Why does she always get mad at me after sex?

my girlfriend of 2 years has recently gotten on birth control and now craves sex from me 24/7(I would much rather just being able to hug her and cuddle). however there is an even bigger problem now every time we have sex afterward she is very cold to me and in some instances has said things that hurt me enough to make me want to break up with her. I do love her dearly and was thinking about getting an engagement ring for her but now I'm not too sure if she still loves me or just lusts for me. please help
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  • i agree with the other answerers, the pills are most likely causing the change in her behavior like the increased sex drive and moodiness. I also agree that this is still not an excuse for her to treat you the way you described. Respect is one of the basic foundations of any healthy relationship, and she should respect you, but more importantly you must respect yourself(its hard to respect someone who doesn't respect themselves you know). Stand up for yourself and let her know that this behavior is not acceptable to you, and you will no longer tolerate it. You don't have to be a jerk or anything to get this message across, but the worst thing you could do is let her get you on the defensive. Don't assume that you have done anything wrong (if you haven't) and resort to asking her defensive questions like, "what did I do?" or anything of that nature. Basically, don't let her treat you like that if you don't deserve it. She will love you and respect you for it. my two cents

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  • Birth control or not,women need to learn to stop blaming their bitchiness and bad attitudes on everything else.We all go through that time of month and millions of women take birth control and act seemingly normal.

    Sit her down and talk to her about this,you shouldn't put up with bs from her.She may not even realize she's doing it though(especially if she's started the pill) but even then,if it's just after sex,then she has to be aware of her behavior and attitude

    • i know she realizes it because she has apologized to me multiple times its just today she hurt me really badly again and I'm not doing anything but sitting up in my bed crying and waiting for her to reply to my texts since I went home when she got all upset

    • Dude, this is absolute bs! Like I said in my answer, you need to tell her that this behavior is unacceptable and if she doesn't change her act, you aren't going to be there to be her punching bag. its not fair

    • I agree with the OP you should man up and stop taking this crap from her. Let her know eso si que es (it is what it is) and that you can't continue to deal with this. Research some other type of pills and suggest them to her.

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  • everyone reacts differently to birth control, I personally got sick to my stomach randomly for a couple months after starting. After doing a bit of research I found out that it is common and changes like that (including mood swings) should go away after 2 or 3 months becasue the body has to adjust to the new hormones.

  • birth control pills change hormone levels... see if she could take a different kind. The coldness could go away.

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