Look I know you want to hear that they should make an effort and cuddle you but the truth is once your guy come he is done is light out and done. Why? Not because he is a jerk (well some of them are) it is just human nature. We want to talk and tell him how much we love him and cuddle and feel loved, but he will appreciate you and love you more if you just let him go to sleep. Once you he wakes up talk to him, cuddle and get ready for the second round. Now if after your guy had rested still he just wake up and leave then you have a problem that you will have to deal with most likely have your door slam his ass good bye!
0 1 0 0Yeah, it's a biological effect we can't help. it's like wondering why girls are kind of angry/sensitive/b**chy once a month... it's pms. lol
Yes I know it is just human nature and sometimes we forget and become less aware of the person rigth next to you! On PMS let us be and after sex we should you shut up and let you sleep!
Girls usually need to feel love before they have sex and guys don't feel love until after, so if your boyfriend really cares about you, I would think he would feel closer and more loving afterwards. It could be that he's just totally relaxed and tired. Could it be that he didn't want that kind of relationship, but the urge took over and he regrets what just happened? Or more commonly, sorry to say, that he just got what he wanted and doesn't have to be nice anymore until he wants it again.
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guys in general just more passionate when they still hv their hormone, after the release for them, they became not much as the lover before the sex, I still cuddle my lady but doesn't mean I would be as much loving as the before.
try to talk to him about it, if he cares he would discuss it with you0 0 0 0some guys are like that because he got what he want ,me as a guy I'll stay on even after sex ,
as a matter of fact I'll cuddle with her giving her the love and affection she need .0 0 0 2Thats good!! =] stay that way!
I will , don't worry ..
This is bs.
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0 4it's a biological effect. After a man comes, a chemical is released into the brain, their sex drive diminishes, and they get tired. It's not our fault.
1 0 0 0hey I'm just writing to thank you on ur answer for my other question. thx! (srry I have never experianced ur thing before)
0 0 0 0its nothing to be worried about. it happens to me all the time. after we have come you just lose the feeling pretty much straight away. its noones fault that's just how we feel after sometimes. just don't try and smuther him afterwards, maybe just lay there next to him for a while, maybe 5min or so b4 giving a hug or anything
0 1 0 0cuz he's probably all about just the sex, he wines ya and dines ya till sex, and then afterwards.hes already gotten what he wants.terrible to hear I know, but I've done it (not proud either, but its reality)
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