Why do people think sex is so important to relationships?

I just heard a girl say that she has sex with her boyfriend twice everyday and I was like seriously? like yeah sex is great and fun I'm sure but I'm the type of guy that wants to wait for sex. she was super hot though, and hypothetically I would've totally 'done' her twice a day lol but still, seriously?! she was talking with her friends and they were all like talking about how they all needed relationship counseling and crap like that. they were all complete drama queens. there's guys out there like myself that would totally try and be at their best and on their best behavior for girls like that, but they want to have sex that bad? to the point where they probably wouldn't even think about being with a guy like myself?
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  • I have a really strong sex drive. My ex and I used to have sex every day, sometimes as much as 3 or 4 times a day. With my current relationship- we have sex every few days. it's not the same and I find myself masturbating on a regular basis. Sex is important to me because I believe without it, the connection you share with your partner is not on a physically initmate level and therefore similar to someone you're "best friends" with- which is good-you need to connect on multiple levels with the person that you're in a relationship with and you both need to try to fulfill each others' sexual desires. Sexuality is a part of human nature and I believe we should embrace our sexual desires!

  • Some people enjoy sex. Apparently you at least enjoy the idea of sex since you're willing to try and be on your best behavior to date girls who you think are drama queens and incompatible with your beliefs.

    Why be hypocritical? She's misguided for being with a guy who fulfills her sexual desires while you lust over her and wish you could be the guy fulfilling them, even though you have nothing in common with her? c'mon now

    • why do girls lust over guys that they have nothing in common with?

  • No, sex is not important to a relationship. It depends on the person. Some wait until marriage. some wait until they've found someone to trust. I prefer waiting until marriage.

    I am proud of you. There is no better turn-on or joy than to have a guy who is willing to TAKE HIS TIME!

    You are cool. You are doing the right thing.

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  • It depends on the type of person you are and your beliefs, plus how strong your sex drive is. Sex is classed by some people as important as it can bring couples closer together due to the emotional connection it can create. A couple of relationship counsellors I have read believe it is good for a strong relationship.

    • well sure, but don't you think it's something you should wait until the right time to take part in? not just jump right into having sex? it's impossible to find good looking women in our modern day that aren't looking for sex right away. they all want it in like the first handful of dates now I feel like.

    • I believe waiting is a good idea and certainly never rushing it, but I do believe if the moment is right and both parties want to move towards a more physical relationship, they should talk and decide. It can be after a few dates, or later on. But everyone is different.

    • i just think its insane. too much emphasis on physical gratification in current times, not as much on building the emotional aspect. everyone's too scared of the emotional aspects of a relationship. that's my view.

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