Why does physical affection so often turn into sexual action with guys?

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was it a plan all along or they just can't help touching without getting hard? or the inverse too. sex has to come before they can touch you affectionately non sexually/. I used to think its a rule with them. now I wonder if its just they need sex s soon a they touch & they need it  before they can calm down enough to be touching you non sexually?

billy_young · Accepted Answer

To a certain degree it depends on age. But as a general rule, if guys like a girl, there will be at least some sexual attraction. Not many guys would go out with someone who they didn't find even remotely attractive. I mean the overall point in relationships is to have kids, which requires sex, which requires being turned on.

Personally, when I started to see my first girlfriend aged 15, every single hug or kiss or sometimes just holding hands... they all gave me an erection. It's not something you can control, even if you're not thinking about sex at all, it just happens. It's like goosebumps when you're cold, it's just an inate reaction.

But, when I got an erection, I didn't just try it on with her. I held back and tried to hide it and to a certain extent avoided physical contact too much.

These days, aged 20, I don't get an erection half as easily. I can quite happily have hugs and things with girls I like without a problem. I have to at least think about sex quite a bit, or be physically aroused by sexual touching or by passionate kissing to get an erection. And it's still easy to not just leap on a girl when I get one. Anyone who does that is just desparate for sex, simple as (which many guys aged 15-25 are).

But, there is also the pain aspect. If a guy has an erection for a while, or get's turned on, then off, then on, then off again a lot of times (over an hour at least for each) and they don't ejaculate, then their balls do start to ache badly and they start to feel sick. This happened to me a lot when I was 15 because I'd basically have an erection for about 3hrs solid because of kisses and hugs and sexual thoughts that came into my mind because of the unwanted erection. So I learned to masturbate straight after and it helps a bit, but I didn't even understand for a long time until I googled it. It's called blue ball if you want a better explanation.

I hope this answers your question somewhat. In my opinion, the only reason guys would just turn contact into sex is that they're desparate for sex. It's not hard to just ignore it and pretend it's not there, but an erection is not always a conscious thing, especially with younger guys, it can be unwanted and come on for no reason.

BoobMan · Accepted Answer

I think you absolutely nailed it in your initial question: "they need it before they can calm down enough. . ."

The hormones are incredibly strong in the late teens early 20s. When I was in highschool, I used to get unbelievably turned on around my girlfriend, pretty much anytime we were alone and especially if we were close. If I could feel the heat of her body and smell her it would drive me crazy. And if we started to touch or kiss it was just impossible to think straight. I'd immediately get hard and I really couldn't process anything else other than a burning need to touch her, kiss her, feel her and have her touch me. After I'd ejaculate I'd be able to calm down enough to relax with her, touch her in a calmer fashion and generally just think straight.

She was generally cool with this and enjoyed the sexual playing too, but there were times when it got ridiculous. One night we were working on a school project and when the others working with us left I just couldn't think about anything but touching her. Not convenient timing, but I didn't have a ton of control over it! It definitely helps if the guy ejaculates more.

College was a little better, but then it was close to impossible for me to fall asleep in the same bed as my girlfriend without ejaculating first. And I'd usually wake up really horny in the morning too.

Enjoy it though! Youthful lust like that only comes around once! Find a guy you care about and explore it with him.

AnUnquietMind · Accepted Answer

My step dad gave me the best advice on this exact same topic and it makes PERFECT sense. Women are emotional creatures by nature. Men are physical creatures by nature. In order for a man to be intimate and emotional he must get out the physical first. Women in order to be physical have to have the emotional connection and stimulation. You and the Boyfriend need to come to a common ground and figure out what's going to work best for the both of you. Good luck!

Tigerlily · Accepted Answer

Ha, I totally get what you mean. Men are just more sexual than women in general. Not always, but usually. They tend to get a much quicker, stronger (sexual) hormonal rush from that touching than women do, who generally like the touching first for a while and then the sex later. Don't know why really. Just is. Kinda sucks.

Standingpretty · Accepted Answer

Well, there is an expression for such a thing, that is kind of funny but sums it up pretty well: "Men are like microwaves while women are like ovens". I heard that phrase awhile back and whenever I see a question like this it just brings me back to that phrase.

