Why does it always seem like he is grabbing himself around me?

Okays so I know this guy at college and whenever we are in close proximity it seems like he is always grabbing himself and like adjusting. Seriously, we will be in lab working on something standing next to each other and he starts like grabbing at his sweatpants to like move stuff around or something. Geez...I dunno...I'm not a guy... But like seriously!? He has to know that I see him do it...and it's just like why? So, one, is man junk really that uncomfortable to carry around? Does it require that much attention? And, two, why doesn't he try to hide it when he is adjusting around me every five minutes?
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  • First of all, he's a guy, get used to it.

    It's not that it's uncomfortable in general, but sometimes things get themselves into certain positions that are not comfortable.

    As far as not hiding it from you, its because he's comfortable with himself around you. As strange as it is, and I think we all agree that in the interest of good taste, he should be a bit more reserved, you should consider it a compliment that he is that comfortable around you.

    If a guy can do that in front of a girl without reservation, its a good sign of other things, like he's absolutely honest with you, because he doesn't "hide" from you.

    So, as impolite as it is, just realize he's a guy and that's the sort of thing we have to do on occasion.

  • lol! he obviously finds you attractive. Come on, he's a guy. You have to understand what we live with every day ;] Getting a boner in public is pretty embarassing. And when it happens you can't just make it go away. So you have to adjust and "disguise" it :p so you are apparently turning him on, and keeping him turned on if he has to hide it every 5 minutes. but don't think of him as a perv or anything, it's natural. Happens to all of us guys, we don't even have to be thinking about sex and it can happen.

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  • maybe he is hiding his boner that he has. I know it sounds weird but it happens.

    or his "junk" as you call it comes out of his boxers.

    but there could be many reasons why he is doing it those I think are most common though