Why do some girls use dildos?

I think it's really gross that someone would do that and totally embarrassing. I would NEVER ever do it.
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  • I have never used it before and never considered using it either. Idk, I'm just not that interested in a plastic thing or w.e. I get turned on by a man I love, and then something can actually happen. I guess I'm a more traditional girl that believes that because I love him, I will want to be with him. On the other hand though... pleasuring myself with a... doesn't really get me off I mean.. what's the point really, I'm not interested in sex if there is not someone I love. If there is someone I love, why would I use one?

  • I guess because we are sluts if we go out for real d*** every time the urge hits, so it's easier and less condemning to use a fake one to deal with the urge?

    Plus, some dildo's have ridges and special bumps and bends that intensify pleasure - still not a replacement for the real thing but hey it works...

    • girls should teach themselves to have no sex drive. I did.

    • why do that? There's nothing wrong with having a sex drive. It's why your here in the first place; had your mom followed that philosophy, she would have never reproduced with your father. You can't get rid of it either; when you ovulate, your body naturally releases those hormone that signal your brain your primed for mating - and thus your sexual drive sparks up. What you do with your sexual drive is ultimately what you can control; not the drive itself.

    • and you should be able to control what you do with your sexual drive -

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  • Because it's pleasurable and adds variety to masturbation. I don't see anything gross or embarrassing about it.

Most Helpful Guys

  • you "taught yourself to have no libido"?

    Way to go. Christian? I am guessing religious, because who else could come up with so much amount of bullsh*t. Seriously, all religion tells you is hate yourself, hate your body, hate your sexuality.

    But I truly don't know where you get your twisted morals from. But they run rather deep for someone your age. So all I can advice is: grow up!

    • ...religion doesn't teach us to hate ourselves... anyway, I agree - this is an interesting theory the QA has going here; Perhaps the fear of being judged? Or over thinking religious aspects? A fear of your own sexuality?

    • nope I'm not religious. I just think people's sex drives ruins their lifes. I don't want to be like that. I would rather have none & get more important things done instead of trying to impress men & have sex.

    • Why would it ruin everyones life? And who are you to judge what's good for everyone else? @sweetoness: I do find the religious concept of sin and shame rather self-hating. But everyone is entitled to believe what they want to believe. Unfortunately, they usually want to shove it down everyone else's throat.

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  • Dont be embarassed to masterbate. When you grow up and have a REAL GOOD sex life...you will get more comfortable with yourself. Try placing a vibrator on your clitoris...youll get so turned on...very shortly you will be putting it in you.

    • thats disgusting

    • lol. you're still a child and have NO idea the body god gave you is a GIFT. exploring that gift is NOT disgusting.you sound a lot like a molestation-victim.or someone brainwashed by prudes.

    • im not a child. I'm in my 20's.

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  • Why are you trolling?

    • im not

    • Yes you are. why are you being so judgmental too? If you don't like and want it just don't do it and ask around about it you're just insulting the rest of us with your comments... Just do whatever you want and shut up about we do!

  • Well, if you're simply too good for plastic toys, god bless and more power to you.

    • As for why -- presumably it feels good and fulfills their needs to some degree. Your hair is too long, you get a hair cut. You're thirsty, get a cool drink. You're horny, bring out the dildonics. I mean why not right, what's stopping you.

  • Yeah it's a sin to replace plastic with the real thing!

    • lol

  • Really? Why do you find it gross?

    • its slutty. girls should control their sex drive. I don't even masturbate.. and I've taught myself to have no libido.

    • troll lol

    • Lol it's not slutty..everyone has a sex drive and the person is doing that in their home where it's PRIVATE..now if the girl was going outside to let the whole world see then ya that's slutty..if you don't masturbate that's good for you it's not a must..

  • ...same reason why guys use fleshlights... to get off

  • Never say never. Lol

  • Preferences.

    Let humans have indiviual minds.

    (ignorance is a sin)

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    lol

  • Women with high standards have this problem haha.

  • I rather find a real one;)

  • Well then you're just plain stupid and very judgemental! It's your loss you idiot...

  • Using a dildo is embarrassing or masturbating is embarrassing?

    • both. dildo is worse.

    • How is masturbating embarrassing? It's completely natural, and is actually a healthy act.

    • I don't care if its natural it's disgusting and shameful

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