Why do women find blowjobs degrading?

I don't see why it should be it's not really the same though for a guy to go down on a girl A blowjob is not done with your mouth, it's done with your heart :)
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  • I don't find the blowjob degrading itself. However I hate the way boys and men talk about it. They can only think of that and expect it as a compulsory thing. Nowadays there is too much publicity about blowjob. The only sexual things I expect from a relationship are the kissing and the coitus, because these are things a couple practice together to pleasure each other, in the sense that during the coitus, you pleasure yourself and you pleasure the other. I would never expect cunnilingus from my boyfriend before meeting him or even having kissed him. This is too much demanding from women. Each couple has its own practices and there are no compulsory practices. We do what we want. It's like women expecting flowers for each Valentine's Day or anything else. However, I confess I do fantasize about giving a blowjob about the man I love. Hush !

  • Haha for real.

    I think girls who find it degrading have watched p*rn that makes it seem degrading (like forced face-f***ing and calling the girl names), and never actually experienced it in a loving relationship. Or they hear little remarks from douchebags about their sexual conquests or from rap lyrics like "bitch choke on my d***" and other cultural influences that make blowjobs (and actual sex) seem like something women are "supposed" to do, not genuinely want to do.

  • because they're dumb and they invented it by how males act/talk towards it. Men speak/talk in a tone (with their male buddies) that brings out the notion that its degrading, like talking about a girl about how she gave you a blow-job that one time at a party lol ..and how she is a slut...blah blah blah. know what I mean I don't think I explained it right:S:(

    When it comes down to it, giving oral sex is not degrading, male or female.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Katt Williams: "Sex is like cooked food made in the oven, A blowjob is like frozen food in a microwae, sometimes we just need a quicky, I gotta go to work b***h."

    Katt also once said, "Ladies if you are not willing to give your man a blowjob, say goodbye to your relationship because there is a ragidy B***H who will"

    • That's part of the problem... Making blowjobs seem like a duty and not a pleasurable experience for both people (or more than two people if you're into that sort of thing, haha).

  • you just watched south park didn't you? and ask yourself the same question about eating p**** lol

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  • I've never given a bj but I don't think that it's degrading as long as the woman is doing it because she genuinely wants to please her man. That's why I would be happy to give one to my boyfriend and not find it degrading in the least.

  • I do not find them degrading. But what do you mean by "it's not really the same though for a guy to go down on a girl"?

    • Some guys just might not want to do it but I don't hear many of them say it's degrading

  • Haha, that's funny but of the girls I know that hate haaate it, it's pretty much because it isn't a heart full of come they're getting! :o)

  • Hahaha I watched sp today lol!

    Anyways I don't find them degrading. I think they boost my self esteem in the bed.

  • LOL. I love that last line... ahahahahahahaha :D

  • "A blowjob is not done with your mouth, it's done with your heart :)"

    that belongs on a bumper-sticker.

  • They don't believe me you just have to be willing to return the favor.

  • I was giving my boyfriend a blowjob and all of a sudden he takes out his camera and tells me he needs a flashlight to see what I was doing (it was dark in the room) but ends up filming me instead. I was so mad... If the guy can't appreciate what you are doing for him and not realize the girl is doing him a favor then it's degrading

  • its only degrading if you don't like doing it.

  • if you loved the girl then why would you care if she did it or not you know