Why do women make so much noise during sex?

Believe me, I enjoy it just as much as the next person, but it doesn't make me want to moan or even shriek. So does sex really feel THAT great for a girl? Is it so pleasurable you can't control yourself? Which brings me to my next question, if it feels THAT great why do women hold out so god damn much? Theoretically they should be lining up to get laid with the way the make it seem. So are women just drama queens or does it actually feel so good you can't control what comes out of your mouth?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • It does feel really amazing. For me personally, my noises are natural, but I can keep quiet if I need to. If I'm in a situation where I can be as loud as I'd like, then I don't hold back because it feels great and "letting the noises out" helps me relax and get more into it, which makes it feel even better. It's almost like a release, if that makes sense (this sounds cheesy, but sort of like when you're super happy/excited about something, and shouting or cheering is kind of a release for that).

    Personally, I don't "hold out". I have sex whenever I want it. But that said, there are times when you don't feel up to having sex, even though it feels amazing (for example, I might not be up for it after working a couple 12 hour midnight shifts in a row because I'm exhausted).

  • well personally I make noise because of the force and how good it feels I more do the whole "harder..oh yeah" kinda thing... I do it so my boy gets encouragement and knows that I'm enjoying it I mean...would you rather we lay there like a plank not doing anything? would you rather know that we are actually enjoying ourselves?

    if its such a problem tell whatever girl you are with next how you feel...and then see what its like to have a girl who is non responsive...

    and girls "hold out so god damn much" because most girls I know have morals, and trust issues and need time to know a guy before having sex. I don't know I havnt had much experience in that area.

    • No no I'm not complaining at all, I like it and it is great encouragement, I was just wondering if its controllable. Can you control it? Could you be silent if you tried, because I swear some girls its almost impossible, like if her parents are in the next room for example lol

    • Haha...it depends...alot of the time I can tone down the noise I make...but it comes out anyway :P if I really really tried I could be....but usually I end up biting my lip or something to cover up the noise...its easy to tone down :P just gotta bite something :P haha

  • It really does feel that good. I have a very hard time controlling my noises if I have to be quiet then it totally ruins it. But even though it feels that great I am not willing to just sleep with anybody to get off as for girls that are in a relationship that hold out I am not sure why they do that. I can hardly stand it if I don't have everyday.

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  • Some people are just really noisy, I have had really noisy neighbours its embarrassing for her, and everyone can hear her, not a lot you can do about it. The really weird ones are when people complain about the noise to the local authorities and restrictions are put in place usually it means move out or sound proof.

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  • Most of the time it feels THAT good that you just can't help but making noise...This is the truth. It is also proved that men can't even experience anything close to an orgasm that women experience. Women have 'better' orgasms.

  • I would LOVE to have this question answered.

  • i love when girls make noise so much, if they scream or moan I'm in heaven haha. I hope to god no women try to hold it in, id rather she make as much noise as she wants

  • the easiest way I can explain it is sort of like when someone laughs. if somethings funny you laugh and you can't really help it. when something feels good we make noise. obviously its not exactly the same but you get the idea...hopefully.haha!