Why doesn't my boyfriend seem to like to eat me out?

I've been going out with my boyfriend for over two years and we are very much in love. I give him great oral and we have amazing sex, but he doesn't seen to like to eat me out and I don't get why. Like he will, but not for long at all, and sometimes I feel like I'm forcing him to, and I don't want to feel like that. If I'm gonna go down on him for 20 minutes and he only goes down on me for 3, that's not really fair... I think he might not like it because during sex I can come so easily and fast, but with oral it takes more time and he doesn't take a lot of time for it and so I don't always cum. I just don't get it ://i don't want to like force him into eating me out anymore by like sitting on his face or always having to pull his head down there. Please help
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haha and yes, I keep it very clean down there. Shaved and everything... I have good hygiene
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  • Im a girl, 20 years old. Attractive, Always clean down there i make sure i am, especially before i think anythings going to happen in the bedroom. But i have exactly the same problem we have been with each other for around a year now and still the same problem, i will give him the best oral.. even swallow overtime.. then when he goes down on mer he won't do it for longer than a minute!! so frustrating like i can't even relax or even thinking about 'finishing' because i know hell be back up soon.. i think its so unfair but i think its very selfish.. like just recently i thought YESSS finally because he went down on me and then he just got up and asked me to suck his dick.. its just selfish i don't think there's anything to it.. if they say its because 'you taste bad' or whatever BULL*** excuses excuses be a man and eat out your girl. Your dick probably tastes like prawn cocktail crisps most of the time but i bet your girl still goes through with it!! Girls, i think we should say something.. i really want to i just don't know what to say?

  • Do the same thing, spend a total of 20 seconds down there and act like you've done your job.

    You should probably talk about this, it won't be good to bottle it up. It might result in answers you will not like though, or put a strain on the relationship depending on how you both handle yourselves.

  • Why? I'm sure he pulls your head down to suck on his penis. Why shouldn't you do the same. You should try a lot of foreplay before he goes down so it won't take you so long. Yeah, guys are kind of selfish dicks when it comes to oral.

Most Helpful Guys

  • The best thing to do would be to simply ask him- The taste of a vagina, even one that is quite clean, isn't always for everyone. Additionally, the vagina's acidic nature can often be compared to the taste of batteries at various times of the month. It really may not be an issue at all with your hygiene but rather just a personal thing with the guy in question. Just in the way some women find it incredibly erotic to swallow a man's semen, others still avoid the whole oral scene entirely- it's all just personal preference and certainly not a reflection on your cleanliness.

  • Some guys love it and so guys don't to be honest. I love doing it to my girl even though she can't get off that way. Those guys who don't like it typically think its gross and yes I know that is a double standard. Other than I don't know cause I like it.

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  • it's preference. I personally don't like it because I smell ass when I get down there and that's kinda gross. Also when you come it taste tangy and funky. We can say it's coming and bust into a sock or something but yours is hard... I suppose... unless you say it and we stop. Fuck I dunno... ask him?

  • well it could be an issue with him.

    one time I went down on a girlfriend and I got something in my mouth like cotten whetever!and was like a year b4 I did it 2 her again

  • Is your vagina clean?

    If it is then, he's gay. Haha

  • In my opinion... I love to eat my women's pussy. I love the smell and taste but if a women has been with a lot of men or guys that are man whores... I won't eat it.

  • maybe you should just break up with him if he's that dumb

  • I'm in the same boat with you 2 years I do it for to 30mins he loves it but never does it to me, I think it's very unfair and selfish of him I always do down but it's like he's scared to eat my pussy it's like I wash it, it's clean you jus don't wanna have it face in it at all but I'm like I'm done no, no sex no oral nothing don't touch me at all.. until he obeys what I want.

  • Maybe he saw that documentary about Michael Doughlas.

  • I have the same problem. l don't know what is wrong. I have a very good hygiene (always clean), I am very atractive... I can't understand why he doesn't like my p***? We discuss about this issue so many times. I asked if it does smell or taste bad, He said that it doesn't smell at all t's just a little bit salty. I don't know what to do :(