Why are facials seen to be degrading to women?
Possibly because blowjobs in general seem to be depicted as degrading noted by how performing oral on a guy is used as an insult ala suck a d*ck or a violence ala choke on a d*ck.
Why is it considered humiliating and degrading and about male dominance to ejaculate on a woman's face? Can you explain please?
Perhaps because it seems most sexual scenes with facials involve male dominance and/or humiliating or degrading the gal and very rarely are facials about positively regarding and treating the gal. Looking up gets facial p*rn gets titles with the words 'humiliating, humiliation' and the gal in the title and video is called a 'b*tch, slut, whore, c*nt'.
What makes you view it that way?
If 'you' means you personally then likely because I find most guys who want to give a facial are misogynists or misogynistic.
If 'you' means you in general then likely because ejaculating is seen in the light of a dog p*ssing on his territory and how most sexual scenes with facials involved domination, degradation, or humiliation of the gal and facials are seen as the gal being regarded to object to be used and not a human being of worth/value other than a place to deposit his cum.3 1 0 1Well said !
tankyou!i like your answer,except that I don't consider a facial as a part of a blowjob!they are two different acts. i hate the way blowjobs are depicted in p*rn and hate when they call sluts the women giving them.but fortunately most women in real life don't consider them degrading when it is with a boyfriend or husband.
Im not sure how to start this. I was going to say I don't find this at all degrading, but I sort of do. but not like most every one else is saying! I LOVE it when a comes on my face! Its very hot and erotic for me and I usually ask for it this way. There are a few different reason why I think this is so great.One reason is just about closeness. I feel that the orgasm(from man or woman) is very erotic, most would agree. When my man ejaculates I want to be a part of it, just filling up a condom isn't enough for me. I love feeling his warmth and sex all over my face. knowing that I got this from him. That I can do this for him! :) Just being one with his orgasm.
Another reason I love it so much is that its all about humiliation. I love BDSM, and I get off on my man "degrading me" or "humiliating me". A large portion of people love this level of closeness and trust this offers a sexual relationship.0 0 0 0I don't find it degrading at all. When it's kissed from your face or stroked from it with a gentle hand, it can be very erotic. Of course there are a lot of other things that I don't find degrading that many women do. *L* We're not all alike.
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Sex at its core is something that a man does to a woman, so depending on the mindset of the man and/or the woman, most any sexual act can be construed as degrading of women if you choose to view it that way.
Like anything else in life, it's all about how you choose to see it. Personally, I much prefer women who can get into and enjoy sexual fantasy and imagery without being hung upon sh*t. I also believe in treating a woman with love and respect, but that doesn't mean we can't have a ball in the bedroom and indulge each others' fantasies. Facials aren't my thing but plenty of things my girl and I do would be considered as degrading by some.
God I love that woman!0 0 0 0It is an act derived from an act of punishment in ancient times. In modern times it doesn't hold the same meaning but if one were to spread the word that once upon a time it was a punishment meant to completely humiliate and destroy a person then you'd come across the modern understanding.
Combine this with whispers of "servitude" based on oral sex and a few hints at being "used" as well as the fact that getting sperm on your face in general isn't very comfortable due to it's rapid cooling and breaking down functions and you've got your recipes for understanding why it's just not that endorsed.
TL;DR: Discomfort + Bad Information = Modern Reception of Concept0 0 0 0First, a lot of studies actually show that sperm does very goos things to a face and being made into products Second, to some people, everything you just explained about this "punishment" makes it even better for them. Some people like to incorporate punishment and humiliation into their sex lives.
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4 4There are a lot of different things about sex that some people find degrading, and yet others are okay with, or even enjoy. The ones that find something degrading, make more noise than the ones that are cool with it. It is never degrading if the other person is cool with it.
0 0 0 0I think it's hot because its very slightly degrading. It doesn't mean anything about how I view the person outside the bedroom, it's just a little power game right at the moment of orgasm.
1 1 0 0Love your comment! I toally 100% agree :) that's what its all about
I dunno. It's like saying a girl squirting on a guy's face is degrading to men.
3 1 1 0agree,but most women can't squirt,and I also don't know if most men would'nt find it degrading if women were able to squirt on their faces
i can squirt(any woman can do it id they tried) and every man I have been with has LOVED me squirting on them, and they always at least once ask for it on their face.
I think it's hot, it isn't degrading as long as the girl is cool with it. I wouldn't do it if she didn't like it, only then it's degrading.
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0 0 0 1this is not answer.i asked to explain why do you think it's degrading
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