Why does he want me on top so much?

My latest guy loves for me to be on top all the time. From making out to the deed. And I don't think it's cause he's lazy he puts a lot of effort in down there. I like it OK, but since I am a big girl I worry about being heavy.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Obviously, he has no issue with yer weight, and first off let me say that I'd take his opinion of that issue seriously. Girls can get very weird about body image, far more self conscious and unrealistically harsh on themselves..

    Second off.. hey, a lot of guys totally get off on a girl who's excited enough to take charge. It always feels like the role is the guy chases and the girl tentatively accepts - reverse that, have a gal who says 'c'mere!' happily? That's a nice change!

    • Hmm interesting. I will say that I have always been kinda bossy and he is always the one who chases the girls. Maybe its about the role reversal.

  • Love her on top. Different, and control can be better.

    So just find out what he likes, being a bit heavy is no issue. But this is about what you each want.

    But to me, her on top, frees my hands to explore more, I like the feel of her skin, just go with what makes you both happy...

    • Well I don't mind it I've just never had a guy want me on top so much.

    • We haven't met. Unless you don't like it, you'd be on top a lot with me. If you like it and breakup, let me know :)

    • Oh my well based on the age difference I do believe I would have to respectfully decline your offer dear sir.

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  • my boyfriend is the same way and I had the same insecurities and I said something to him and he was like I think you are beautiful the way you are and it just made me feel so much better about it and I'm sure if you share your insecurities with your boyfriend he will understand...my boyfriend now knows and never makes me feel like anything is wrong with me or I have any imperfections and I'm sure if you are just honest you will have the same experience as I did

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  • if its acceptable to you, thenjust go with the flow. its possible down the road that you might want to do something different. right now is the time to tallk to him aboutn it. it ain't all about him and/or wha he wants. you are there as well, with your own preferences .dont worry about your weight, he obviously doesn't

  • He wants you to ride him.

  • Because he loves it how you ride it 🙃😛

  • My boyfriend's the same way - he's very submissive in bed. I've grown to love it though!