Why do guys like anal sex so much?

I was talking to this guy who always wanted me to try it with him and I never wanted to because I heard it is very painful! lol
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  • Apparently it feels good because its tight. Ummm but I hope guys do realize that sexy little gay guys have anal sex and if they like anal so much they might be/will become gay.

    p.s gay guys are awesome I love them so nothing against gay ppl!

  • The anus is second only to the clitoris in nerve concentration. It can feel remarkably good if done right. Remember to always use lube.

  • guys that like anal sex are homos that are afraid to come out of the closet. period.

    • What about us girls that like it?

    • Your answer shows not only your blatant ignorance but your general closed mindedness and probable homophobic personality. You are most likely jealous of other people who do have exciting kinky sex or even people that have consensual sex.

    • I pity any girl who has sex with you. Talk about lack of creative or exciting sexual energy combined with homophobia.

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  • My boyfriend says that its because he knows I won't get pregnant, so he won't have to wear a condom, and it feels about the same as regular.lol

  • It's never been a priority for me. If I found someone who liked it I'd happily give it a try, but at the same time if I died without ever having done it, it wouldn't be on my list of regrets.

    There's a book by Tristan Taormino called "The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women" (Amazon link that I've heard good things about. As I said though, I haven't tried it. Or read the book. And I'm not a woman... :)

    • @randoshi --And you are ignorant and illiterate. Then, not than. @Snorkledorf -- Tristan Taormino is an amazing and intelligent woman who is a leading authority on sexuality. I strongly recommend any of her books or videos for anyone who wants to learn and let's face it: everyone still has something to learn (some more than others--like randoshi).

  • One thing that nobody ever realized is that a man can have a number of different types of orgasms. If you wrap your thumb and forefinger around the shaft of the penis and stroke up and down varying the tightness of your grip and NEVER progressing to the glans, concentrating only on the shaft and massaging the muscles eventually you will cause an orgasm that feels FAR different than one where you only stimulate the glans. Likewise, If you concentrate on massaging just the underside of the penis right where the glans and the shaft meet yet another intensity of orgasm can be attained.

    In my first example the feeling of the sphincter muscle is most closely replicated and the intensity of this muscle orgasm is very strong. However in my personal case it takes a very long time to achieve.

    Then there is the whole taboo thing to consider too. The more off limits something is the more a person desires it.

    • You gotta lot time on hands don,t you buddy?

  • I for one don,t think much of the idea I,ve heard some guys say there,s something different about a girl who does anal with some guys it,s an ego boost,some like the idea of degrating a woman(SICK!) and others well because it feels good,but hey my love I,m cool without it.

  • Eh, I don't even like the concept of anal. Sorry but mister willy as a entrance only policy :\

    • AGREED!!!!!! ANAL IS SHOULD NOT BE PRACTICED BY HETEROSEXUAL MEN

    • Hey, buddy, I said nothing against homosexual's - remember freedom of speech? That's they're way of expressing it. Long as they don't try it on me I'm fine.

    • You should also note I was straight and I had a boyfriend :)

  • tightness

  • its only painful if the guy has no idea what he is doing, or if he has a 45 inch penis.

    I love anal sex because it is tight, and just because it is naughty,., its something different.

    Also.. I have a bit of a fetish for p**** juice, and the best way to make a girl soaking wet without touching her p**** is to bang he in the dirt trap. then when your nuts are empty you can flip her over and lick up her undisturbed wetness.

    For beginners, I suggest licking her ass for a while so she relaxes and loosens a little, then lube her up and lube yourself up too. Let her go ontop so she can gently slide herself down at her own pace, when she realises it doesn't hurt and that it actually feels very goog, you can put her on her knees and go to town... not too rough though, and when you pull out, do it slowly, the pulling out sensation is the most uncomfertable part.

    To the girls:: If I can have my girlfriend put large cucumbers and vibrators in my ass, and like it very very much then I'm sure you can manage a little 6 inch d*** inside you right?

    • Haha I agree with your last remark. If a guy asks me to do that I will usually tell him it's his turn first and then I will do it. So far no guy has ever said yes... lol

    • Come do it to me then! :p

  • LOL I don't know why guys like it so much.. I have had anal befor and can say yes it hurts... I don't understand why guys would want it though.. lol the other hole is much more pleasurable for a gal and plus the guys penis will just smell like crap! haha I wouldn't advise having anal but some people like to explore... hope that helps -JoaHelp

    • Did You smell his d*** after? Cause most of the time, when I pull my d*** out of a chic's ass hole, it is clean and shiny. Yes, it smelled strong a few times, but that is small price to pay for all that pleasure.

  • Not all guys like anal sex. I would never try it.

    • Why wouldn't you try it? you are just not into anal?

    • The a-hole just seems more of an outie than an inie to me. Not only that but, constant anal sex can expand the hole to a point of rupture or tearing. You can be safe as you can be, but it's still possible to do some damage.

  • One word... TIGHTER.

  • Most guys are just looking for another tight hole. Some find anal very arousing. Personally, I just find it disgusting.

    • And gay too because that's how gays have sex. All anal

  • I don't get it either. There's another hole with a lot less sh*t in it.

  • to fuck is to mate. To identify the difference in our genders and mash them together, because it feels good. We are animals, and that's what we do. It goes back in our over-evolved psyche to the time of the first mammal.

    But anal goes back even further than that. To the time when we were asexual amoebas with a single, all-purpose orifice. By far, our worst attribute. It is decay, corruption, despair, and death, hidden - tucked away between two plump cheeks, beneath layers of expensive clothing, and expected to remain quiet. It is the anchor of a girl's shining imaginary soul to her temporary mortal body. Of course I want to stick my dick in it. To plow the way between her soul and her body, with my dick. And then cum in it. I want to fuck her until she can't tell the difference between shame and elation, because if she can't tell the difference, then it doesn't make a difference. She can writhe in despair over the subhuman treatment and let the orgasm take her by surprise, or enjoy every moment and feel the humiliation later, if she wants. Because my anchor to mortality is my cock. Twisting our anchors together binds us in ways no other method could. I guess that's why I like it, personally. But I can't speak for everyone..

  • cause it's amazing

  • I've never understood why a guy would want to put their d*** up there...

  • The reason why guys like anal sex is because guys have hundreds of thousands of tiny sensitive nerve endings on and around the head of the penis and since the butt is tight the nerve endings get stimulated really well and giving us emense feelings of pleasure.

    Hope this helps:P

  • its because the of the social stereotype that all women hate anal. that's why men want to put it in womens butts, and a mild "im dominating a woman" factor but I can't speak for all dudes, this is what I'm guessing. however I know two guys who will never do a girl in the butt

    • Now know 3 guys! ^^

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