Why do people assume that military guys get laid and have sex all the time?

Iv heard countless people tell me. Just wear your uniform with pride or go to a bar and women will be all over you. But I don't think they realize it isn't that easy.
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  • Well, I don't assume that military guys get laid and have sex all the time---but being in the military can help a guy. A lot of girls do love a guy in uniform, and I think that the uniform often instills more pride and confidence in guys.

    My ex joined the military while we were dating. He was nerdy, not very attractive by most girls standards, and lacked a lot of self-confidence. When he joined the military, his confidence increased A LOT. He also started going to the bar for a few drinks after work with his military buddies (in their uniforms) and he got a lot more attention from girls while in uniform than he normally would, which increased his confidence even further. At one point, he even asked me if it would be okay if he tried asking a girl for her number (to prove to himself that he could do it, since I was his first girlfriend and he had never asked a girl for her number before). If he had been single, he probably wouldn't have gotten laid ALL the time---but joining the military definitely peaked girls' interest in him.

  • One time I got flirted by a military guy. He showed me his uniform and everything, talked about his work etc. But really I wasn't attracted to him. Cause even being a military he didn't look so confident, seemed nervous to talk to me and wasn't my type physically.

    I prefer dating a librarian if he's good looking and knows how to flirt.

    but maybe that's just me :P

  • You're obviously not owning your uniform. Girls can sense fear and feelings of inadequacy from a mile away. Start by building up confidence. Fake it (your happiness/confidence) til you make it, at least. Meaning, the more you pretend to be happy, the more you'll actually start being happy.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Cause it is the ultimate badass profession. You shoot and get shot at for a living. Just come up with some badass war stories about saving children, saving your friends, saving a basket full of puppies, for f*** sake you got so much material to work with, use it!

    • Its not like the wild west dude like everyone thinks. Most guys never see combat these days.

    • Just make it up, tell them an awesome war story and you will have her smothering you with her t*ts in no time.

  • It is if you go to the right bars. Hoes love military men. Also: Some non-hoes love them too :P

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  • Why are all your questions about sex even after you got laid?

    • I never went all the way. Just a bj. And there still things I dont. At least I'm not as bad as before right? I'm making small steps foward.

  • "Hoes love military men"

    Walk in to a room like you're boss wearing your uniform and it'll get you laid.

  • Girls like fit guys in uniform. I've never assumed that though or known anyone too.

  • They assume you're a confident badass if you're in the military, obviously they're wrong lol

  • Of course it isn't easy. After all, you have no spine, no guts and no courage. These things become obvious if anyone spends 60 seconds with you, so the ladies would assume you're just wearing a costume or something.

    • lol thanks lmao

  • Well, it's true though. You don't get a stereotype with only a couple people acting like that. I met an army guy, eventually really cared about him and he left me for some chick who is putting out for him. I'm still a virgin and wasn't sure if I wanted to lose it quite yet. So he left me for a chick who would sleep with him. Now I don't trust them, I mean y'all have sexy bodies, but lots of them are players. Sorry, but I've learned that. And many people told me I was stupid to go for him, wish I listened.

  • i don't assume taht. if anything I assume the opposite