Why does my vagina reject everything?

[Anonymous]

Okay so I can't fit anything in my vagina, a tampon my fingers you name it I cannot fit anything in. Recently I've realized I was ready to lose my virginity to my boyfriend of 2 years so we got together one day and stared going for it and it was very nice and sweet until he started to stick it in, I literally started crying it hurt so bad. And no he didn't get it all the way in, it was barely even half way. I felt so bad because I was so excited to do this with him but I couldn't because my body didn't let me so ever since then I've tried to loosen it up down there but no matter what I try I can't fit anything in there without crying. Does anyone know what I should do or what's going on?

[Jager66]

maybe you just need one of these

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[Jager66]

Err link gimped on me, here it is again

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[AlphaMale1]

I have head of women with your same problem visit a doctor as there is a way to stretch you so you are bigger. Not sure what kind of a doctor can help. Maybe a gynecologist would be a good place to start.

[Anonymous]

you're just not use to it yet. I was like you when i was young until i lost my virgin to my husband. Thats when i got used. He wasn't able to insert it fully, only half way he told me. I was resisting too, cause it hurted bad, but he just kept going until he cummed. After that i just got used to it. You and your boyfriend can try using lube, itll probably help a bit. Or wait until you're really ready and then you guys can have sex.

[itsallover]

You might have a condition called vaginismus, where the muscles of the vagina contract to the point that nothing can go inside. In order to confirm, I would suggest going to see a gynecologist.

[carpe_natem]

see a gynecologist, they'll tell you what's going on and help you

[selmo93]

See a doctor. I'm sure there's a medical name for it

[OlderAndWiser]

Google "vaginismus."

[bcromartie]

Vaginismus would occur before the object would go in, that is, her boyfriend's penis would not even get to "half way". Definitely not vaginismus.

[OlderAndWiser]

@bcromartie I am not a physician; if you are and this is within your subject matter expertise, I will defer to your opinion. However, according to several sources. your claim is not well founded.

[bcromartie]

If you were a physician you'd ask for symptoms so I already knew that.

[OlderAndWiser]

@bcromartie If I was a physician, I would not interview a patient in a public internet forum about her symptoms of vaginismus. I am not a physician but I am a professional and I know better.

[bcromartie]

I think we've confirmed that you're not a physician. Please stop telling me this.

[OlderAndWiser]

@bcromartie And we've confirmed that you are not a physician, also. Do you have any source that says muscle spasms associated with vaginismus always occur BEFORE attempting to insert something in the vagina?

[Zendrya]

are you wet when you try and put stuff in there?

[Asker]

I make sure I either have Lub or I'm wet I was wet when I was with him so I thought I was going to be okay

[Zendrya]

I mean having sex for the first time did hurt a lot for me but I have always been able to put a tampon in and what not. You should go to the doctor and talk about it. There could be a problem.

[WillowTree]

Have a doctor check you out.

[NYkid27]

You should see a gynecologist. They'll know if there's anything wrong and how to fix it

[helloitsmethere]

Yeah, there is a medical condition for that...

[bcromartie]

Sounds like normal.

[Zendrya]

not normal at all

[bcromartie]

[insert argumentation here] It's normal.

[goodmood]

Try using some lubricant.

[kutenkinky8_24]

See a doctor

[BigBallerSodaPop]

I have no idea

[Anonymous]

Just relaxe if it helps take a warming pad and put it by your Virginia it helps open it up

[Anonymous]

Go see a doctor. This is pretty solvable.

[Anonymous]

You should go see a gynecologist.

[Anonymous]

WOW just WOW