Why do some men feel the need to be aggressive & rough in bed?

Does it feel better for them or is it something else ? And on that note, why do they obsess about the size of their penis, why do they want to have huge penises ? For what reasons
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Most Helpful Guys

  • physical aggression is in our nature. During sex the 'inner beast' is prone to getting out of its cage. It does feel more satisfying at times. There are different types of horny. There is the need to please someone and the need to get rid of sperm. Only rough sex can satisfy the latter horniness, because it requires both ejaculation and physical exhaustion.

    Not all men obsess about penis size, of course, but like I said, one way of being horny is the need to please someone better than they have ever been pleased before. This is simply a lot easier to accomplish with a larger penis. This is fact. The problem is that guys tend to take things to the extreme, so they don't understand about there being a 'max' when it comes to size. Well, I say it's a problem, but it's not like they can do something about it, so I guess it really isn't a problem..

  • The only reason/time I am rough in bed is when the girl likes it, and most girls really seem to like and want that. It does not feel better for us. Personally a medium/slow pace causes the most sensation, but I've never seen a girl come from sex at low speeds. We only want a huge penis because girls like them. If girls actually didn't care, we sure as hell wouldnt

Most Helpful Girls

  • I love when a guy is dominant, not abusive, but dominant. I want him to make me go down on him, grab my head,hair etc and force himself into my mouth.I also love when he wants to do it doggie,and grabs my hips or my hair really hard and pulls me back while he thrusts and bucks.The best though, is having him on top in the good ol' missionary position, with my legs way up high on his shoulders,while he's pounding me.I like the feeling of being under him, and rather helpless,while he has his way with me. I'm all for them being aggressive.

    • I thought you liked to take control and dress guys up?

  • From my experience, I think that they like variety. Sometimes they want soft, slow sex and sometimes they just want to pound. And they obsess over penis size for the same reason that girls obsess over weight and tit size. Society tells them that their bodies have to be a certain way in order to please the opposite gender. Forget whether it's true or not; that's what they're told and that's what they believe.

    • Nailed it girl! Yes, weight and penis size are a great comparison. Girls are supposed to be "hot". Guys hung... Usually most are not super skinny or super hung.

  • It's hot when he takes control and hair pulling is sexy so is butt smacking it's just hot. As for size they want to be the biggest and best you have ever had

    • Recent Guy like this wasn't concerned with his size. Which was average or a tad above. He just was aggressive almost scary. Because I've never in my life had a guy that into sex. Amazing, I imagine what it feels like to drive a sports car.

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  • It does feel better, to me, and it excites me, but I try to limit it to my partner's boundaries, which are pretty moderate.

  • Some guys are dominate. Therefore they need to be dominate in bed.

    Why do some guys obsess over their penis? Probably the same reason some girls obsess over their boobs or vagina lips. That reason? lolidunno.

  • Yessssss, aggressive and rough is my thing. It's a huge turn on, why wouldn't we want a big penis? It's like something you can measurably have bigger than other guys which is used to fvck women, life is like a competition to us,

  • I think its hot when men aggressive & rough, biggest turn-on !

    • Exactly...

    • *are

  • They obsess over d*** size because a reaal man is expected to have an 8+ inch d***. Ummm! Duh!

  • Because women want big penises.

    No they dont?

    Yes they do.

    Do you want to have a large cavernous vagina that the ONLY way to feel anything is to put lawn furniture inside of you?

    I don't think so.

    SO if you require FISTING as the only way to get off, then you'd probably be a little self conscious about the size of your gaping hole too.