Why do guys talk dirty around me?

Not like completely dirty, like p*rnography dirty, they just would for example tell me what their fantasy girl is, and I would tell them what my fantasy guy is and there would be a lot of sexual intended jokes involved and they don't feel shy just being guys around me. for the past 7 years that I've been hanging with guys, all of them do it. I've never had any sexual interaction with any one of them, but they express their sexual sides or something. Anyway, I'm 19 and yeah, obviously a girl. why would guys do that? I don't really mind, I just want to know though.
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lol okay, well I use to be a tomboy until I became 17. then I kinda grew up and I dress like a girl now, with the heels and hairs and stuff lol :P
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  • Probably because they think of you as one of the guys. That's how I am with a lot of my guy friends. I'm just another one of the guys to them which is fun. There is definitely a perverted 13 year old boy living in my brain so it's nice to have guys to hang out with where I can let that side out. Haha! I mean, I am 100% attracted to guys but I grew up as a total tomboy so I still have a bit of that in me :P

  • Haha! I definitely don't look or dress like a tomboy anymore. I haven't in years. But it's likely that since you grew up that way, your a pretty chill chick and so guys still think of you as one of the guys.

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  • Because they want to have sex with you, we guys want to have sex with girls. There is no guy friend you have that doesn't think about sleeping with you. Making those comments is their way of "testing the waters" to see how you will react to it. Now this does not mean that they 'like you' or that they 'want a relationship', they just want to have sex with you.

    • oh that's nice to know. so when do they actually "like you"?

    • When one of them them asks you out on a date or tells you that they like you, just be careful and don't sleep with any of them unless a relationship has been established first otherwise they will lose respect for you.

    • okay, thanks for the advice. Ill def keep that in mind. they won't be getting any soon.

  • They either view you as just a friend and one of the guys so they're comfortable around you or either they're really testing the waters like the first guy answerer says. If you're kind of a tomboy type girl I would say most of them view you as one of the guys for sure.

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