Why do women crave sex if penetration does not achieve climax?

[Anonymous]

I keep hearing some women say that penetration does nothing for them and that they would prefer oral sex or clitorial masturbation... This has discouraged me from ever having sexual intercourse as a virgin. If so, why do women even crave penetration during casual/one-night stands sex? What does it even feel like?

[Azara]

its still stimulating also you can rub your clit or have him do it while he's in there and it feels mix different than masturbating. p;us jut touch in general is amazing. i wouldn't do ons bc i doit tussah strangers but iu can still see sex being satisfying on its own if the p;iron is very sensual. but the wam bam pumping thing, no i doit see by point to that. but i guess many do.

i totally get where you're cumin from though. i think after i started jerking off at 8 years old. i discovered women dont cum from vaginal petition plus as a virgin itd hurt a hell of a lot and sometimes it hurts any how, so i never thought id want sex,. i decided against it,. but thats before i stretched my hymen and discovered things can still feel pretty good inside. long as the person you're with s not disrespectful or hurts you i think it could be enjoyable. and some women do cook from vaginal. but anyone can do both. :)

[ScarletteFox_Red]

Yeah, penetration alone does not do it for me. But that doesn't mean that it doesn't still feel really good. And normally clitoral stimulation alone doesn't get me off either. I like both. And yes, I do crave sex with my boyfriend. It's amazing when 2 people can share that experience with one another and make the other feel so good like no one else can.

[kaylaS91]

It still feels good even if it doesn't always get me to climax. I also do it for the intimacy of it. Being able to get my boyfriend to cum, have a little bit of fun together in a way that can't bring us any closer. He always makes a point of getting me to cum if not from PIV, then from foreplay before/after sex so it's all good.

[XRabbitHeartX]

Some women crave intimacy even with one night stands. They want to feel desired, sexy and close to another person.

[Asker]

But what about the ones that don't and just want to get off with the first person they see? That's more of a psychological feeling rather than a physical one.

[XRabbitHeartX]

There is still some level of pleasure physically from having sex.

[AleDeEurope]

Cause they still get pleasure from penetration. The vagina is filled with pleasure receptors. Sure, most women don't achieve an orgasm just by penetration, but they still get pleasure from it, a pleasure that can be achieved by oral or fingering.
If you can get pleasure from penetration and then get an orgasm by oral stimulation on your clitoris, how can you complain about that?

[Mesonfielde]

Because they enjoy it. Or just want to make their partner happy. I would think it is most likely both.

[Unhappy_Sock]

Because sex isn't about climaxing, it all feels nice. You don't rush to the end, you enjoy the journey. Sometimes you don't cum, it doesn't matter as long as you are both happy.

[Asker]

I personally wouldn't feel satisfied if I couldn't climax...

[Unhappy_Sock]

Aren't you a virgin?

[Asker]

Correct, but I just don't see the point in having sex if I can't climax with it as opposed to masturbation.

[Unhappy_Sock]

Do you think sex is about making you climax? These sound like the words of a selfish lover. Sex is about the experience, the intimacy, enjoying your partner. When people play football they don't stand there taking penalties, they play the game. Women don't often climax from penetration but it isn't often that sex is only a dick going in and out of a vagina, sex is way more fun than that. Normally we stimulate our other bits as we are being fucked, or he does it. You still cum it's just a dick alone doesn't do it for most.

[Asker]

Selfish or not, the experience itself would be pretty boring if there isn't climax at some point. If you had read my question carefully, you would have noticed that I was leaning towards the physical reasons for craving sex. Not emotional.

[Unhappy_Sock]

You haven't had sex so why do you think it will be boring? You don't just lie there and wait for the orgasm, the entire sexual experience is enjoyable. I did read it carefully, where did you say that you don't want any emotional reasons? It doesn't, you can lean all you like but you didn't say that. Sex feels good with or without orgasms, you can;t say it doesn't. You just have very little understanding of the act so don't assume the other feelings are not pleasurable. They are very pleasurable. Sex is nice. Orgasms are nice.

[Asker]

I mentioned one-night stands in my question description as a dynamic for fulfilling sexual desires. One-night stands themselves prove that emotions aren't always existent in sexual encounters. You asked how would I know if I could enjoy sex without climax as I am a virgin. I have never enjoyed a masturbation session in which I did not climax.

[Unhappy_Sock]

So you don't enjoy those feelings, you only enjoy the climax? I don't think so. Emotions are involved in everything, one night stands have emotion attached. Fact of the matter is you won't understand until you have sex as you seem incapable of seeing that someone touching you feels good. It feels very different to having a wank.

