Why does he have so much trouble getting his penis inside me?

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ok so I can be wet as heck and it still takes time for him tow ork his penis in me.  we have been having sex for 5 months and it still takes a lot of effort to get it inside me.  Like he has to gently thrust until he works it all the way in.  his penis is not big...he evens laughs when I say that.  What is the issue?

kriskiss · Accepted Answer

well you knna just answered your own question his penis is not big so he probably has to get extra close to you to get it in especially if its not in missionary. plus I don't knw how you are built. if he or you have meet on your bones that can lengthen the gap between penis and vagina. for example if he's doing you doggy and you have a gat ass or your vagina lips are not exposed clearly he may be confused. buty normally if uve been sleeping with a dude for a bit you get in sync. I bet you this is not an issue when you ride him is it. I bet not.  so my guess is one or both of you guys are either a little chunky or fat...but so what it takes him a few seconds longer to get it in big deal what do you want the guy to do sever himself or what.  at least you are having sex and lots of people are not so don't complain.  p.s. it sounds like you are not very supportive and are insensitive.  he knows his penis is not big he don't have to hear it from his girl. if I had a girl who said that shed be gone. you gotta be supportive and sweet about it and understanding.  your lucky he didn't go limp after you said his d*** was small even if you said it in a joking way. you have no idea how paranoid guys are with their penis sizes and all.  its the equivalent of a woman being concerned with her boobs, weight, etc.  so be nice and be patient go to a sex therapiist if you need to. but be nice to him and don't complain as I said at least you are having sex so zip it sister.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

It's possible that you are tighter than average. I have experience with a girl like that; she needed some work (fingering, slowly working from one finger to two, and gently stretching) and to be relaxed and aroused, before anything like a penis was going to get in there. It's just how she was built. It wasn't a problem for me, but she was very concerned for a while that she was "too much trouble" and that I'd break up with her over it (not something I'd ever do).

It was never a big deal for me; I enjoy giving foreplay and never minded working her up a bit, but it's true that I could never have walked through the front door, thrown her up against a wall, and banged her, because it would never fit! Hahaha.

And over time, as she became more relaxed and her vagina got used to sex, it was a little easier, but she still needed some work-up first. I can say this: once inside, it was AMAZING, and a couple of times I lost control a little earlier than planned, which is unusual for me.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

This is gonna sound weird, but try changing your bath wash or soap to something more sensitive.  My gyn said a lot of the frangrances are getting stronger and stronger and they irritate the vagina and even cause bacterial infections in some girls.  If you weren't too tight before, maybe you're slightly irritated from contact with these things.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Is he getting as hard as possible?  It's hard to get a softish penis inside of you, even when its only a little bit soft.  Could be that he doesn't get fully hard until he's all the way inside, for whatever reason...