Jawless · Answer

Calm down, whoa, lots of updates. Some people can be mean but it's just opinions. You can't ask people, especially such a small handful of people, if you are fruitbat crazy or not, lol. You have to ask yourself, and then, if the problem persists, ask those closer to home. :)

...I'm going to stand over here now, okay? :)

Hmm, I'm just going to answer your main question, not all of your updates, if that's alright.

With my girlfriend, there is a lot of physical affection almost all the time when we are together, and it does inevitably lead to erections. It doesn't signify if a male is horny or not, really, there has been times when we've made love, rolled over and relaxed, I've gone limp, then after the 'cleaning process' I've cuddled up to her again, and immediately became erect again. I don't think it relates to the need to spread your seed, or just have sex all the time, really.

I think it just stems from love..and of course, how sexy the current feeling is. It's stimulating to have another body pressed up against you, especially one of the different, fairer sex. Especially when the chests are held together and his crotch is pressing up against another part of your body, as well. It makes the male horny without realising, and then the erection appears - and they can't hide it was well as you can hide your miniature erection. :)

In my cases, we normally cuddling up wearing just t-shirts and underwear, so our legs rub together and there is very thin material between us and the offending area, so it's hard to not get erect, really. It comes from all the mental and physical stimulation. We really can't help it. :)

There are guys out there who work towards getting girls into bed, and every effort is working towards getting them into bed as soon as possible, so when the time comes to cuddle and other stuff, the feeling of being so close overwhelms them, and they just get horny and erect. I'm sure they would very much like to have sex, but it doesn't mean it's what they actually want.

Hope that helps, anyway. :)

Myth024 · Answer

The ultimate answer to this lies in the individual. Each person is different and each person handles various situations differently. The underlying issue here is more biological. Everyone has something that turns them on, gets them going and prepares them to perpetuate the human existence. At the core of things what attracts us to one another is the perceived ability to procreate. Some societies believe that wide hips, large breasts, and a plump figure are the perfect combination for a woman to be a baby factory. Other societies look at more criteria like the color of hair, eyes, how tall they are. Either way, men on some level are judging a woman's looks to determine her child bearing abilities. This generates a natural reaction as well as a release of key hormons that most men are unable to control. It's not just about getting "hard", but about the bodies focus being turned towards immortality through progeny.

Now, lets say someone gets you really turned on and I mean so ready to go that a touch can send shivers up your spine and even emit a stifled cry of pleasure. Then, they simply walk away. How difficult would it be for you to simply stop thinking about sex? (I'm also told that the same result can occur when sex is un-satisfying. ) How badly would you want that release and could you simply wait till you calmed down to go about your business or would need to do something about it? While it might take more "effort" on a guys part to get a girl to that level, a guy can be ready in a much shorter period of time as I'm sure you may have noticed. If the two of you are intentionally "playing" with each other then it's only natural for the body to want to continue. For some guys, it might be difficult to assert some level of control and I would bet most guys deal with it eventually one way or the other. (Cold showers? :) )

Being able to hug or touch a girl without a physical reaction isn't completely impossible but it takes considerable effort and sometimes the guy has to think about anything but the woman in question.

Quadrophonic84 · Answer

It's how nature designed us. We wonder why you want to touch us but not want sex. That seems pretty weird when you know what's going to happen. But then again, most women aren't "thinkers".

themastaplan · Answer

why doesn't it for girls...

clovisx · Answer

I think that in a lot of situations, guys are looking to have something more happen and if there is some touching that leads us to think it could become more physical or intimate, that's how we're wired to respond.

Slugworth99 · Answer

It's a shame that you aren't looking at the question anymore or if you got harsh answers.

Your question is related to a man's physiology. Given your age category, I am guessing that you are referring to men the same age. Men have a large amount of testosterone in the age group, They are literally at their sexual peak of life. Their body, especially their sex organs, are going to respond to the slightest stimulation and be ready for action.

I am in my mid-40's. In some ways, I wish those days were back. In other ways, I am glad they are gone. Most men will decrease in sexual drive as their hormone levels decrease. The bizarre thing about the way God set this up is that women usually increase in sex drive as they enter the late 30's, 40's and even beyond.

