Why do guys like anal sex?

Don't they care about the woman? Anal sex is extremly unhealthy! And I can't imagine that it would give any pleasure to the girl. I certainly won't do it!
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  • Well, your wrong about it being unhealthy, its no more unhealthy then any other sex. But there are a lot of women who love it. The reason we love it is because of the warmth and the tightness. When you partake in anal sex you stimulate the G-spot which is present in both males and females, because we evolved that way. it's also good because they get that sensation of when you take a big dump over and over again. That's not to say that some women don't feel differently. Some women don't have G-spots or have the ability to climax with clitoral stimulation.

    • Actually if you do your research you will find out anal sex is a LOT more risky then any other type of sex. You are much more prone to STD's and health problems from anal sex. The anus isn't designed for sex, that's why women have a vagina!

    • Well, no there is no more risk. I mean yes like I said it has some unique problems. But if we weren't meant to have anal sex as a species then our prostate gland wouldn't feel so good when stimulated. We evolved as a species having anal sex, because that sh*t is fun. You even see it with other animals out there, there's a f***ton of sodomite animals. Because anal sex is perfectly natural. And just because you don't like it or the idea doesn't mean you should diss the act or those who like it.

  • You are deeply mistaken. Anal sex, if practiced correctly is sexually rewarding and non-damaging. Most of the women I know who engage in anal sex find that it gives them extremely powerful orgasms when combined with clitoral stimulation. Men can experience orgasm without additional penile stimulation during penetrative anal sex.

    I suggest you do your research before you offers such an unsubstantiated point. I suggest "Anal Pleasure and Health" by Jack Morin

    and yes, I am a nurse.

    • I don't belive it is not damaging! I got a hemorrhoid just from being constapated a few times imagine what a penis going in and out would do to it! Also if your a nurse why does your occupation say IT?

    • Quit IT after 8 years of boredom and became a nurse. I should update that. Hemorrhoids are varicose veins cause by pressure. Anal sex doesn't use force, it focus on relaxing the sphincters enough to allow the easy passage of the penis or toy. The practice of anal sex encourages the relaxing of the muscles and hence the easier passage of both fecal matter and other things (at the will of the owner).

Most Helpful Girls

  • Obviously you've never had it or tried it. Think about what is discharged from our vaginas...I guess that is unhealthy too so why have sex at all...it's icky right? lol Furthermore, how exactly is it *bad for your health* cause too much vitamin A is bad for your health and makes your hair fall out...too much potassium can make your heart stop...Anything can be potentially bad for your health.

    • Well a vagina is designed for sex, so no that's not wrong. But the anus is there to eliminate wastes! Not to be penitrated. The anal walls aren't strong enough for that and it will cause hemorrhoids! Or worse anal prolapse and you anus will be very sore and you won't be able to control stools properly! Also the vagina is considered a clean part of the body, with lots of good bacteria. The anus is opposite.

    • It's wrong? Sounds like assertive christian garbage has been permeating inside you all your life. Sex can give you diseases, viruses, yeast infections, ect. Using that rationale, oral sex is bad too because our mouths ain't designed to stick a penis in it. What's the point in Kissing? it doesn't do anything and our mouths are designed for *eating food and drinking fluids* not bobbing up and down on a penis or someones tongue on our clit. I bet your a homophobe too.

    • Anal sex is the most dangerous sex there is for our health. Not just for ruining the girls anus but your more prone to getting a disease from it! I'm not religiosity at all I just think it's disgusting and a selfish act.

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  • It's only unhealthy if you're doing it wrong. Done carefully, it's perfectly fine, and can be very enjoyable. I like it, and my boyfriend likes it. He absolutely does care, we take a lot of care to make it comfortable. He never even requested it first, I did. If something hurts, we quit until it stops hurting, then resume slowly with a lot more lube. Problem eliminated.

    • No it's unhealthy full stop. Maybe your fine now but it will only take time and you'll have a problem with your anus! The anus walls are too weak to deal with it!

    • LOL, nothing anyone says is going to change your mind, so why did you even bother asking this question? You obviously believe you're right no matter what anyone else says, even people who have PRACTICAL experience with anal sex. =P But you're the authority, you know better than we do, haha.

  • It's pleasurable if it's done right. Plenty of girls like it, you don't speak for all of us. I very very rarely do anal but it's not that bad when I have done it. And not all guys like it but some do because it's tighter.

    • Yeah but it's bad for your health

    • Okay then you don't have to do it? Why do you care what other people do? I said I do it very very rarely, like only twice with my boyfriend but my health is just fine. Worry about yourself, not everyone else. If you don't like it, don't do it. But don't preach to those who do it and enjoy it.

    • I don't care if other people do it I just hate it when I get asked to do it. I think it's selfish of the guy to want it.

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  • It feels good when I do it but that's just like a finger. I haven't had sex yet so I can't tell you if I'd enjoy it all that much or not though. Stop generalizing.

  • I often am unsure if the person asking the question is asking as the "receiver" or the "giver"... is it just me? Does everyone just always assume that the female is receiving?

    • yeah! omigod I though I was the only one who thought that was weird.

  • Why not it's still a hole

    • Read below and you'll be able to see why...

    • Yes, but on ocassion using loads of lube I doubt it'll be messed up compared to people who do it regulary and get no problems

    • The anal muscle wall is too weak for penetration the girl will end up with hemorrhoids! Or worse, anal prolapse. She won't be able to contol her stools!

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  • loosen up a bit girll... lol

    it's not that bad.

    and some women actually like it.

    • Yeah it is. You will end up with anal prolapse and hemorrhoids and other health problems if you do it. The anus is meant for eliminating waste not penetration.

  • Anal sex really isn't my thing. I don't even watch Anal p*rn.

  • I don't like anal sex and I do care about the woman...How Does Defendant Plead: Not Guilty

  • personaly I don't like it and I never plan to convince a girl to let me do it

  • Why do you ask a ? And then not care about others opinions? I agree with most of the other girls. Anal sex is wonderful. It is not unhealthy and it is natural. If you don't like it, that's fine. Just don't try to convince us that its bad or how we shouldn't do it. I used to think the same way, just like you. Then I tried anal once and I really enjoyed it. Maybe you should try it.

  • Knock it off with your crusade already, some of us like it.

    • Yeah well you'll be regretting it when you can't even poo properly

  • I've never done it and don't intend to. As with EngineeringStudent, I don't even watch anal p*rn. I get disappointed when it turns out that way. P*rn has made it more mainstream. Those women get paid thousands of dollars to do it, though.

  • Some women do like it actually, some men as well. Lol

    I have done it before. I let my boyfriend have anal every now and then but not frequently. It hurt a lot at first but I knew he loved it so I stuck it out. It doesn't hurt anymore, sometimes it feels nice but I'm not crazy about it so I only do it once in a while.

  • not all of us do. I don't like it

  • Neither do I. It really isn't good for the women or anyone really. No one really wants to hear this, but too much and you won't feel your bowels movements and I bet everyone knows what that means...

    • Actually, no. It brings more blood flow to the area and results in increased sensation. There is no demonstrable link between anal sex and bowel incontinence and it may actually have a reverse effect.

    • Too much anal sex relaxes the muscles in that region.. If your muscles that tell you that you need to have a bowel movement are too relaxed you won't know exactly when... Besides I'm not talking about 3 or 4 times. It has to be a lot of times for this to occur.