Why does he push my hand away when I want to rub on his penis ?

i am very sexually active and when I want to have sex I try to rub his penis but he pushes my hand away. why do you think maybe it is just not the right time or he just don't want to? but when he wants to have sex then he expects me to be ready or when he wants head then he wants right then and there.
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i have asked him why he pulls away and his answer is I don't know. confused.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Well. I know some girls that have given me a hand job really didn't do that great of a job. Maybe that could be it. One girl just squeezed so my rod so tight that I actually said ouch out loud and was in pain afterwards. I prefer a quarter-strength squeeze with lubrication and variation and making out too. This probably might not be the case though.

    That is unusual. I know I would let a girl rub me anytime.

    Just a suggestion would be to do the same to him. When he wants a bj or sex, just push him away and don't give it to him all the time, keep him chasing you. Or maybe initiate and say what you want to do to him or somethin. What guy would say no to that, that's weird. But I really have no idea. Good luck!

  • thats cool. might be his mood. can I ask a question? is it a turn on to rub his penis?like do you like the way it feels. I know guys feel that way about a girls breasts. just curious

    • I love to rub it turns me on even more and just makes me want him more..

    • Wow its so cool to hear a girl say that. thank you

Most Helpful Girls

  • Sounds like some inner problem, maybe from childhood, I'll tell you why.My sister-in-law said the same thing about her boyfriend, plus he would never take off his underwear until the lets say final moment when he would enter her?.She came to find out he had been molested as a young boy and it was another boy molesting him, I would be careful as to not react too harshly on this subject, just ask him, if its you ?.Does it bother him that YOU touch his penis, because you would like to know why he pulls away like that?.Be upfront with him in a gental way because you never know what his past may have been!.Good luck!

  • does he have small penis? maybe he is self consious about touching it! that's a hard one because my hubby wants feel ups alot! but I think he might just not like being touched or just self consious about it. good luck

  • Sounds like he only wants it when he wants it. And when he doesn't want it he doesn't care that you do.

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  • Have you asked him why he pushed your hand away?

    • He has said he does not know ..

  • Well it is pretty full on. sorry but if someone just came up and grabbed your vag. how would you feel? I know I wouldn't like that very much at all. Maybe its better to try kissing him first.

  • What did he say when you asked him about it?

    • I have asked him and he said he does not know I know I am not too rough.

    • He doesn't know why he pushes your hand away? This is transparent bullsh*t, you know that, right? Does he not know what his hand is doing? If he can't talk about it, he should say so, but "I don't know" isn't a grown-up answer.

  • maybe your rubbing it too hard? some girls had pulled on my **** as if they were trying to start a lawnmower. the key is communication.askw what he likes, and it should go both ways. not just when HE wants to

  • there's always a reason. unless he has involuntary movements, or is on drugs, he knows why, just doesn't want to tell u, or dosen't know how to tell U. sucks, but I would be Soo curious for an honest answer, but my guess is you'll never find out. he may have been molested at a younger age in that way, so it makes him uncomfortable. so don't push the issue IMO

  • is he maybe gay? or maybe he was just with someone else and afraid you'll smell it on ur hand. dunno. I sure would never do that kinda sillyness ;-)

    • Funny you brought that up. last night I was kissing on him I noticed a smell on his penis we have not had sex in a week because of my personal reasons what was that smell ? coming from a man..

  • he might be worried about his size.

  • he might don't want you to

    see how big he is.

  • idk maybe he's not in the mood honestly. or he has to much on his mind to do it