Why does my boyfriend always look at me while I give him a blowjob?

It's a little awkward... I don't care that much I guess I'm not used to that, whatever. Do guys usually do this?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • iv been with my husband for almost five years now and it is still awkward when he looks at me doing it, its like I'm in the spot light but then some days when he doesn't look at me then I feel like I'm not doing a great job.

    i asked him when he first started looking at me doing it and he said he looks because he thinks its sexy watching my lips around him and it turns him on so much. so just enjoy and know he thinks your doing a great job and he's loving every moment of it.

  • If they close their eyes, they may as well be getting a wet handjob with a tongue:/ They like to know it's you. It makes them feel masculine, and looking them in the eye, adds intimacy, also if you can smile or let him know you are enjoying it, he'll love it that much more! Also if you watch his face..I personally find it sexy and it turns me on to see him looking at me, loving what I'm doing to him.

  • He's probably just in disbelief every time and he probably thinks you like him looking at you and I've heard its supposed to make it sexier if you look at him.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Guys are visual a lot of the time. Meaning the look at things to be sure of them, it adds spice to see the girl going down on you while you feel the effects. Personally, its the girls eyes for me. I wanna see energy and sexy and all of that in her eyes if she looks like she's doing laundry it hurts the BJ experience.

  • More importantly, why do you find it awkward? Lots of guys look and lots of girls find it erotic to make eye contact during it.

    • I think I found it awkward just because it was my first time doing it, and I'm not used to it.

    • Oh, well then yeah that's understandable. Everything's awkward the first time. A lot of guys like watching for a few reasons 1)It's just amazing to watch a girl do that to us 2)We want you to see that you have our full attention and 3)We are saving these images of you for "later." It's all normal and natural. Just smile (well, do the best you can when your mouth is busy) and act cute about it. It'll get more normal for you as you do it more.

    • What he said.

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  • my boyfriend does that too, every single time I give him head. It just turns him on even more seeing me do it.

  • In the minds of men:

    1.) Holy crap - is this really happening!

    2.) Damn, that looks hot...

    3.) Is she gonna...yes! She is!

    Hope that helps.

  • guys like to watch how their di**s go in and out our mouths I guess is just a guy's thing

  • What else are they suppose to do

  • Guess he likes to watch

  • close your eyes then