Why do guys want to have threesomes and foursomes?

[wendeebuss]

I am seeing this guy and twice he has asked me if I have had a threesome, when I say no he kind of acts disappointed, what is the big attraction?

[Troutbum]

For me it's not necessarily having sex (penetration) with both women. It's seeing two women together and pleasing me at the same time. If one was my partner I would have sex with her while I ate the other out, that is my biggest turn on. But turnaround is fair play so I'd consider both types of 3somes as well as foursomes. ( I'm making her fantasy come true if she wants 2 guys, I'm not F***ing the other guy so it doesn't really matter)

Doesn't happen to a lot of men so the fantasy is there. Never been lucky yet to be in one, but I'm not disappointed when my partners aren't into it or consider it.

Has he been in a 3/4some? What would he say if you said you were with 2 guys at the same time. That might shut him up.

[LittlePrincess94]

He is not being real, guys don't really care about girls that had threesomes, seriously, do you think a guy would like to marry that girl? No.

By you saying no he can only be disappointed if he is not looking into a long term relationship.

Plus I don't see the big deal about a threesome, unless they are girls that I know from a long, in that case it could be great for an ego boost, but if they are just plain strangers, I would rather have one at the time to enjoy each better.

[germanotaku]

Well it's like having both great fantasies in one and it's allowed. Because:

1) you get to do it with another girl - no risk on getting detected on cheating since it's allowed here

2) you get to see two girls do it with each other

And that's basically it I'd say. Of course there's always this extra bonus to see what other people do different in sex, you might get inspired by that third person, etc... but I think in the end it always comes down to the two points above.

Though I really don't see what other guys see in a two men one woman threesome... you'll need some other one to answer you that one.

Personally I only see the two points above but as for myself I'm not that interested in a threesome at all - wouldn't wanna share my girl with another one, not even another girl :D

[Adam0889]

i think it's mainly because, for us guys, if we can score two women at once, it makes us feel more "manly" and boosts his ego like hardcore that we can handle both women. But that's just my opinion. Also, I think it makes sex more enjoyable.. I mean, it's just a lot of fun and it's like snowballing several different sex sessions into one big ball. And hell, what guy wouldn't want to brag about being in a threesome? but foursomes, I have no idea what is so appealing about them.