Why do guys pull out when it is not necessary?

Why would a guy who is having sex pull out and ejaculate on his partner or even more odd into a towel or something. You've got the go ahead to finish inside her so why the pullout?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I can't speak for all guys, however while it doesn't happen all the time "finishing" inside a woman can sometimes be uncomfortable, the reason behind this is while it's true you are ejaculating and the semen is coming out of you, it also means a pathway is available for her fluids to enter into the penis, and while her fluid do help to make things nice and slippery they are in fact somewhat acidic, this is to help kill bacteria which might introduce itself into that environment, so while I have often finished inside it can sometimes burn a little which doesn't feel great at that very moment. Lastly it is also nice to clean up shortly afterward for the same acidic reasons.

  • I actually prefer the withdrawal method. It makes clean-up easier when it's visible and it's contained in a specific area (usually between just above the pubic hair and her neck) and there's no big wet spot on the bed.
    I'm going on 50 and I've never understood the people who are so adamant about withdrawal being almost taboo and how the only natural way is to fill the woman up at the end. There is nothing degrading about having my semen spray out onto my partner's body rather than inside of her. I just keep a roll of paper towels and a waste basket next to the bed. It's kind of romantic for us when I clean her up afterwards.
    Hope my opinion helped.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Some are still a bit nervous about the pregnancy issue and I mean both guys and girls are. That is probably the main reason.

    Then there are the few super hero's who think they are just it and humilating their partner with the ejaculate all over the body or across the ass seems huge to them.

    Lets not overlook the female who enjoys that show of spraying your jizz all over them.

    So here are several pretty good reasons.

  • Pregnancy can still happen if she's on the pill, so it could be they are fearful of that. Maybe he likes to see how much he ejaculates or its a domination thing.

  • A fear of pregnancy is a big one.

    Onto her may just be a turn on for him, and into a towel gets rid of the mess, as leaving it in her will drip out.

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  • it could be a cleanliness thing, or fear of pregnancy (even if you're on the pill), some guys find it's a macho thing to ejaculate on their woman as opposed to in them. I don't really get those kingd of guys to tell you the truth but that's what I think.

  • I like doing a messy splurge! The problem is that I get so excited, I end up leaving it in anyway. I don't like the idea of humilation or dominance because it's the last thing I want to do with a woman I'm having sex with other than mindless violence. In addition, many women honestly enjoy cumshots on their bellies or boobs, sometimes faces. If she's OK with it, why not eh?

  • It depends on whether he is wearing a condom or not. Cumming inside with a condom is very low in excitement for a man. Its just true. Cumming inside without a condom risks pregnency, brings forths thoughts of fatherhood and limits thus the feeling of animalistic style sex. Its mentally unfoufilling at times. Cumming on a body part, seeing the approval of doing so and the variety of the act seeing the result remain on her body parts is VERY stimulatring visually speaking and men are visual animals. This is something men ADORE ! Variety is the key word to your question here ! (Sorry for being so blunt but it is what I beleive to be true !)

  • Trust issues.

    or maybe it is a humiliation thing. Not good enough to be finished in or if he finishes on your face.

  • That never made any sense to me either especially if the girl gives the guy the go ahead. Its a huge downgrade to go from something as wonderful as the girl's vagina to jerking off and ejaculate in the air and on their partner instead of her vagina. A guy can masturbate anytime and all I have to say is that it sucks to be him if he pulls out. That's why I always ejaculate inside the girl's vagina and get sexual satisfaction.

  • Either he doesn't trust that she's actually on birth control, or like many guys, it's a visual turn on. Many guys like to act out their own p*rn fantasy of ejaculating all over their partner. Either way, it doesn't harm anything.

  • really!? caus he dnt want a baby >.>

  • Def just better for the pregnancy thing, reduces your chances even further. But also, its the mess of it being up there. What if we want to fool around again? Won't go down on a girl after I came inside her, and the sex feels different unless she's had the chance to drain for a day or so. I don't get the girl who said it is a dominance thing. Not even close...

  • Hes just being extra cautious. either that or he has aids and he's trying to do you a favor.

  • i don't pull out. thanks to durex

  • I enjoy a good snipe once in a while