Why does my boyfriend finish so fast?

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. I don't understand how he managed to finish so quickly. He use to last like at least 10 min now it's like 3 or 4 min or like last night 2 min and he was done. We do it every once in a while.. like every week or other week, maybe once or twice. It's not often at all.
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  • When a guy doesn't have sex very often, the sexual tension builds up and causes him to drive for orgasm, causing a lot of guys to lose control and finish quickly. Having sex more often will reduce a bit of that sexual tension and allow them to retain more control over themselves.

    Think of it this way: you normally can drink a glass of water in sips, but if you've been in the desert for 3 days without water, you want to gulp it down as fast as you can, because the desire and need for water has built up to huge levels. It's similar for a guy and sex.

  • You are not having very much sex, so whatever happens it will not improve until you do. You can also work on things to help him last, but they involve more intimacy than you seem to be having. You are young in a young relationship, you should still be going at it like rabbits!

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  • How frequently were you having sex a year ago?

    • We don't do it that often. It's every other week or so. sometimes every week. but not every day it'll be twice in a week

    • Try twice a day for a weekend and see what happens. Does he seem to care? There are a few reasons why, and ways to work on it, but the quickest thing to do is have significantly more sex and see what happens.

    • Oh he cares he was a bit upset about finishing so fast..he did get me off though don't get me wrong..

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  • maybe he has developed premature ejaculation or something or you are just really good in bed or your just more than he can handle

  • Some medications can affect this. Drugs like marijuana can also affect libido. Try having sex more often; it could help desensitize him a bit.