Why doesn't my guy wanna have anal sex with me anymore?

My guy used to always love doing anal, in fact he would normally be the one to initiate it. He's always been adventerous and up for anything. Now all of a sudden he says it makes him feel dirty and he prefers "normal" sex. He said he would do it if I wanted him to, but it's just not his thing anymore. Any ideas on why the sudden switch?
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  • I think the novelty wears off.. I don't think you should be worried if he is expressing sexual interest with you still otherwise...

    I frankly used to love doing anal to my gf.. but I don't do it with my knew girlfriend and I am not interested in it any more...i still watch it sometimes at p*rn but I don't want it or won't at least initiate it.

    I keep thinking about how it hurts the lady and I wouldn't do anythin that hurts the one I love.

    If everything else is OK .. then don't worry

    • Everything else is great. Thanks for your answer. It makes a lot of sense.

    • Thank you for the best answer! my best wishes for a wonderful sex and love life!

  • Umm trying to be serious maybe you forgot to wipe right one day and it grossed him out and he's to embarassed to tell you.how long have you been with him?

    • I'm usually pretty sanitary, but yah that's a possibility I guess. I think it's more a psychological thing w him feelin dirty and all.

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  • he just told u.

  • Is this him 'receiving'? do you think maybe you were too aggressive with him at one time?

    • Oooops should've clarified. It's him doing anal sex on me not the other way around. We are not that adventerous! Lol

    • lol... you never know -- maybe that's what he wants to try next! ;)

  • I stopped after getting shi* on my dic.