The guy may not necessarily be wanting to take you right there and then even those his penis is sounding the trumpet to CHARGE! It is just his body responding to something that feels good.

sumina7 · Answer

Because you are sexy and excite your bf.

citrush2o · Answer

Four words: We're wired that way. You need to be careful when you're giving a man physical affection. We're naturally designed to respond to female affection with physical, sexual actions. It's not always right, but it's how we're designed. Just be thoughtful of how you're interacting with your guy friends and make sure to draw the lines not only with your words, but your actions. In other words: Don't set the trap unless you're looking to catch something.

babygirltiffie · Answer

i wanna know the same thing.i wanna know how to possibly turn them off so its safe to hug them nonsexually lolsometimes I feel like its the only way.

Jawocha · Answer

We want to F her!

kriskiss · Answer

its impossible if a guy is into ou and is touching you and not get hard. its all connected. a guy can get hard just looking at a girl and not touching himself.  but obviously wants he gets erect whether through touching, hugging, etc...he of course wants to get busy its the biological logical  next thing to do. don't blame it on the guy...blame it on nature. but don't blame it on nature because nature has no remorse...hahahahhaah

PeterCobra · Answer

idk but for me, why touch all over me if you don't want some sort of physical response like taking it further, to be touched back, or even eventaully sex? a hug or a kiss on the cheek as a greeting in some countries (not so much here in america) is fine. but my guy friends don't touch my legs or rub my shoulders or touch me anywhere at all for that matter, so why would a girl who is just a freind? if you don't start no mess, there won't be no mess. if you aren't interested in anything more than a friendship, don't be touching all over my body. pretty simple if you ask me.

btw this has too many updates. just ask your quetion and let it ride. people are gonna say waht they are gonna say. you don't have to correct or justify every single response. I didn't even read all that cause its just too much, so I hope my answer is still valid after all the updates.

Guytalks · Answer

I think your question is not framed clearly. I think what you are asking (I may be wrong) is about a situation between a guy and a girl BEFORE they ever had sex together. Am I correct?

In that case you are wondering if and why guys need to go straight to sex before any other physical affection is being shared.

So, if it's what you are asking about, the answer is that most guys are after sex, very simple. What they feel physically on a daily basis is a strong desire to have sex. Of course, guys can and do masturbate. But the perspective or opportunity to have sex with a girl is a hundred times more exciting.

There is a disconnect here between men and women most of the time. From my experience, girls are usually interested to build an emotional bond with a guy more than anything else, a feeling of loving the guy and being loved by him. That's what is driving them. Though attraction is there from the beginning it is usually in a raw form and not the first priority. Desire for sex is developing with the bonding process. For guys it's completely different. Guys want sex with most girls from the get go. That's what is driving us. Loving bond is developing later than strong physical desire for men.

So in summary:

For girls, love then sex

For guys, sex then love

(I'm over-simplifying and generalizing a lot, reality is of course not that black or white for either gender and not the same for every individual)

ZenSpace · Answer

A guy has very urgent sexual urges. It is biological. Your comparison to eating is good. To a guy, the sexual urge is very much like being starving if you have not eaten all day. The only way to get relief is to cum. Sex is about RELIEVING the pressure for guys more than it is about pleasure. It is VERY hard to stop after a certain point. Instincts are powerful things.

Now of course we are expected to be able to control ourselves and I accept that. Men must always remain in control, that is the burden placed on us. But it is DIFFICULT, very difficult, much harder than most women ever realize.

So yes it is painful if you do nothing sexual. If you reach a certain level of excitement, then you are forced to stop, suddenly and unexpectedly, that is torture. It is extremely cruel to start and stop with a guy, teasing him again and again. Not only that, it is dangerous. He may very well snap, especially if this is a young guy in his sexual prime who has not had sex in a long time, so the urge has built up.

Men have NEEDS. And masturbating does not relieve the pressure. Sex is an important part of being a healthy satisfied man, when men stop getting sexually satisfied... they become strained and miserable.

I hope that answers your question?

christiansurfer · Answer

I'm def going to say you are coming across some insecure mofos who don't get sex as often as they like and are desperate for some. I can just kiss and hold my girlfriend and be happy as sh*t, and I won't push sex. Personally, its always better when both partners want it. However, there are times when I got assertive lmao, but I was def not "ravishing" her. Like I said sounds like insecure guys who don't get theres.

needlessthing · Answer

simple answer...evolution. When are designed in everyway to attract the males. Males have a constant chemical in their bodies called testosterone. Which is producted and released from our groins. The looks, touch and even the smell of a female can send a man into excitement. Testisterone is a very very powerful chemical, and it is very hard to over come mentally. Over long periods of time (common in our sexual repressed society) without sexual release (masterbation is not 100% effective, it helps but not as much as having a partner) frustration, anxiety, depression, desperation, erratic behavior, and sexual aggression build up. Add all this to the human bodies natural addiction to endophines (the bodies natural drug for reward) and you have males. Sexual, strong willed, agressive and sometimes unable to fully control themselves.