[Asker]

What feelings could possibly exist during masturbation if I'm only satisfying myself? I could care less about the other person if I am having a one-night stand sexual encounter. I would just care about my sexual needs being taken care of. I think you're missing the whole point of my question which was to elaborate on the feelings of penetration itself versus clitorial masturbation since many women reportedly do not feel any pleasurable sensations through penetration alone.

[Unhappy_Sock]

Maybe try writing that I'm your question then? I'm not a mind reader, I've answered the question you asked, you're being awkward about it and you know it. You haven't had sex so maybe you don't actually understand... you are not a robot, you feel emotion when you do most things and sex is one of those things, no matter who you are with. I know you're trying to sound all cool by saying you just want some dick in your vagina and you're only doing it to get off, but that isn't how the human body works.

[Asker]

What the hell are you talking about? Why would I try to sound cool on the internet with people I don't even know. What am I being awkward about? Your answers do not have any relevancy to my question. Again, I asked about the physical reasons why women crave a penis in their vagina and you still keep bringing up the subject of emotions. If people felt emotions during one-night stands, they would pursue much more with the person they just screwed. As you can see, that doesn't happen with probably 98% of women/men you see leaving with strangers at bars/clubs. Most people don't even care about what the other person looks like as long as they get their sexual needs taken care of. Maybe you should have read my question description more carefully before trying to sound like you know it all.

[DodgersGM]

Well, some women actually can achieve orgasm that. Also, sex isn't *just* about the orgasm.

[Asker]

Then what's the point of having sex in casual situations if it isn't just about pleasure?

[DodgersGM]

Well, people derive pleasure in different ways. For example, some women simply take pleasure in being desired. Even if they don't orgasm during casual sex, their body made some random dude get off, and they like that.

[Asker]

I was wondering leaning more towards the physical reasons for craving sex. Wanting to be desired and to please are psychological reasons.

[DodgersGM]

How can you separate the physical desires from the psychological ones? That's just not possible.

[Asker]

Because women who seek out casual sexual encounters/hook-ups are doing it for their own sexual gratification. At least the ones I know. They're not looking to make anyone else, but themselves satisfied. It's all about the physical pleasure for them. I just wonder why they even bother with getting penetrated by a guy if they can experience pleasure by clitorally stimulating themselves.

[SweetSourL]

They are stupid and want to please men?

[Asker]

In one-night stands?

[SweetSourL]

If you dont like my QUESTION, why are you still asking ME another

[Asker]

Because your question did not provide a relevant answer to mine.

[SweetSourL]

Any person with a brain will know it was a suggestion

[Asker]

Any person with a brain would have addressed my question without questioning the purpose of my response. In addition, use proper grammar and punctuation if you want to sound like you have a brain. Thank you.

[SweetSourL]

LMAO guess some idiots with no brain dont know that this is a website not a English page paper I'm gonna get graded for. Gtf. Are you paying me? Therefore no fukks are given for what YOU think

[Asker]

Because I don't bother arguing immaturity and stupidity. I will stop responding to your ignorance. Grow up.

[SweetSourL]

MY IGNORANCE LMAO? I answered YOUR question TRYING to be nice, can't even do that these days without someone judging. Guess I will judge too

[gapminder]

Is this another pointless virgin question?

[Asker]

If it bothered you so much, why even answer?

[Jared____]

Cause of Deez nuts Ha got eem 🙂

[ticlemelmo]

Hell if I know. Why did god make men with penis? to give the women pleasure or just to have the women pleasure men. I guess if the clit was in the hole then there might be to much excitement going on

[dudegrt09]

From my experience there are different points through which women receive pleasure... When I penetrate a girl usually she stimulates her clit too while taking my dick in and out of her pussy... she likes both of these stimulations

[thisdudejimmy]

All the girls I've been with have climaxed (squirted) through sex except one. She told me before we even had sex that she had a disfunction about that.

There is no way to describe the feeling of sex. Just do it and find out. Be safe though

[dev765]

There's women that can climax from penetration.

[masterkamasutra]

if they won't get climax, they get all kind of pleasure from a dick work.

[Anonymous]

Biological animal drive to procreate.

[Opinion Owner]

But there are males out there that CAN and DO make you cum, and can give you any or all 3 of the different types with ease. The not achieving climax thing has become an accepted excuse for many females because the majority of the time they are given lack luster sex and left unfulfilled so it has become the expected norm.

[Anonymous]

the choice masturbation is secondary... I personally think all women likes penetration...

[Anonymous]

well my mother can achieve climax through sex alone. my siter the same. my wife the same. all the women i know, can. only in the internet i've seen that "impotent" vagina syndrome... .