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Why do men always sleep with me & leave?
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It's been happening since I was 15. Men asked me for sex, and I wanted to keep them, so I gave them what they wanted. But they always leave me afterward. This has been going on for almost 5 years now. I just want a guy to love me, why do they keep leaving me when I give them what they want?
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I'm cancelling this account, so no need to answer this question anymore...
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What Girls & Guys Said
12 18You are going to hear a lot of bullsh*t from men about this, I can already imagine. What they say is true, but not REALLY as true as they think it is.
You can shag a guy on the first date, and still keep them interested. First, you have to convince them that you NEVER do that sort of thing, and just generally make it seem that it's a really big issue for you. And make them work for it, really hard, so they feel they have been through hell and back. And then ofc, blow their minds with the great sex. It's fine, you just have to mess with them alittle, give them an angel, and a fire breathing whore at the same time.
Men are not hard to fathom, at all. Also, men DO like a sunggle after sex, don't go over board, but alittle affection never hurt any one.
Honestly, I tend to agree. As long as I feel like I "worked" to get her, I'll want to keep her more-so than if she was an easy catch.
lol but then when he finds out its a lie he will just leave again so this advice is bullsh*t
Dude, nope, sorry it doesn't work like that I'm affraid, he will leave if he finds no common ground with this girl, no matter how good the sex is, but if they spend enough time together and start to like each other, it won't matter how they hooked up. And secondly, how exactly will he ever find out?
hopefully you are honest in relationships and if I was lied to I would have to leave on principle
do you make it a regular practice to lie about who you are in relationships.
lie? no, nothing I have said above actually nessesitates the act of lying, it's more of a show, the mating dance. And about our other point, leave on priniciple? I wonder how many relationships you've had that left much of an emotional mark, because leaving someone you get on with, and really like, for a first date fib is rather easier said than done. First date shinanigans I've always found easy to forgive, as neither is anything to each other at the time.
ive left a few because of this and I'm glad they lied about who they were I know what I want in a women and I will not accept anything less. I'm sorry you feel the need to lie but I dont.
and you are not getting along with them you are getting along with who you think they are.
also lying about your sex life is a huge deal and its a good way to sabotage a relationship and waste a lot of time
dude, first of all, did you read what I wrote, or are you just continuing your last unfinished post? The guys I have had relationships with know me inside and out, first date shinanigans may be a big issue for you, but they aren't for other people. You sound like a self righteous prick, you are exactly the kind of man I was talking about in my first post, really common, and really boring, and usual has shallow feelings.
well you are really wrong about me lady and I do take my time and life and the people I allow into it very seriously. you sound like a idiot loose female. how old are you how many men has your vagina gone through
we could leave it at that. I'm not common or boring and I know you tell yourself that because it helps you cope with life take it easy lady
@dudeman: Wow dude, you're a prick.
I would like to point out that you are arguing with someone who's display name is "dudeman". I don't think it's worth the effort. =P
Perhaps the sex isn't that good. Perhaps you are going after immature men.
You're attracted to the wrong type of guy for your personality just like many women out there. Honestly all guys want sex but only the jerks leave you after you give it up. I hate saying give it up but that is how the guys you meet view it. I bet you're attracted to all those super confident bad boys that have other women chasing them while you ignore the guys that are just nice friends because they don't have a flock of other women chasing them. You're missing the parade of dudes that will treat you right because you take their treating you right as desperation. You think they're desperate which in your mind means other women must have rejected them (maybe true, maybe not) so there is something wrong with them. Nothing could be further from the truth.
I used to be a nice guy and a virgin until I got tired of being played and rejected by women that just want the bad boy so now I'm more "bad" but find the relationships so shallow : (
Ha ha, reading my answer I realize I must be attracted to the wrong type of women for me also, but damn it no women like nice guys anymore :(
Because you're giving out sex like it's candy.
Have we not learned from our mistakes?
Lol, I know I have. Both for Physical and Emotional Health Reasons. Thank you! Go IVF! Go Safe SEX! Go Marriage! Go DILDOSS! GO FRIENDSHIP FUN!