Why am I dreaming about lesbians?

I know I'm not a lesbian but lately I've been getting dreams about lesbian sex(me having sex with women) why is that? The weird part of it is that I can feel what's going in the dream and I wake up all wet and I get the urges to finger and play with myself...is there something wrong wo th me?
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  • I don't think so. Fantasies can be anything. I mean some people get off on clowns I'm sure LOL. Or even weirder, some women get off on rape situations, actually fantasizing about being raped hard and humiliated. I don't get it, but that's just how they are wired I guess or past experiences or something.

    Nevertheless, don't stress about it. You'd probably know if you were a lesbian or not. When you look at a woman, do you find that you want to finger and eat her out? If not, then you probably just have seen lesbian sex and thought that they touch one another so well and get off so nicely that way and that you wish you could be touched like that. But haven't seen or felt a guy touch you in that way, so in your mind only a woman can do it that nicely.

    Guys aren't usually gentle or as knowlegeable or whatever as women are about how to touch women, unless we get a lot of experiences from different women. But women just seem to know easier and usually women are much more tender and loving and such or if you want it rough they know at what level of intensity you want and can take I think.

    But I wouldn't worry too much about it. If you still are wondering if you are deep inside desiring to be with a woman just for curiosity sake, then maybe look for a willing girl that you might know or a girl that has the same issue as you do and wants to experiment and try it out if you are open minded enough. No one has to know and it's just you checking out how you're wired once and for all.

    But it's just fantasizing right? So enjoy whatever get's you hot. : )

  • nothing wrong with it you could just be bi-curious

    there's no need to stick to a label of 'straight' or 'gay'

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  • no your just awesome

  • There's nothing wrong with it. I have dreams about having sex with girls all the time! :P But no, Mystery Dude knows what he's talking about.

  • if you enjoyed it you might want to try it :)

  • You might be bi-curious if you are all wet. You might want to try being with a woman sometime.