think it says this person is insecure. (Whether she is or not, no one will know. But how we choose to dress ourselves, says a lot about us.)
    I work with a lot of women on their confidence and insecurity issues. And a lot of girls tend to dress quite revealing- until we work through that insecurity. When you know you have a lot to offer, with your mind and intelligence, you’re less likely to feel like you need to show off body parts for free. Let’s face it, strippers get paid for revealing themselves; why do it for free? I’ll tell you why. It’s to get male attention. And female attention. It boils down to insecurity. Don’t tell everyone that you’re insecure by what you’re wearing. Goes for both male and females. It’s not attractive to most astute people, to have to see other people’s butt cleavage or breast cleavage.