And to answer your question about pain...yes it can come to a level of physical pain. A condition known as blue balls. Which is a build up of semin in the testicals. Do to lack of regular release. Regular masturbation helps this.

Women have estrogen. That effects you more emotionally. Hens why women respond to more emotional stimulous rather then physical.

justintime · Answer

Ahhh. It all stems back to when we were cavemen. The male had to be sexually aggressive to make sure there were offspring to perpetuate the family line.

Men are more visual and this too stems back to the caveman days.

Because of the inherent dangers around the male had to become sexually aroused quickly and get the sexual act done as quickly as possible in case there was a predator or another male wanting to either eat you or take the female.

I personally prefer a lot of foreplay, hours or even days, in the build up to the main event. The anticipation and waiting makes the urge that much stronger.

Haven't you found that the male is much more calmer and communicative after a good sex session?

VeritablePlethora · Answer

Guys always mean to do what they are doing unless they are drunk. If a guy says he didn't mean to do something, that is only because you confronted him about it. We may be easily overpowered by our sexual urges, but no guy is actually stupid enough to "accidentally" go too far. It's only a mistake to him if it's a mistake to you

suavaye · Answer

guys are hard wired to get horny fast, its how nature made us. now some of us can handle ourselves better than others, so no yu don't have to have sex before you can touch non sexually. but there's not much we can do about getting hard. just like when girls get wet. only diffrence is you girls can hide yours better.

were not sexual animals, but we can't help but think of the posibility of sex if things get too hot.

if you don't want sex and you know it its your job to say how far you want to go and stop when it goes too far.

WeaponZero · Answer

For the record, guys don't need much to get an erection.  They can get it from pretty much anything involving a girl, depending on whether or not they have something on their mind.  With me it doesn't happen so much because my head is off in the clouds lol and my imagination is always working.  But with guys whose imaginations aren't as overactive, yeah, they can get it off pretty much any physical contact.  They can get it from anything not involving girls too.  It can happen at random times for some guys.  But that doesn't mean they have to follow up on it.  It's a bodily function, nothing more.  And controlling it takes a lot of concentration.  But again, that doesn't mean guys have to try to do anything about it with the girl.

honeyltsme · Answer

humans are predator mammals and in such animals touch and courtship and sex emulate hunting behavior, whereby you test the defenses, you casually play around, you engage, you go for the kill.

some humans are more understanding then others and thanks to their better manners and social skills have a keener sense of time and place. they also recognize some touch or dance or flirting are there for their face value nothing more, and should not be construed as a prelude to sex. on the other hand when the girl is in the mood and the guy fails to make the appropriate move, she may never give him a 2nd chance, passing him over for an inferior male who has a better sense of timing.

what can I say, you'll have less embarrassment if you hang around classier guys with better manners, but manners or not we are the same beasts on the inside. consider yourself warned.

Channeleddan · Answer

Don't assume that, that's not true for all guys.

However, I will say that that's often just the natural way for guys to proceed.

It doesn't mean you have to go along with it, you have a say it in too...

Raider_Z · Answer

She likes getting poked. I just find it difficult to fall asleep or hold a deep conversation if I keep drifting off into fantasies of her ravishing me.

My back isn't as sensitive, so I don't get turned on as easily.

Raider_Z · Answer

I can't touch a girl much without getting hard. I have to be the inside spoon if she wants to cuddle without sex. Cuddling is way better after I get off. I can actually hold her without constantly thinking about getting it on.

assembledtoy · Answer

I never really thought about that, but I guess it is true for that to happen to a guy. I know this from previous experiences.

cjwright79 · Answer

Feels good man.

MachineMan · Answer

It is really simple, sex for men = 100% pleasure (if they are with someone they are attracted to) there is no draw backs all men like sex. So in a man's mind well we are being intimate now why don't we raise it up a notch and have sex. Unless we are exhausted or really stressed men will always enjoy sex.

girloncue · Answer

well, specially when inhebriated, people get caught up in the moment and go too far. it's the human condition. We are made to do that to reproduce millions of little babies.

