Why do guys get weird on you after you have sex for the first time

Why do guys get weird on you after you have sex for the first time?
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  • Because sex is a crucible and sometimes you find out after sleeping with someone that you are not interested in continuing with them (more often than half the time). Sadly, this is deeply socially awkward and there is a good way to say "That was wonderful but I am not sure I want to do it again". People have this expectation that a good relationship is supposed to last forever so the fact that they aren't willing to go further makes them a defacto jerk.

    Second possiblity is that he is currently going through the entire evening and trying to figure out if he did a good job of making you happy. Some men derive a lot of pleasure from a woman well done and wondering if it did work out well can be a source of considerable anxiety.

  • I hate to be so short, but most guys get weird because once they get what they are looking for, it is like they won the lottery and don't know there gonna do. Getting in your pants is there number one goal, after that they are stuck. trying to figure out if they really love you or if they should run.

    Again, as a guy who knows guys, this is a statement based on my general experience, not my experience. For the most part, guys are what you see is what you get. Most guys rarely think to far in the future when it comes to relationships.

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  • Because sex is a crucible and sometimes you find out after sleeping with someone that you are not interested in continuing with them (more often than half the time). Sadly, this is deeply socially awkward and there is a good way to say "That was wonderful but I am not sure I want to do it again". People have this expectation that a good relationship is supposed to last forever so the fact that they aren't willing to go further makes them a defacto jerk.

    Second possiblity is that he is currently going through the entire evening and trying to figure out if he did a good job of making you happy. Some men derive a lot of pleasure from a woman well done and wondering if it did work out well can be a source of considerable anxiety.

  • It's not guys it's some people. Maybe it's because there actually is a lot of emotional attachment to sex and people forget this. Also guys feel guilty when they feel that emotion because we are taught by society to supress that kind of emotion. Sucks huh?

  • For some guys, their guard comes down and they feel comfortable enough to be themself, because they don't need to be on their best behavior now that they got what they wanted.

  • Give your definition of "weird" please.

  • He was probably weird to begin with. Did he make your toes curl? Maybe he knew his performance was lacking and was frightened and feeling like less than a man? I don't know really........hmmmmmm