Why doesn't he finger me?

A little weird question maybe. But what is the reason? might it be because he doesn't know how much I love it, or does he just not want to for some reason? he only rubs on my clit when using his hands but never insert one or two fingers in to fingerf*** me. What guy wouldn't want to fingerf*** his girl? am I missing something? never told him to do it tho, guess I will next time. should i?:/
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  • kheserthorpe has the most likely answer: his previous girl(s) might not have liked having that done (some girls really don't), so he may be "trained" not too. IMO, if you tell him you like it and want it, chances are excellent that he will, and happily.

    It could be too that he is inexperienced at it, or worries that he is. You may need to show him/tell him exactly what you like and how you like it. Most guys are more than willing to learn, especially if that's going to get them more (and more varied) sex.

  • Maybe he is concerned about the cleanliness of his hands inside you or his nails. Tell him next time and have a "wet nap" and a nail trimmer with you for if he wants to use them.

    • I don't think its the cleanliness of his hands and he doesn't have long nails. Can it be that he just doesn't want to? If not then How do I tell him that I want him to fingerf*** me?:-/

    • Uh yeah it could, I'm not gonna walk around with your fluids on my fingers.

    • bapify2, You're an idiot :-)

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  • Communicate! Tell him.

    • How? :-/

    • When the moment is right just say "finger me"... that's how I'd want my girl to tell me, straight up and simple

    • Good answer dude. Fingering is something I think you need to have received a green light for. "Finger me, pleeese!" is bound to get the response you're hoping for.

  • Some girls prefer mainly clit stimulation, perhaps his ex or last girls he was with were like that.

  • I think it is a comfort zone think, I am not quick to finger F*ck a girl. I don't think all girls are into it and I like to figure out what a girl likes through comunication. It is good when the girl your with asks you to do Certain things or guides you at first. You could always be really sexy about it and whisper in his ear what you want him to do, that usually works, I think it is hot.

  • Do it yourself first and show him how you like it. Then take his hand and place it there. Then guide his fingers in and out. He should be able to take over and do it how you like it