It's probably one of those things that has an evolutionary "humans as animals" answers… being ready when the opportunity presents itself is an advantage for passing on your genes, therefore those are the genes that get passed on.
Your hookups were probably hard—or well on the way—even before touching you. You being attractive and willing likely generated more than enough mental stimulation and anticipation to get hard.
In my experience, women generally undergo a more gradual crescendo of arrousal, so I can see how it might seem foreign to you. I think this is why guys sometimes have the reputation of seeing foreplay in the same way they see standing in line for a ride at the amusement park. There's not much about guys' arrousal that's elegant or subtle. It's just how we are.
All guys will not get rock hard like that. But some immature guys will do. The guys you are dealing with are immature guys who don't know how to control their sexual urges. Good guys maintain their libido to last along with the girls. They get hard just at the right time after doing all the foreplay first.
It's has nothing to do with maturity. It's human anatomy and to an extent experience.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!it's a biological function. if he is aroused and his stuff works his body will send blood to his penis causing him to be erect. typically in an intimate setting where you are being sexual most men will become aroused
I know how a dick gets hard, I was curious as to why it's so EASY. It's a foreign concept to someone who doesn't have a penis, believe it or not. 🙄🙄🙄🙄
That means our hormones and your looks are working well together. Your sexuality is doing its job.
Lol we get rock hard just from imagining... Let alone fingering
Biology, hormones, and human anatomy. It gets hard because of an increase amount of blood being supplied to the tissue that it's comprised of
after looking at your profile pic, I can confirm you are hot, so that might be your reason
Evolution made us Horny as fuck. Easy to blame men why not blame mother nature instead. I never chose to be this way. In fact I am a victim of my genes.
It's how we're designed haha
ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME,.
IF You come and put your arms on my shoulders and look into my eyes it will give me a boner
On One scale of 1 to BONER. you are that much hot.
any type of body contact will cause this, we can't help it.
The anticipation! Knowing what's about to cum (pun intended) will do this. Plus, when you're being fingered, are you generally naked?
Nope clothes on still
Oh! So a bit of "hand down the pants" action? :P Yeah--it's knowing what comes next that's doing it to him. Not to mention, if he's got the hand in the honey-pot, why would you be surprised that he gets hard? Wouldn't it be more surprising if he didn't?
No I'm just surprised at how quickly it happens I guess? i dunno. Before I became sexually active I always assumed I'd have to put in a lot more effort to turn a dude on I guess?
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