My boyfriend always wants head over sex. He said I'm so good he done fast but that's all he wants anymore. I'm lucky if I get the favor returned twice a month. As for sex I'm lucky to get that 3-4 times a month now. It used to be the opposite for years. He was the one always given me head and having sex, I rarely ever gave it to him. He used to always want quickies now its very rare. I don't understand why a dramatic change. I ask him and he says he's tired or later and nothing. I've climbed on top but that's not good enough I want to be pleased like all about me for once no work. I swear I'm on the verge of tmj. Like 1-2x a day ugh. I'm loosing hope that it will change.
I think most of the guys I've been with have liked head better than sex. I used to think it was just because we didn't use condoms for oral, but I don't use condoms with my current guy (IUD) and he still likes head better. I guess you and I must be doing something right down there. What I like to do is go down on him first, and let him finish. Then, after a little break, he usually goes down on me until I cum. By then he's hard again, so we have sex. This is obviously only if we have the time, since the whole deal does take a while. Sometimes I just go down or we just have sex too.
So it doesn't mean he's not turned on me?
Yes he is turned on by you. You get him excited. Reread some of the other girls oppinions
I think it depends on the guy really. maybe you could ask him why he does?
When I did ask, he says because he doesn't have to do any of the work and it feels really good.
Well not like I said above he's that lazy or inconsiderate to please you. Try getting on top if he doesn't want to do any work.. Buy the way remind him it called a B.J. because it is a JOB & a lot of work for you
Wow Hmm that's interesting. I guess that your really good at oral, but he is not being a considerate lover by having sex. He needs to learn to please you that way & positions that also satisfy him. It seems like he's a bit inconsiderate. Sex first then maybe oral to finish the job until he finds out how to pleasure you & him together.
Maybe because you're so willing to give it and expect nothing in return, not even love. That's the bottom of the barrel type of relationship. If you feel that way then dump the dude and look for a real man that understands that women are more than just physical beings with a mouth.
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Not that you should use it against him, but you should force him to partake in pleasing you. If he refuses, let him go. If you're as good as his statements lead on, then you deserve better.
Well, if that's the case get rid of him. There's no point being with someone who doesn't find you attractive.
Simple.
blackmail him. as the other people said before, just don't do stuff for him unless he does something for you.
I had the thing as your boyfriend for a while but when she realized it she started messing with me.She'd give me head til right before I came then would basically say now you do me and she would make me give her head and have sex before she would finish so now I enjoy every minute not just foreplay stuff.
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