Why don't guys like to cuddle after sex?

I understand that guys get hot but it seems to me like after the girl gives you what you want you wanna be distant..Before the sex it seems like kissing hugging and cuddling isn't a problem but after its like you can't wait to get away..Why is this?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Not sure about the type of guys you're referring to, and hopefully it's not from personal experience, but it really just means they got what they wanted and are completely content with just going home or something.

    I myself am a cuddler. Before sex, ESPECIALLY after sex, in the shower, on the couch, before going to sleep in bed; whatever the situation is, I am there 100% of the time :)

  • Say whaaat? I am definitely a cuddler! Especially after sex, cause its like for a brief amount of time I can be all up against a naked female without a voice in my head screaming "DO HER DO HER DO HER"

    Doesn't last long tho ;)

Most Helpful Girls

  • My ex was really into cuddling. I like it to some extend but sometimes I'll just wanna leave. It's not just guys. It depends on many factors.

  • some guys like it some guys don't. My boyfriend loves to cuddle with me either way so I;m happy. Maybe your bfs suck

    • Lol, its depends on the day. sometimes he likes it sometimes he'd rather go watch tv.

    • Maybe he's weird.

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  • Well for one it takes a lot out of a guy. We do all the work while you take it, by the time where done we just wanna lay there stretch out and rest. Secondly it takes away from our man hood, guys really don't get attached to sex so we don't have to be close and emotional after it's over. Personally I don't care either way.

  • We don't like to hug, and kiss,and cuddle, but before sex we have a reason to do it. It gets the girl hot, wet, and turned on. After sex, we don't need you hot, wet, or turned on. We need you to go back to your own bed and go to sleep. :)

  • All guys I've been with have wanted to, some more than me if anything. Maybe it's just the guys you attract, but a lot seem to like it.

  • my #1 thing is to cuddle after sex. just be in that 1 moment ya know

    • so your one of the few that WILL cuddle?

    • yeah it seems to be that way... cuddle and music is my after sex type of thing

    • Lol, well that's good that's pretty rare =)

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  • like to cuddle after sex maybe the problem is the kind of guys you go after