Why do guys like girls to swallow?

[Anonymous]

And why some guys get offended when for exemple a girlfriend doesn't want to?

[udolipixie]

Why do guys like girls to swallow?

Likely a domination and degradation aspect of her being a come receptacle.

And why some guys get offended when for exemple a girlfriend doesn't want to?

In my opinion guys seem to think their d*ck should be worshiped so any dislike of anything about their d*ck is a heinous offense.

As well as I find guys to be insecure about their d*ck and semen sort of like how gals are insecure about their vagina and menstrual fluids as guys semen tends to define their masculinity and rejection of it is rejection of him as a male just as gals menstruation tends to define her femininity and rejection of it is rejection of her as a female.

[Olivia9]

Totally agree, all must bow down to the mighty penis. I doubt guys would do the same if the tables were turned.

[xandra_smiles]

Lot of generalizations going on here. You can't say all guys are insecure and personify their penis. I will tell you right now my boyfriend loves to swalow my juices. He also licks his own seman off me and kisses me after I have either spit or swallowed his seman. I don't think swallowing is degrading. I mean how? Seems like a stretch to a willing participant.

[udolipixie]

@xandra_smiles Lots of irrationality going on here. Generalizations /= talking about all people it's talking about the majority of people. So clearly I didn't state all guys are insecure and personify their penis. Your boyfriend swallowing your juices is not relevant to my post or were you responding to Olivia9 about the tables turned bit?

[udolipixie]

@Olivia9 Yes I find guys seem to think their d*ck must be bowed down to. As for the tables turned while I don't see guys bowing to the vagina going by how it's regularly insulted (beef curtains, roast beef) and disliked in it's natural state (hairy) if guys do it's likely not to the same extent they expect their d*ck to be bowed down to as studies show guys in every age group get more oral then they give.

[hannibal214]

let me guess...you're a man-hating lesbian?

[udolipixie]

@hannibal214 Wrong. Typical insult though a gal says something a guy doesn't like = man hating lesbian. Do tell where is the man-hating lesbianism in stating that swallowing is likely a domination/degradation aspect when most of p*rn tailored to male appeal has such? Or that guys are insecure about their d*cks and semen where many post about their insecurity of d*ck size and how not swallowing their d*ck snot feels like a rejection of themselves?

[hannibal214]

"In my opinion guys seem to think their d*ck should be worshiped so any dislike of anything about their d*ck is a heinous offense." sounds like you have a lot of pent-up sexual frustration. seek help. and enjoy being alone with your cats

[udolipixie]

@hannibal214 Do tell how does it sound like I have a lot of pent-up sexual frustration and will be alone with cats from concluding - guys think their d*ck should be worshipped as most societies are patriarchal with focus on having male genitals equals superiority - guys dislike when anything about their d*ck is dislike by how volatile they get when their d*cks are insulted Oh wait you can't tell me because you're using typical male insults when a gal says something you don't like.

[hannibal214]

"as most societies are patriarchal with focus on having male genitals equals superiority" taken right out of the Womyn's Studies 101 man-hating textbook...did you graduate from one of the seven sisters too? you sound like the life of the party

[hannibal214]

kind of ironic that someone who has admitted on other Qs that she has "no interest in sex" is giving advice on guys and blow jobs...

[udolipixie]

@hannibal214 No it's taken right out of the history books. Are you really trying to say most societies aren't patriarchal and place the male gender as the superior gender? Oh wait you can't so you keep evading answering my questions going to typical manoshpere insults- man hating lesbian, pent-up sexual frustration and cat lady future, feminism.

[udolipixie]

@hannibal214 Your lacking reading comprehension is kind of amusing. The QA isn't asking for advice she's asking for personal opinions. If she was asking for advice on how to give a blowjob then me answering would be ironic.

[DarkSamus]

Hmm, I used to because my BF's was bitter and tasted like vinegar. Horrible.

Now that he works out and eats better it's pretty much tasteless and way more tolerable. So now I do it all the time. He, of course, returns the favor.

The real question is: would you kiss your girl after?

We always kiss afterward and I think it's pretty nifty. ^_^

[Toxicproblem]

It's rude not to ;P

[Asker]

hahaha yeah, you're right on that

[sa230e]

I sort of get it, but not 100%. I think it's more of a mental thing than anything. It probably makes a guy feel like you totally accept and cherish him.

Me, I couldn't blame a girl if she didn't want to swallow cum. I wouldn't do it either, personally. If she wanted to, I wouldn't object but I would never insist on it. Just her bringing me to an orgasm with her mouth is an honour and a privilege. What she does with the "results" is up to her.

[Olivia9]

So sweet, more guys should be like this!

[JohnBelluci]

" an orgasm with her mouth is an honour and a privilege" Good job at making chicks feel like a gift from god. As if they were not already self entitled and arrogant enough...

[jayeight88]

The way I see it, when I girl goes down on you, you don't complain. She has a very sensitive organ in her mouth, and she could cause a little pain if she wanted to. I like cumming in a girl's mouth. It feels really good, especially if she keeps sucking. But as for swallowing, that's her decision.

[Horizon]

Just think of how you would feel if immidietly after giving you and orgasm with our mouth we started doing what Ace Ventura did after finding out Einhorn was a dude. Then you'll know.

[ellisille]

I wonder if guys know that come can give someone diarrhea. How can they be offended when someone doesn't want to run to the loo every 10 minutes because of them?

[WoIIie]

I'm so offended by this!

[hannibal214]

tbh once I've busted in her mouth, don't really care if she spits or swallows, although swallowing is more erotic

[Anonymous]

IT LOOKS HOT AND SEXY

[Anonymous]

No, it's the exact opposite for me.

[Anonymous]

I don't get it either, it's already in my mouth, I'm already sucking it, I'm already pleasuring you.

So what's the difference if I suck it and spit it out, or what's wrong with coming on my boobs, face, etc., or something?!?!?

It's still hot and you still got your d*** sucked!

I don't get it?!?!? *shrugs shoulders*

[Asker]

its exactly what I was thinking! I still don't get it either

[Anonymous]

Pretty much the same reasons a girl would be upset if the guy spit out her come. You'd think, "Do I taste disgusting?" Or maybe "Am I not hot enough for her/him?"

[ellisille]

Have you tasted come ever? It's not like candy.

[Opinion Owner]

Well, female come doesn't taste like candy either, but I still lick it up and swallow. And actually yes I do regularly taste my own come, if only to check it still tastes OK. Mine doesn't taste of anything really.

[ellisille]

That's interesting. However, this might be TMI, I've found that come sometimes gives me diarrhea, so I still wouldn't want to swallow come, even if it did taste OK. But I guess if your girlfriend had the same problem and told you about it, you wouldn't feel weird about her not swallowing, right?

[Opinion Owner]

Oh, gosh. If my girlfriend got diarrhea from it, I wouldn't want her to swallow at all. I'd feel guilty about even allowing her to blow me. I wouldn't want to make her ill :(

[ellisille]

That's good. But remember a girl might feel too awkward to tell you about any problems she has with swallowing, so don't automatically assume that "you're not hot enough". Sometimes it really isn't you, but her. ;)

[Anonymous]

we want you to get your daily protein.

[Anonymous]

If you had a an orgasm and the guy was like yuck you wouldn't care for that either

[Anonymous]

Dominance