Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health +1 y
Why does it take me so long to get turned on?
cherryphi82 Yoda
People tell me that I'm at an age where I should be at my horniest (in my 30s) but the opposite is true. I feel like the older I get the longer it takes me to get turned on and the more complicated my turn-ons. I used to be able to just strip down and get it on. I can no longer do that, it doesn't do anything for me, I require more... attention to my mind and details, which makes me feel defective. Anyone in my age range have similar experiences, and if so, what did you do about it?
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I should add that I also have four kids. Having them constantly around definitely makes it harder to "prep" for sex.
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What Girls & Guys Said
5 22You know daddy and god are looking at you and judging you.
I think you are tensed. You need some excitement. Something new. Talk to your husband about it.