Why do guys NOT like virgins?

simple question. my guy friends are all like, oh we would never do it with a virgin. why? is it because they fear we'd get clingy? I (personally) got attached to my bf...not clingy attached. but its heavy, he was my first.
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  • i think there are two different sides to this.

    one is the guys who are mainly interested in having a good time, a girl who is inexperienced and a virgin is not likely to know much about how to please a guy, she will most likely be a little uncomfertable at first which to a guy that just wants sex will not be very appealing, also the clingy factor of being a girls first may not be a very attractive to them as they would just want a good time and wouldn't value being the girls first as much as the girl would.

    the other side to this is that other guys would love to be a girls first, having sex with a virgin to them would be like an achievment to be proud off knowing they was the first to have sex with her and the idea of her being really tight. although these guys would love to have sex with a virgin, unless they was someone that really cared about you, most the time they wouldn't take the time and effort to make it as comfertable as possible for you.

    i personally love virgin girls, I think its really respectable of them to save themself and it makes you feel special to know that they chosen you to be their first. the thought of them being clingy and emotional with me would not be a turn off to me at all, more of a turn on than anything else. I mean it was her first time so why can't she feel attached? I wouldn't be complaining that she woudl feel close to me. id prefer that I was in a commited relationship to the girl though because I wouldn't want to just have sex with her and leave, considering that they may be clingy, I would feel really bad if I decide for it to only be a fling and nothing more. I think it would be really nice to be able to make sure she was as comfertable and relaxed as possible as her first time might be painful I think it woudl be best to take your time and not rush anything either. even if the first time was not the msot enjoyable time, it wouldn't matter, I think expereince can always be gained, its not the most important thing. but yeah I would like a virgin :)

    Good Luck, God Bless

  • well, most guys just looking for sex hate the fact that that is going to make the girl really have a desire to have them for a loooong time and they don't wanna be committed. Others think that the girl won't be experienced and will completely suck at sex. others think the girl will be nothing but uncomfy with the situation which will not end with good sex.

    My personal opinion about the idea...I would choose a virgin over any girl, this is because, for 1. I will not be getting sloppy seconds or thirds or fourths and so on. I don't care if she's experienced or not, I'd rather teach her and I'd rather be the one banging anyway. I love leaving good impressions, so being her first will have her always remembering me for the rest of her life, this could even lead to good things such as her telling her girlfriends how good I was. So if those guys want to screw a girl but don't won't to be the virgin taker then tell em to send the girls my way, I'll take care of the problem and then send them the seconds.

    • Lol wow that gives me hope

    • : )

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  • I don't think it should matter, I kno this sounds like ure grandmother talking... but you should loose ure virginity to someone who loves you. Not to some guy who see's you as fresh meat..or the conquest of his life.. Don't loosr your virginity to some douchebag in the parking lot just becuase... you thought it be fun to have sex like all ure freinds... then ure crazy hormones make you fall for the loser who can't even keep it in his pants till he gets you to a bed!... wait that... that was my story. yea don't try that!

    • I did make that mistake....about 2 months ago....i don't actually LOVE him, but idk...i guess I just lost it bc. its not like I planned it, things got a little out of hand. and it happened, now I regret it.

  • I would think that it would have something to do with having to de-virginize the girl. I can understand why guys would not want to get vaginal blood on their d***s. Oh, actually, I guess other guys would probably be worried about the mild pain that girls experience when breaking the hymen, and might be uncomfortable doing that to someone they like.

  • If all guys did not like virgins, a virgin which we all are in the beginning would stay a virgin for all time! Same goes the other way around for girls not doing it with a guy who is a virgin.

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  • I wouldn't mind. I prefer a woman with the littlest sexual experience over others.

    It's emotionally relieving knowing that she's not a slut or a closet slut.

    And I wouldn't mind a woman becoming attached to me like that either.

    Never experienced that. But no worries. They're just retarded. :P

  • There are quite a bit of guys who like virgins. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

  • i like virgins

  • Yeah clingy, messy, nervous anxious and you will remember it and if it goes bad even worse...

  • That's part of the reason of not wanting a virgin but I also think its because guys actually want a girl who knows what she is doing when your younger sure its fun to be a girls first but after a while you don't want to have to teach her what to do

    • You don't HAVE to teach her, just take the lead and she will follow (learn by herself)

    • Well I've only been with one tried that didn't work had to actually tell her what to do.