Why do women crave sex if penetration does not achieve climax?

I keep hearing some women say that penetration does nothing for them and that they would prefer oral sex or clitorial masturbation... This has discouraged me from ever having sexual intercourse as a virgin. If so, why do women even crave penetration during casual/one-night stands sex? What does it even feel like?
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  • its still stimulating also you can rub your clit or have him do it while he's in there and it feels mix different than masturbating. p;us jut touch in general is amazing. i wouldn't do ons bc i doit tussah strangers but iu can still see sex being satisfying on its own if the p;iron is very sensual. but the wam bam pumping thing, no i doit see by point to that. but i guess many do.

    i totally get where you're cumin from though. i think after i started jerking off at 8 years old. i discovered women dont cum from vaginal petition plus as a virgin itd hurt a hell of a lot and sometimes it hurts any how, so i never thought id want sex,. i decided against it,. but thats before i stretched my hymen and discovered things can still feel pretty good inside. long as the person you're with s not disrespectful or hurts you i think it could be enjoyable. and some women do cook from vaginal. but anyone can do both. :)

  • Yeah, penetration alone does not do it for me. But that doesn't mean that it doesn't still feel really good. And normally clitoral stimulation alone doesn't get me off either. I like both. And yes, I do crave sex with my boyfriend. It's amazing when 2 people can share that experience with one another and make the other feel so good like no one else can.

  • It still feels good even if it doesn't always get me to climax. I also do it for the intimacy of it. Being able to get my boyfriend to cum, have a little bit of fun together in a way that can't bring us any closer. He always makes a point of getting me to cum if not from PIV, then from foreplay before/after sex so it's all good.

  • Some women crave intimacy even with one night stands. They want to feel desired, sexy and close to another person.

    • But what about the ones that don't and just want to get off with the first person they see? That's more of a psychological feeling rather than a physical one.

    • There is still some level of pleasure physically from having sex.

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  • Cause they still get pleasure from penetration. The vagina is filled with pleasure receptors. Sure, most women don't achieve an orgasm just by penetration, but they still get pleasure from it, a pleasure that can be achieved by oral or fingering.
    If you can get pleasure from penetration and then get an orgasm by oral stimulation on your clitoris, how can you complain about that?

  • Because they enjoy it. Or just want to make their partner happy. I would think it is most likely both.

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  • Because sex isn't about climaxing, it all feels nice. You don't rush to the end, you enjoy the journey. Sometimes you don't cum, it doesn't matter as long as you are both happy.

    • I personally wouldn't feel satisfied if I couldn't climax...

    • Aren't you a virgin?

    • Correct, but I just don't see the point in having sex if I can't climax with it as opposed to masturbation.

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  • Well, some women actually can achieve orgasm that. Also, sex isn't *just* about the orgasm.

    • Then what's the point of having sex in casual situations if it isn't just about pleasure?

    • Well, people derive pleasure in different ways. For example, some women simply take pleasure in being desired. Even if they don't orgasm during casual sex, their body made some random dude get off, and they like that.

    • I was wondering leaning more towards the physical reasons for craving sex. Wanting to be desired and to please are psychological reasons.

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  • They are stupid and want to please men?

    • In one-night stands?

    • If you dont like my QUESTION, why are you still asking ME another

    • Because your question did not provide a relevant answer to mine.

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  • Is this another pointless virgin question?

    • If it bothered you so much, why even answer?

  • Cause of Deez nuts Ha got eem 🙂

  • Hell if I know. Why did god make men with penis? to give the women pleasure or just to have the women pleasure men. I guess if the clit was in the hole then there might be to much excitement going on

  • From my experience there are different points through which women receive pleasure... When I penetrate a girl usually she stimulates her clit too while taking my dick in and out of her pussy... she likes both of these stimulations

  • All the girls I've been with have climaxed (squirted) through sex except one. She told me before we even had sex that she had a disfunction about that.

    There is no way to describe the feeling of sex. Just do it and find out. Be safe though

  • There's women that can climax from penetration.

  • if they won't get climax, they get all kind of pleasure from a dick work.

  • Biological animal drive to procreate.

    • But there are males out there that CAN and DO make you cum, and can give you any or all 3 of the different types with ease. The not achieving climax thing has become an accepted excuse for many females because the majority of the time they are given lack luster sex and left unfulfilled so it has become the expected norm.

  • the choice masturbation is secondary... I personally think all women likes penetration...

  • well my mother can achieve climax through sex alone. my siter the same. my wife the same. all the women i know, can. only in the internet i've seen that "impotent" vagina syndrome... .