Why does my boyfriend loves to pin down my hand during sex?

[saheta]

I'm just curious..i mean it is not in the rough way..and it really turns me on..but I don't know why? any ideas?

[islands7]

Ideas - yes

Putting aside formal bondage sub/dom definitions, this reads more like sex fore&play, fantasy role play mentally.

It is a turn on for either party to be partially restrained and enjoy "force" pleasure (that one could stop at once) with the built-in excuse no reciprocation is expected. One can concentrate fully on achieving orgasm, as pleasure is doled out to you. Basic Instinct (movie) displays this best with scarves serving as "bonds".

It is a turn on for the "wrestling winner" that pinned you to then take his (or her) just rewards, plunder & booty as he (she) wishes.

Further episodes of this could include one stripping the other roughly after "wrestling", which leads to other role playing games like pizza guy/girl, cop & speeder, teacher/bad student, etc. Lots of stories on line - bet you'll find one just like your one about being pinned ...

[l-hedoniste]

Because it really turns you on.

[saheta]

haha..what an answer..