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Why do guys say small boobs don't matter?
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They all say small boobs don't really matter, they treat insecure women like it's a crime to be insecure and like they're stupid and vain, and that they shouldn't worry about such stupid things. But then you hear those same guys say that big breasts are awesome, that they're a plus, "check out those t*ts", "I'd motorboat those!", "more than a handful is a waste, but I like being wasteful", etc. To me that just says that big breasts ARE better for guys, and it's not that size doesn't matter but it's what they can get. I don't want people to trash big breasts (before any busty woman feels like I'm fishing for compliments or something). But it IS tough. Nobody can't deny that society does have a very strong message that bigger boobs are sexier! Otherwise, there wouldn't be as many enhancements, and there would be no need for push up bras and padded bras, chicken fillets, etc. I don't see half as many busty women feeling unsexy because of their boobs, usually their complaints have more to do with back pain, or too much attention (which also confirms they're sexier). And no, this isn't like penis size, because the penis isn't as "out there" as breasts are and women can't see through guys' pants to see your actual size. And for the record, no, bigger isn't better, that's just a myth invented by p*rnographers. So basically, why do guys lie about this? If big breasts are considered a plus, and small breasts aren't, then that means big breasts ARE indeed better.
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5 31Well, that's not exactly right. First of all, some guys like bigger boobs and some guys like smaller boobs. Having said that, I'm a fan of big boobs. But even then, the question is: what does the rest of the package look like? The unfortunate reality is that big boobs tend to come with bigger (fatter) girls, and that's usually a turn off. So if the choice is between a fatty with DDDs or a thin fit girl with a cute face and a tight butt, I'll take the latter. As a result, almost every girl I've ever dated had medium to small breasts.
Now, if you showed me two thin girls with tight asses and cute faces and one had a B cup while the other was, say a 32FF, then yes, I'd prefer the second one. Does that mean I'd rather have a relationship with her? No--that depends more on the girl's personality. It just means that I'll have a visceral sexual pull to the thin girl with big boobs. If they're big and firm and natural and well shaped on a thin frame, it just gets me extremely excited sexually, turbocharges the early sex and leads to more and harder boners and extremely satisfying orgasms. Plus, I absolutely love having my d*** stroked between a pair of breasts, and that tends to only be possible with a big pair. But I'd imagine even that bonus would wear off after awhile. Then things like how well you get along become a lot more important.
I'm sure it's the same with girls. There are certain guys with big muscles, who are tall and have chiseled features and the ideal size d*** for you (which is probably pretty big) that you'll have more exciting sex with. But that doesn't mean you'd prefer them all the time in a relationship--you just want to have sex with them. It's the same thing for a girl with a really great pair of breasts or a really nice butt.
Of course, best of all would be to find a super nice girl who was smart and interesting, had an angelic face, was thin, had a great ass and ALSO had big, firm natural breasts. Unfortunately, that girl is dating the tall muscley guy with the 10" d*** who's got 100 million bucks in the bank. Fortunately for the rest of us, there are plenty of normal guys and girls to go around!
My suggestion is just love yourself. Improve what you can and don't worry about what you can't change. All you need is oe perso who's a bigfan anyway!
And I noticed that you said you prefer a penis that you can get entirely in your mouth during a BJ. Truth be told, if you're giving great oral (and it sounds like you're into it, so I'd guess yes) most guys won't even be thinking about breasts!
I'd really like to way in on this topic because there's a disgusting amount of misunderstanding.
Long story short, they really don't. I've yet to meet a guy who wouldn't lay a girl because her breasts were small. They only really matter if that's all you've got going for you (aka you're ugly). We "care" in the sense that they're not to look at and feel, assuming they're there. Does that mean we feel bad if you don't have them? Fuck no. Face and overall body matter a crapton more. It's literally just bad programming on nature's part. Most of the girl's I'm most attractive to are like As. And if you look at some Victoria's Secret models, a lot of them are probably on the more-modest side, with a lot more emphasis on there overall body (and obviously having a gorgeous face).
And for that reason alone, you really can't compare it to penis size. That goes way beyond a superficial appearance and actually does carry into bed. Can you honestly tell me you wouldn't want to be "filled" more? Most things I hear on the subject are girls who would want to, even if they aren't physically capable and outright settling on the smaller side.
