Why do guys pull your head/hair during blowjobs?

[Anonymous]

I love when he do it. Its a major turn on for me. But I'm curious about why guys do it and what does it do for them?

[Cottoncandydreams]

When pushing:

Because it gives him more control, and the deeper you go the better it feels. Many women in p*rn have trained themselves to do "deep throat", and many men who witness this expect it from any woman who performs oral sex on them, even though most women outside of the professional sex industry are neither trained nor inclined to do it.

When pulling hair:

Trying to control the rhythm and intensity

becaue the guy wants your mouth to stay around his **** and not off, he wants to make sure you stay on it.

Holding hair back is a nice way to increase the intimacy and sliding your fingers through hair can feel nice . Pulling hair back can also be helpful as it can get in the way of giving a great blowjob if it isn't tied back and it's hard to give great head while simultaneously holding our own hair back.

[sonnysgal]

WOW I love when my baby grab my hair or head at that time...mmmmm! BUT to answer your question: I DON'T KNOW!...lol lol, but I think it makes them feel in demand, more control, probably thinking to them self..."YEA SUCK MY M-F-IN COCK B%T#H " and want deeper and harder sucks and pulls...just sayin!

[Toxicproblem]

I just need them to keep it off my face while I work my magic

[normalice]

I only do it because I know most girls like it, even if they aren't aware that they like it (yet).

Also, it gives me another 'sensor' (other than the obvious one) about her effort/enthusiasm for the task. A blowjob from an unskilled girl who sincerely wants to suck it is always better than from a listless pro.

[Mishaholic]

Please do not assume that mostly every girl likes it, and absolutely do NOT say "even if they unaware of it". Of course there's nothing wrong with consensual head grabbing/hair pulling during blow jobs, but assuming people "like it and just don't know it yet" is a pretty disgusting attitude tbh.

[normalice]

@Mishaholic well, I always ease her into it. I'm not so brazen that I just start yanking her around. And like I say, most of the girls I've been with responded well to this sort of thing. Of course I stop if they don't.

[HughR]

Because, after a certain point, we don't want you to stop and we want to force you to the right rhythm :)

Besides, for many women, if you pull their head they do a better job and "better" can be mindblowingly amazing.

[kheserthorpe]

Domination/control.

A lot of girls -hate- it.

[DutchAtheist]

It's the only thing we can reach. Simple as that.

Unless it's 69 so you can grap her ass.

[KJT6989]

Control

[lauramor]

to guide you or have more control.

[deannarose]

My boyfriend does it to me (he told me) as a sign that I'm doing good and that it feels really good

[hannibal214]

so you can't pull away as he starts coming in your mouth I reckon

[Anonymous]

Porn observations.

[Anonymous]

Maybe he just doesn't want to get it in your hair?

Maybe he just wants to see your face?

Maybe he wants to feel aggressive, in control, and manly?

Maybe he gets turned on by seeing you in a feminine and submissive pose?

Maybe he's just trying to communicate that he's about to blow?

[Anonymous]

It might be a way to set the rhythm, so men like it faster so slower, so it is control

[Anonymous]

It doesn't do anything for me, but most girls seem to like it - it plays into the whole domination / control thing.