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Why do guys like strippers?
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Disclaimer: I've never been to a strip club for women. It doesn't appeal to me, plus women I've talked to have told me it's pretty lame. I also don't like the way male strippers look, and I've been told that their shows can be gross. So I don't get the fascination. Now, I admit I'm a bit insecure (don't bash me for that), being small chested and not very toned. I'm sure my boyfriend would like to go to a strip club now and then, since some of his friends go occasionally. I was reading some questions about strippers, and guys said something like "Strippers can turn us on in ways our girlfriends can't", and things like "They shove your face in their boobs" or "You can se girls who have different bodies than your girlfriend", etc. Exactly how much touching goes on? And also, How is it that they turn you on in ways a girlfriend can't? Does wanting to see other girls' bodies means they're better than your girlfriend's? Thanks.
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6 34Well, I do not think in most places, you can touch a female stripper. You can only look, but they do come close to you and show their stuff. As far as women's shows, they can do anything they want to a guy! Hand jobs, blow jobs, ass touching. I think it is because guys don't mind that kind of stuff! I would have to admit, it is nice to see other female nude bodies. That is a turn on in itself, but for me, I would not say they can turn you on in ways your girlfriend can't. Also, I never really get tired of my girlfriends body, Men think with our penises and that is the way we are programmed! These guys, however, would never want to date a stripper, unless the guy is young. Going to a strip club is really a form of entertainment to the guy. It would not ruin my marriage or relationship with my girlfriend if they did not mind. I would not leave my girl over a stripper. So, normally there should not be a problem with this unless you have a problem with it. There are exceptions though.
it's just effortless mainly
I don't find strip clubs that fun. It's kind of like a tease and usually you're not really allowed to touch them they just rub their boobs in your face and spread their legs a bit.
One thing about strippers at least at one place I went (I've only been to 2 different ones) is that strippers are definitely not all crack heads. I went on a slow night and some of them are like really cool and fun to talk to and I actually ended up hanging out with them and they weren't sluts or anything. Nobody would ever know they were strippers by the way they acted or dressed. I still have a pretty good friend that strips and is almost done with her law degree and a very expensive school, so sometimes for money she does it. Of course there are the trashy girls there too though.
I guess it's just nice to look at and they make you feel good about yourself because it's like they actually like you but really it's all about the money for them. I don't know anyone who would want to date a stripper though so if a boyfriend ever goes to a strip club I wouldn't worry about it. You could go too and they'll just about rip your shirt off and show everybody if you let them haha.
Voluptous body is a great turn on for a guy. And the thing about touching depends upon the nature of the strip club and the price to be paid..
Your insecurity level is a big problem...fix it. Just keep reassuring yourself..."I'm not the one with the herpes." At the end of the night, no guy wants a girl with a disease, whose p**** looks like piece of chewed bubble gum, or an asshole which has intestines shooting out of it.
Because you get to see and touch boobies without the long seemingly endless crap that usually goes before that--i.e. flirting etc.
Guys want a freak in the sheets. Be a lady on the street but turn that off in the bedroom. Little bewbies are fine, but maybe you should join a gym or get a home stripper pole to work out on.
Why did I go to strip clubs, Well your probably going to call this lame butt honest to god, First thing I don 't smoke so why would I go to a bar full of old men sitting around drinking smoking when I could be in an atmosphere full of beautiful women? And also just because a man frequents a strip club you can almost bet that he is considered a safe customer within those establishment's the women are beautiful but if your relationship is secure and your confident with your self, a man like myself could walk into a strip club with you on his arm and have just as a good time with you there! As for the touching well that all depends on the $$ being spent so usually on most paydays, its a lot if that's your thing? And the part about being better than the one your with I believe was an issue that occurred before the strip club idea came up if you think about it.
OK to answer this you have to find some thing's out like what are the club rules and the stripper. Some clubs are very strict if they have a bar in that club and even the state that the club is located. As for turning a guy on in ways that they're girlfriend can't, that's easy people not just guys but people always want what they can't have. Some guys just like to be teased too. As for the bodies thing that's a tricky one. I mean I hope that your boyfriends a great guy that truly likes you for you and just likes a different body style then the one you have.
Not all men like strippers, I personality feel think that they are gross and sleazy
FYI... Smut and romance novels are not the same as a naked woman crawling all over a man in a private room at a strip club... If a woman had a hot , buff guy crawling all over her while she read the book that is pretty equal!
Well, a reputable strip club will involve mostly rubbing and some grinding. There is some touching. But the guys are limited as to what they can do to the girls. But if you are thinking they can stick their fingers in some girls are get a handjob, not a reputable establishment.
Now, on the wrong side of town . . . who knows what the limits are...
I do like going to to the strip club because it is a sort of taboo. And even though it is primarily socially unaccepted, well . . . taboos are fun.
Sometimes to a guy (not all of us), strippers seem to be slutty, and that can be exciting.
One time when I was at a club, when getting a lap dance, the girl told me it was okay to cum. I wish I would have, but it would have taken a lot more than just rubbing and grinding.
In my case, my wife is not hot and has definitely let herself go over the years which is one reason why I like having a hot chick rubbing up on me. And no I will not tell my wife I think she not hot, because that would hurt her too much. So I keep it a secret when I go to the club.
Hope this helps. But not hateful comments needed as a reply to mine :-)
I don't know but it is disgusting.
No touching at all goes on in the reputable places (and that is all I've ever been to).
I have heard you can get a lapdance in some places. I've never done it. But it is stricly "pay to play".
Please don't worry about being small chested, it is a myth among girls that guys care very much.
As for being toned, well, I don't have to tell you what to do about that.
Here's my theory:
Guys like strippers, because there's no b.s. You give her money, she takes her clothes off. It's a simple exchange.
With dating you may or may not get her clothes off. And first, you have to buy her dinner, you have meet her whiny friends, you have to listen to her feelings. Ugh. It's exhausting. And there's no guarantee you'll see her naked.
But strippers? No b.s. Pay the door charge, and keep feedin' her cash.
I'm being halfway sarcastic. But I think there's a lot of truth to it, too...
But what about the comments that she can turn you on like a girlfriend can't? I never mix my friends with my bf. And also, I pretty much give him everything he wants in sex. He hasn't gone being with me, but if he did, how is it that she'd turn him on in a different way?
If your boyfriend gave you money, would you take your clothes off for him? It's kind of a creepy turn on, but it's still a turn on when you buy a woman's nudity.
Omg if my boyfriend gave me money to take my clothes off I wouldn't know whether to bust out laughing or to hit him. I'd probably start laughing since that's what I did when I read your comment. Christ that's a weird thrill...would think that guys would go for the free stuff
If you really like the girl in the first place you'd wait til she's ready to take her clothes off, it shoudn't be a must...