BluMac81 · Answer

Simple, it's testosterone, something you ladies lack, it creates the biological instinct to reproduce at every possible window of opportunity, including affection.  Guys can't help it.

Asailum · Answer

first of all, any guy who feels guilty or bad for rubbing his girlfriends body is a retard. If your girlfriend/partner doesn't enjoy orgasms and hot kinky sex, why the f*** are you still with her?

to address your question, I think your just running into guys who don't get laid often enough, so they build up all that sexual tension and any touch triggers those drives. If your with a guy and he's getting turned on by every touch, then you aren't having sex with him often enough to meet his sexual needs. Once he gets it out of his system he would of course be more relaxed to cuddle or touch in a non sexual way.

aloofalpha · Answer

If someone gets hard from a hug, then they are lacking sexual experience. Unless you are stroking the inside of his thigh or are sitting on his lap and he wants you...then I don't see why a guy would get hard...

Maybe the whole wants you factor affects people differently. But I've found, if I haven't got laid in a while and I've got a girl who I want in my bed, sitting on my lap, I can't help but get a bit semi.

smbcomix · Answer

I read up and down this entire thread, Question Asker, and I'd like to apologize for all the flak you've taken thus far.

That said, with regards to how a man can touch a woman and then lose all self-control, well, it's obvious to me he never had it to begin with. Yes, we're all primed and ready to go well before touching or hugging. But those of us with a good (or semi-decent) upbringing, who have self-control, will keep their voluntary responses in check, and hope to God their involuntary responses don't kick in (that last one is doomed to failure, but that's my experience when hugging a close female friend).

On the other hand, there are sadistic people out there who lose control (rapists) and simply never had it to begin with (rapist/pervert combo). It is pointless to try to understand them; your best move would be, if you ever encountered one, to take appropriate action. Until then, do not worry so much about it. And as for those guys who restrain themselves to the point where they're afraid to touch a girl... well, they're afraid they're gonna get smacked or sued or whatever it is girls who don't like being touched by guys do. I'm one of those guys; if I have the urge to simply hug a female friend, I'll ask her first... usually with a shaky voice, I think. And because I have self-control, it won't go any farther than that. And I'll keep my pelvis a fair distance from hers so that she doesn't detect an erection, assuming I'm going to have one (it doesn't always happen). That's kinda embarassing to me, really.

But yeah... those guys who lose or never had control? Don't waste time trying to understand them, just take action if you ever meet one.

HomoErectus · Answer

honestly all your question with its updates made me re-confirm how crazy women are. do you realize your own question? Why would a guy touch you and try to avoid (this so called) "sexual" response? come on! if you go out with a guy and you're a middle 20s what the hell are you expecting? anyways, your short answer is: physical attention turns into sexual action cause one thing leads to another. (common sense)

LivelyMind · Answer

because a majority of the time sex is on their mind plain and simple we're more into our feelings while their not so much it really depends on the guy too though but if the guy can't tame himself and cuddle a bit than he's an ass !

Brandan_Cromartie · Answer

You must be dealing with young males.

bmwthegirl · Answer

Totally love your question. very eye opening for me.

Backbone · Answer

All guys are shallow and want to get into your panties - full stop!

simplythebest · Answer

love this question!

dont_ask_me · Answer

as a man I can say that I certainly can be affectionate and such before or without having sex.  However, the whole time it will be building up inside.  So to be  relaxed and at ease while cuddling or whatever you are looking for, I need to cum...inside you, inside your mouth, with aide from your hand, or if you wish, while you watch me do it myself.  My wife wanted to watch me so I provided that service.  it was a huge turn on just watching her stare at my c ock as I masturbated.  I came pretty hard.

rocksongwriter · Answer

"sex has to come before they can touch you affectionately / non sexually."

Are you saying that you think guys need sex before they can hug you or hold hands? (I'm just woindering if that's been ytour experience with guys.)

beastman88 · Answer

its just how it is for the first little while. I don't know why girls like you act like its such a big deal. girls want it just as bad as the guys. so whatever, I don't know what your trying to get at, if I find a girl attractive and she lets me touch her of course iam going to be aroused, if we started dating and got into a relationship it wouldn't be as bad. in the beginning that's just how it is, being passionate and having that uncontrollable lust for eachother.

later on, there's a lot more intimacy, and just being togetherness that's appreciated. the fact that you can have sex at any point isn't as exciting anymore as time goes on. although its still good when it happens

bob01 · Answer

it depends of the touch. Using your hands, arms, body on my would signal good affection, while a french kiss or other sexual touches can set me in the mood of sexual desire.

