Why don't men like prudes?

They don't like sluts either... so what do you like? what's wrong with a woman who is not open about sex?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • We want a lady in the streets and freak in the sheets who has been in the sheets of only a few men. In other words, we want a woman who carries herself in a dignified and respectable way (so we look good beside her), who holds off on sex with men for a long time in order to ensure that the guy is not playing her and that the relationship has marriage potential (so she ends up sleeping with very few men, which gives us less cause for concern about STDs and what-not), but when she does decide to become sexual with those few men, she is willing to be sexually adventurous, perhaps even in ways that would be undignified (so we feel honored to have seen a side of her that she will share with only a select few).

  • As cliche as the saying is, it's absolutely the truth. We want a lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets.

    We want women confident in their sexuality and who aren't afraid to enjoy it. We know you like it too, and it's really a turn-off when you act like you don't.

    Just my opinion, women who aren't into sex are control freaks. They know guys want it and they know they hold the power to give it up as they please, so men have to earn it.

    That's fine, to a point, but when you're young and in a committed relationship, if one side has to ask for it, the other side is a control freak.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I think it depends on your definition of a prude. I mean there's nothing prude about not wanting sex, or being interested in that. But in my opinion prudes are girls who don't want anything to do with anything sexual. They look down upon it and don't even want to read about it because they think it's below them. And by nothing wanting to do anything sexual I don't mean it literally, once again that's not prude to decide to wait with being sexual but prude is almost thinking of yourself as some higher person or supreme because of your choice to avoid it. Prude is more of a mind set in my opinion.

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  • because they often wants mostly sex from girls.. and after it they are happy if can leave you and go for sex to another girl;) - and only sluts agree for this. Or they like to have threesome with 2 girls, - and only sluts agree for this - so they prefer such girls;) But not every boy is like this.

    • EVERY guy out there desires some kind of a sexual interaction at some point in the relationship. Whether it be a month later, a year later, or after marriage, but at SOME point they do. There are only two goals of any living organism: To survive, and to reproduce. Therefore we all want sex, by our nature. Denying it is not really logical. That's why some of us don't like prudes. Not because we are "sluts" or we "want to be with sluts".

    • ok, I mean only that I think that girl who agrees to be for one night only or to have threesome is slut because doesn't respect herself. And I don't think that it's something wrong with sex! , and people are more complicated organisms than you think, and need way more than just this 2 goals.

    • Well put dude. If a girl never wants sex at all. She should become a nun. So she never gets her heart broken.

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  • They think prude is stuck up and no one likes snobs; they are too closed off

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  • Some guys like prudes and hate sluts.

    Other guys don't like prudes and like sexually open and active girls, and NOT call them sluts.

    Most guys are somewhere inbetween the two.

    But NO guys hate both types of girls at the same time, unless they hate ALL girls in general.

  • nothing wrong with prudes, they just respond differently sexually, but are still great partners,x rather a prude than a slut,x

  • Slut: has sex with everyone else.

    Prude: won't have wild sex with you.

  • Let me explain to you what a guy likes. They want a girl who has a brain, and can carry on conversations with you. We want someone we can show off and bring home to meet are family. We want someone who has a high sex drive but not someone who sleeps around or throws themselves at us. It's ok to wait before having sex, the thing is after having sex we like to see you desire it more from us because it makes us feel like you desire it and want us.

  • Can't we have something in between? I mean I don't want a "slut" but I don't want to be in a relationship with something that I can't discuss my sexuality with, a prude that is.

  • Men like sex.

    They don't like 'sluts' because they fear womens sexuality. They are not comfortable enough in their own sexuality.

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  • Because after years of no sex or intimacy. Guys become sexually starved and crave interaction with others. It begans to hurt really bad deep down. Especially when all your friends and everyone around you is hooking up. Its a burning aching sense of longing deep down. And it makes you feel inadequite as a man. Girls like you wouldn't understand. Because apparently sex is this big evil thing that only "sluts" or "bad girls" enjoy. Good girls don't have sex or ever talk about it in your eyes.

    • I completely agree with the idea supported in the answer, but not the way it is reflected to the question asker as if she is the "target".

  • You're offering both extremes, and they're hard to live with...

    Prudes can be a big wet blanket when it comes to enjoying sex. A partner would never give me oral sex (and not want to receive it either, though I was more than willing to give). It can be tough for a guy to cope with 21st century realities when dealing with a woman whose mind is made up by 18th century morality...

  • Most guys want something in between. I like the ones that lean ever so slightly to the prudish side.

  • 1) They're not fun.

    2) They are judgmental as hell when it comes to sex.