Small breasts do matter, so much so on numerous occasions I have chosen to be with girs who have small breasts than big ones. a hot little pair of t*ts brings me far more pleasure than a big set. Literally if a breast won't fit in my mouth, its not worth sucking on!
honestly breast size doesn't matter to me as long as theyre fit, healthy and have a cute attractive face. my order goes in face > butt > boobs
Whatever. Legs and arse are the best anyway. Any dump truck can have tits but good legs means a good woman!
Big breasts ARE BETTER. Especially for higher status alpha males like me. You see rich men wit chics who have small tits walking with them on the red carpet? Higher status males will go for the hottest women with at least a C cup (no bigger than Double D).
I think chics wit small tits ask these questions as a SHIT TEST to see who the quality status alpha males are and who the beta males are. haha. They secretly like when the guy wants bigger tits, because in her mind, that makes him look like he is higher quality alpha male (and when you think about it, it's true). The beta dudes don't really mind (or claim not to mind). Just something I've noticed in the past (I've been with tons of women, of all types, which is how I recognized this).
No matter how many compliments chics wit small tits get, they'll ALWAYS feel insecure and inferior to chics wit bigger tits, and I hate to be an asshole (okay, maybe not, because my asshole ways do get me laid the most haha), but it's true, guys will always want bigger than a B cup. I'm Tall, hot, successful, big cock and can get pretty much any woman I want, which I usually choose least a C cup.
It's a 'status' thing, even women want a dude who has some muscles and has a bigger than average cock (women who say size doesn't matter are lying and we ALL know it). It's the same with dudes and tits. The average or below average beta dudes may not mind as much, but higher status alpha males will choose women with bigger breasts. Just the way it is.
I've even noticed that I'm subconsciously more of a rough prick in the sack wit women who have smaller tits. Ironically, they seem to love that shit though (like a degradation fetish or something). They know subconsciously that I can get a higher status female with bigger breasts, so they try harder to please in the sack and do more of what I want. One plus I'll give here though, it does seem smaller breasted chics have tighter pussies.
But aside from that, I think most guys if given the choice would definitely choose a woman wit bigger breasts. He may tell you that it doesn't matter, while secretly checkin out the chic at the next table wit big knockers. It's just like if most women were given the choice, they'd choose a dude wit a bigger cock. They may tell their boyfriend or husband size doesn't matter, while secretly having a fantasy of a guy wit a bigger package. SIZE DOES MATTER! But you're welcome to try and change my mind on that. I'm in Northern California (near SF) and
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Boobs are important parts of girl, most guys likes big boobs, and I am one of them, bigger boobs make girl sexier, my girlfriend has big boobs, I love to grab them and suck them.
Not all guys like big boobs that much. I think they're OK but I would rather have a girlfriend with firm B cups then sagging D cups.
Oh and that is BS that size doesn't matter to girls, they all hope to have nice thick guy but they'll take what they get if they love the guy. It's the same with guys, we can't see the real shape or firmness (or lack of) of your breasts because of all the fancy bras you mentioned, if we love you we take what we get and are happy with it.
Not true. I don't care for thickness. I care for skills. But yeah, still you can get more of an idea of breasts than we can do of penises just by looking. So men still can have that part not picked apart by women so easily.
If you could pick the perfect size and look of a penis for you and have skills you would though. Why even deny it? lol You're willing to accept a guy's penis because you like the guy just like guys are willing to accept your boobs even after you take off that padded push up bra and reveal your real boobs. It's really not as big of a deal as you think not having big boobs and a lot of guys like me that like skinny girls actually prefer smaller ones.
But I would not pick a monster penis, honestly my preference is for average, around 5 inches to 6 inches in length, I don't think a HUGE d*** makes a big difference in sex, it can actually hurt. Plus the vagina is not the most sensitive spot, the clitoris is at least in my case, and the clitoris has nothing to do with the penis. I also like a penis I can put completely inside my mouth during a BJ. But we're not talking d***s, like I said, it's different. You don't see the penis through clothes.
Well I like average boobs even when I can see them through clothes and I'm being serious. I don't know why you think having big cones poking out of your shirt automatically make men trip over themselves. There are plenty of average sized women I find myself at a loss for words with in the office at my workplace lol.
My preference is big boobs(my wife has big breasts) but any breasts would have done.Although to be quite honest with you, I'm a leg man.I love a nice pair of legs,My preference is if the girl is short, muscular legs but if the girl is tall slender legs.A nice pair of legs>boobs of any size
Is this iluvcartman?your complaining is getting a little annoying