Victorious40 · Answer

That's not neccesarily true...I know my guy will just hold\hug me sometimes when I kinda want him to go a little father! haha

But still, yes, simple touching does turn guys on...But personally I can't claim to be tottally innocent of being turned on by innocuous little touches either.

justanotherguy555 · Answer

is it our fault you woman are beautiful? is it are fault we want to be closer to you? lol.

i personally like to think of it at an evolutionary point of view. that way I can't be blamed. I can touch any beautiful girls hand and wouldn't get hard or even have a passing sexual thought, even if I was single and looking to get laid. on the other hand... if I touch my girlfriends lower back or see her in a bra I can't help myself but think of what could happen later.

Shaun · Answer

because that's the point of physical affection.

just_the_way_you_are · Answer

Guys are sexual, and let themselves be convinced that anything (like touching) a girl does to them must also be sexual, and thereby they want it to suddenly become more...

jacquesvol · Answer

A guy can't stop his penis from getting hard (just his hormones..) but that doesn't mean he has to rape the girl to survive: he can just as well  go on with a boner, without any pain or problem.

rotinaj10 · Answer

Not really sure what the point of this question is...  I've never turned a friendly hug or any other kind of contact with a women into some kind of uncontrollable lust.  Have I gotten a boner from a friendly hug, well yes but that is what happens sometimes when guys come into contact with boobs.

dreamishobby · Answer

its all naturally in our hormone!...we really can't help it much!

Ju1cedup · Answer

Depends -- sometimes I don't even feel like having sex.. but once I start touching I get going... sometimes I get touching and affectionate when I wanna bone.

Sometimes I touch and stuff and don't end up wanting to have sex... but that's not very often :)

I'm a hormone driven man!

aaronante · Answer

genetically we as men are designed to mate and mate alot! we have testicles that pump out a hormone all day every second..and a lot of it..this hormone is 4 one purpose..it tells us to put our penis in something and make babies..trust me..its not like we don't get annoyed about bein turned on over every little thing..but it almost can't be helped..

Rorschach · Answer

Passion. strong feelings and desires. Sometimes good. Sometimes bad.

krp52 · Answer

For me when I have not had intercourse for a while with my wife I cannot touch her very easily without wanting intercourse. After intercourse I can touch and touch and touch without being non-sexual. For most men sex opens them up emotionally; I guess the converse is true in that for most women emotional connect opens them up sexually.

Physical attention without intercourse is painful to me emotionally (do not feel loved, needed, wanted) and physically (blue balls).

Nevets1024 · Answer

I think a woman understanding the constant male need for sex would be as hard for you as it is for a man to understand how females feel during that certain time of month.

hardcandy9591 · Answer

Once they are turned on...its hard to turn them off lol

leonheartilly · Answer

mind if I answer your question with another question? ye though not. y does woman have to buy that right, necklace, bracelet or shoes whaeva when they c it and like what they c? ouch pls don't hit me, bruise easly. now, that was mean. you have been a very bad boy *shakes head*. well I hope you extracted the essence of the question. you gotta squeeze really hard.

quickwhitt · Answer

Ok  straight answer from a grown up... we do we always get hard...but what your dealing with is little boys who have to show you they a hard penis. by pushing up hard ... as you get older... hopefully you meet men who have been cultivated ... What I mean is just because we get hard doesn't mean we have to start humpin your leg like a dog...Older guys are usually better at the seduction thing... in a way that makes you actually want to have sex...everytime he touches you... also you are not in your prime...and he is ... women become super horny and insatiable around 28-45..men 13-28... A couple more years and you'll be the one humping the pillow at night while he's like leave me alone I'm watchin the game... you'll really wan't your young horndog back. In the meantime... find yourself a more refined young man or date someone more established in life maybe  say college grad 28-35... Its usually at that age men will really appreciate you more

nberk · Answer

hormones

Anonymous · Answer

I think I feel you I can't kiss a guy without giving him a hard on

Anonymous · Answer

physical affection= sexual action hence physical!

Why does physical affection so often turn into sexual action with guys?

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