Why does my boyfriend always want to finger me while I'm going down on him?

every time I give my boyfriend head, he wants to finger me or rub my vagina or play with my boobs. He lays on his back and I lay on my side while I give him oak and he fongers me and stares at my vagina while he does it. Why does he do this? I tell him he doesn't have to
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Reason could be any of these or more:

    1. It's his fetish to do so

    2. He may not like to go down on a woman so he plays with your vagina or boobs

    3. He doesn't like getting a bj in a monotonous manner i.e. you giving him head and he simply standing there taking it. Doesn't tickle some people

    4. Most guys who like getting head do lots of things for the girl/woman too at the same time to show their appreciation for it.

    5. He likes to satisfy you or make you feel good simultaneously while you make him feel good

  • That's mostly what I do too. I enjoy playing with my girl in general, and when we're going at it, I want to be giving her as much pleasure as she can handle. Having her really turned on is what turns ME on.

    Sure, sometimes she gives BJs kneeling in front of me, and then I can't really do it, but I usually still squeeze her boobs on occasion. But I like to stay involved and keep the intensity high for her, and in my experience, girls get blown away by that and always want more, which is good for me too.

Most Helpful Girls

  • It's a turn on for him & it can get you off. It also adds to his pleasure. He may also feel that the more you're turned on the better you'll do. This will also give him something to do with his hands if you don't want him pushing your head down or pulling in your hair.

  • he wants to return the favour

    it probably also turns him onto see you turned on

    and he wants the pleasure to be mutual

    he sounds like a keeper to me

  • Why would that be anything to be concerned about lol. If anything it's double the fun for both of you. Maybe that's just me and mine? : \

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  • He's turned on and wants to reciprocate. If it distracts, just stop when he does it and look at the spot he's touching. He'll stop--I promise.

  • because it turns him on more.

    • That's right

  • Maybe he thinks it's awkward just to stare at you while you are blowing him.

    Some guys don't like to look into their partners eyes because it could be awkward.

    So he does something else to please you while not having to feel awkward.

    Or maybe he just likes to pleasure you.

  • Because its hot.

    Because your body turns him on and excites him.

    Because he wants you to be aroused, not just servicing him.

  • sh*t girl make him eat your p**** why is he just rubbing you, he has a tongue for a reason and that's one of the big reasons lol

    • I’d tongue you !

  • He wants to pleasure you while you are pleasuring him. Also, the more turned on you are the more enthusiastic you'll be in sucking his c*ck.

  • Its extra stimulation and I love doing that myself!

  • cause vagina's are fun to touch and it makes you feel good

  • It is mental stimulation for him knowing that he is making you feel good and touching you.

  • Dam I'm getting horny thinking about it? Are you hot? Do you have a photo? LOL...