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Why do guys want us to act like sluts in bed?
Anonymous
I think it's degrading and slutty to do things like oral sex, anal sex, positions like dog style, role play, rough sex, ejaculating all over her body (very disrespectful and gross), sex in random and not romantic places like a car or shower, spitting for lube, copying what you see in p*rn, making her watch p*rn and my list goes on... guys want to use us like their own personal sex doll. Its wrong.What's wrong with romantic sex ?
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14 14I don't think giving a guy oral is derogatory if he would do the same for you. If anything it's just making each other feel good (give and take). I am a virgin but even I know that having sex in random places is just to add to the excitement, as is different positions. I hope you find a guy that is compatible with you, and also doesn't want to do any of those things, Otherwise, I'll feel sorry for him.
Whats wrong with romantic sex AND hot sweaty rough sex?
It's about letting yourself go in the emotion and the feeling. Romance is tender and sweet but it uses a higher level of brain power to make it amazing. Really carnal sex is about getting lost in the moment and enjoying yourself. There's nothing wrong with either.
it's dirty and makes me feel like I'm a piece of used sh!t if a guy treats me like a slut
You're thinking too hard. Just relax and let your body tell you what to do. If it feels good.. enjoy it. Don't worry about how you look doing it.
dirty things don't feel good they make me feel like trash I should be treated like a lady not a slutty piece of pathetic flesh
Sounds like you just need some transition positions to get you used to it. I know some women that initially don't like doggy can gradually get over the mental stigma they have with it by using different sex positions. Like missionary to flipping you on your side and getting one of your legs up on his shoulder. Then having you fully on your side with both legs bent in front of you while he's still on his knees hitting you from the bottom. Then having you both on your side while he takes...
... you from behind (cuddling position). Then laying you on your stomach and he's on top in the missionary stance. Then presto! You just pop your ass up on your knees and suddenly you're going doggy and he's got you by the hair.
You do each position until you're comfortable with it then move on. You won't feel like an animal since he's still tenderly giving you affection and space.
"What's wrong with romantic sex ?"
Nothing wrong with it. It might get boring after a while though.
well at least it's not degrading and dirty like the things guys want
Yeah yeah yeah... we know you think anything other than missionary is gross. Change your frakking record once in a while, will you?
Speak for YOURSELF. It's NOT degrading for me or the millions of other women who love doing it. You aren't the spokesperson for us all, so keep your close minded attitude about you
Thank you for putting that out there so eloquently 😁